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Gender: Female
Location: essexville,michigan
Occupation: foresic sciences
Age: 14
Yahoo: dumb_blonde_move_14
Member Since: February 25, 2008
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15/f

okay so you've probably heard this before but i need some advice. my boyfriend wants to "go further" as he put it. we've been dating 7 months and i'm open to that, but all i've ever done is makeout. like i have no idea what i'm doing and i don't really know how far he wants to go but i'm guessing like bj's and stuff. i don't really know what to do you know and i don't want to be like super nervous so ha is there any like websites that give advice on this? only reason i ask that is you're not allowed to get in detail about this stuff on here.

and please don't tell me i'm too young, i'm not not not goiing to have sex, i know i'm not ready for that. thanks in advance =] (link)
ask him exactly how far he wants to go. or... find out what he wants to do exactlly.try going to
www.ehow.com .just type in what you wanna know how to do.like oral sex,phone sex.etc...

hope i helped.


I get a boner eveeeeeeery time my girlfriend and I make out... Thats normal to any of you losers going eww... well anyway I'm feeling pretty hot when we french how do I make her hot and well.. How do I know when she wants me to do stuff to her...
I'm 14 and I am not a loser -.- I just need help from some girls..


Thx in advance. (link)
well.im 15/f.my boyfriend seems to have the same problem.my boyfriend wispers inmy ear exactly what he wants to do right then and there.i like it.trust me.just take it really slow.when she is ready she will let you know when she wants to go further.this method worked for me and my boyfriend.
try this- when you guys are kissing stop for a second and ask her "do you wanna go further?".be prepared for her ansewer.whether it is a yes or a no.ask her.keep asking her if she says i dont know.

if you guys do end up making it alot further remember to use protection.it may not be a full 100% efective,but it is still 99% efective.

hoped i helped.contact me if you have more questions.
=) 15/f


when losing your virginity theres like a little feeling kinda of cramp when he goes in far or whatever....

well like, the day after is it normal to have little cramps? (link)
i recently lost mine as well.i didnt have any cramps or anything.we stopped when he couldnt stay up (his 1st as well)and i was in pain.the pain didnt last very long either.hoped i helped.


I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me? (link)
well i too has had problems with people dying.i too have felt like comitting sucide.

you just have to remember that your friend cared for you.just in some part of your mind when you get these urges tell yourself out loud that "you are keeping him alive.he is always there with you.and he wouldnt want you to do this to yourself.

hope i helped.




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