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i heard on a women there are spot that make them "moan" or feel good..well i was wondering what those are b.c i think ive encountered it with my boyfriend or sumthing when he kisses my neck. so is there such a thing? thanks

Yes there are certain spots on the body that when touched corectly make you "feel good" , and so when you feel good you moan, totally normal. These spots are spots that have alot of nerve endings. Your neck is one of your spots, some other nerve endings are:

*The back of the neck

**Finger tips

**The bottom part of the ear

******Nape of neck

**In where your arm bends

**The bottom of the foot

***Inner thigh

***Under the belly button

*Behind the knees


(the more *'s, the more nerve endings)

and alot more let your bf find them for you =P lol

By the way they are called Erogenous Zones

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When ever my boyfriend and I become "mutually excited", I get really into it for the first hour to 45 minutes but then I just lose interest. This has happened with all of my previous boyfriends. The reason I ask now is that my sudden change in enthusiasm seems to upset my current partner, and I really care about him. What can I do to keep myself from losing interest (this happens no matter how much pleasure i am in)? what is wrong with me?

Thank you

Hmmmm...all I can say is try and have fun with it. Be loud! moan, scream, and laugh. Or add some food or toys or w/e your thing is. Try something new! Buy a kama sutra book and do the crazyiest thing you would be ok with. Maybe your taking your sex life too seriously and it can kind of bore you so have fun with it. Sex should always be fun.
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alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do.

NO thats not weird at all, and if you find someone and you want to try, then try. It really depends on what stuff your talking about though...But it is not weird at all, I didnt do anything until I was almost 16, some people dont until later. Its totally normal. But if you want to you shouldn't be afraid, just make sure its with a guy you trust and please be safe if you kno what I mean. If you need aditional advice just ask

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I know that this is a weird question, but what exactly is a rim job?

I wasnt sure so I looked it up, but its licking your partners umm butt-hole. yup. It explains it on this site

http://www.pussycatmagazine.com/archives/Octoberissue/sextips1.html

But dont worry theres no pics

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hello everyone. Im 14/f/cali and i have a friend that is very close to me with a problem. she told me that her left breast is a b cup and her right breast hasent grown. she wears a padded bra on that side but this makes her so sad and i want to help her . she has already been to the doctor. it still hasent grown (1 year after)have any of u heard of this or have it or HAD it? any advise will help! I will grade you high . thank you so much.

I saw this on a Tyra Banks Show episode. Your friend should wait until she is older because they could even out, but sometimes they dont and she will have to get surgery, either way she would have to wait until she is 18. But the girl on the tyra banks show had a worse case and she was like 20.Your friends problem doesnt sound that bad, but the only thing she can do is wait. Mean while make sure she see's her doctor regularly., and be a good friend dont bother her about it or randomly bring it up.

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how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)?

There is no right or wrong age, you will know when you are ready. As long as you are old enough to know to use protection and as long as you find the right guy that you trust. Then its ok but if you have to ask, chances are your not ready.

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Can u get an S.T.D. or any kind of disease from giving head?? i never had sex b 4 but i gave head b 4 and for like the past year i have this red bump on my vagina its on and off? I havnt told any one dont knwo what it is or what to do..

Yes you can get an STD from giving head but the only way it would end up showing on your vagina would be if the semen got around that area, Either way you should get it checked out cause you never know.

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I am glad these kids have a place to go where they may get some logical advice about sex (and some bad advice too which is sad)

I am just wondering how many of you "adults" think that too many are having sex too early? To me, they know very little about the consequences--most questions are asked after the fact. Perhaps this shows that sex education is not done early enough and it is not effective enough. What do you think?

Well I am a teen and yes I am sexually active. I am 16 years old now, I lost my virginity at 15 and I was ready, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I have to say that it is not about age, there is no right or wrong age to have sex. As far as the "sex ed" us teens recieve it is mostly about women and thier periods, and the sperm fertalizing the egg. They need to be teaching more important things. I have heard a million crazy questions, recently my friend came up to me crying because she thought that if you were a virgin and you have sex for the first time you cant get pregnant, and now she was. We dont need hear every year about how our eggs get fertalized or how we can get stds, everyone knows already. We need to know how to protect ourselves, the diffrent options, and all our questions need to be answered before we make mistakes.

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