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heres the deal. Ages a go i was masturbating (not for the first time) and i was particually hard on myself, i had sharp nails aswel. I bled, but it didnt hurt and i didnt notice till i stoped. If i broke my virginity im scared my boyfriend wont belive im a virgin when we have sex, cos i wont bleed. I want to tell him what happened that day but i dunno how, and if i didnt break it, then ill feel stupid for worrying. My questions is. Have i broken my virginity? or did my nails cut me slightly? Please help me, and if i did break it, what do i tell my guy? (link)
A female doesn't lose her virginity until a penis penetrates her vagina. You may have broken your hymen and may not bleed the first time you have sex, but plenty of girls don't for a variety of reasons.


If you have sex while on your period can you still get pregnant? and if so what is the likely hood? Or if you use a condom? (link)
It's pretty rare to get pregnant while you're ON your period, but think for a minute. When you're on your period, you're usually crampy and irritable, so why would you want to have sex? Also, there'll be blood everywhere. Gross. Even so, you should always use a condom whenever you have sex, because there is no such thing as a SAFE TIME.


my best friend has bein with her boyfriend for 5 months rite they have had sex about 17 times...
He doesnt believe in using a condom,and they havent once. 4 times shes put me under pressure saying shes pregnet and i have bein with her through it no matter what. She lost the baby the last time and the last 3 times was jus a miss hab. But now you see its happeing again she she hasnt come on here periods 4 2 months and can feel movement in her womb what shall i do?? Shes only 14 and her mom will kill her but i think she wants to keep it Please help me!! (link)
Wow. First of all, it really isn't smart to have sex under the legal age of consent, which is either 17 or 18 depending on the state in which you live. It's also very foolish to have sex without protection. I suggest your friend take a pregnancy test to know FOR SURE, and if she is, she must tell her mother, despite the consequences because it's imperative that she seek medical attention. If she isn't, then she got lucky once again and should have protected sex from now on.




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