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Hi, I'm eighteen years old, and recent became aware of my abnormal vaginal appearance. My inner labia is a good centimeter or two longer than my outer labia, and discolored (i am fair skinned, and the overgrowth is grayish). I am not currently sexually active, but I am still very embarrassed by this. I may be sexually active in the near future.
I do not want to talk to my parents about it, so labiaplasty is kind of out of the question. Is there anything I can do to help this? Will guys be freaked out by this? Is there any way to self-perform a sort of labiaplasty or reconstruction?
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They come in all shapes colors and sizes. Matter of fact, a longer labia is kind of sexy. Especially the inner labia protruding. Dont know whats the policy here about posting external links.
There is a site called sexy labia dot net. Check it out.
I think long puffy lips are real turn-ons.
Go girl!
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hey. im 15 and want to have sex with my boyfriend i have been going out with for a year. the thing is i have heard it hurts your first time. are there any masturbation techniques or objects i can use to make myself be able to be pleasured? this way, i figure, i wont be as tight and it wont hurt. please none of the " your too young to be having sex" speach. i dont need any of it.
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Hello
this popping cherry being painful is one mof the most over hyped things ever. if you guy is caring and patient enough it will be piece of cake.
To help yourself, you can start fingering oyurselves while masturbation. One finger and so on.
Being in control of the entry for the first time can help to ease yourself. I mean if you could be on top, then you have control over the push and it helps a lot.
Cheers :)
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I was sexualy abused two years ago by my older cusin! who i have rarely seen since! i havent told any one exccept a few of my friends! im okay now ! but ive noticed that im a completely diffrent person ! im very rebelious! and i find that im very sexual! so much that ive had more then 13 sexual experinces with diffrent people! and i like it! and im always seducing people my age and a little older like 19-20s im 16 turning 17 and somthing inside of me knows that its not right but i like it ! no one in my famly knows it! i used to be the most wholesome person u could have ever met. And i used to be scared to do all the things that im doing! but now im not any of those things and i know its wrong but like bieng this sexual and rebelious! but at the same time i wonder if what im doing is right ! (link)
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Why are you doing this?
Its because you need attention, more and more of it. Because if you "HAD" attention at "THAT" moment it wouldnt have happened, you wouldnt be living this nightmare, a thing that you never wanted to be...
Would you last your whole life like this? You are 17. So 10 more years of wild sex awaits you. After that? Thats when you need attention of the right kind. thats when sex will be more about love and less about it being wild. You have time with you. So this lonely, ex-ho who lives with a cat looks good on you after 15 years? Or is it a "woman" who lives with her family and 'have" a cat?
Think about it. Post here. We will talk more here.
Cheers
PS : I was at the receiving end of the same once. So i do know what you are going through.
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hi , i was just wonderin what is a 69'r (im not sure if thats how to right it) please help (link)
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Hello
69 is a sexual position, where both partners face the others' genitals and perform oral sex.
ie; for example, a woman lying on her back, and a man lying on top of her with his genitals in contact with her mouth and at the same time performing oral sex on his female partner.
So the term 69
Cheers
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im 13/f. im straigt but i always look up porn on the interrnet and love looking at naked girls. but im not a lesbian. im not even bi. but why do i like looking at it so much. like i get wet when i even think about it. i dont know why!
help!
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You are 13 dear, you are growing and you are going through a phase where hormones are literally rushing.
besides theres nothing wrong with being a bi/lesbian.
Lets wait somemore time and you will know what you are. So lets not worry now.
naked girls are beautiful to look at. So theres nothing wrong.
Cheers
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16/f
How do you tell a guy you want them to feel you up? :/ Like TELL them without saying anything, but kind of implying it.
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Its our birth right.:)
you dont have to say anything. Just dont prevent us.
he he
On a serious note, you dont have to.
Just let yourselves go with the mood.
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just a strange thought a guy wearing underwear is understanble as his manhood gets excited seeing erotic...y do women wear panties n bras?? How would their body react when they get excited(i have heard tits become hard n sharp)
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Breats move, jiggle and you have chances of getting hurt (Pain is a better ward). And its helps you keep them in shape over the time. You dont want to be all saggy after some point nah?
Panties : Staining your light color pants, Skin in contact with rough clothing(Denim etc) which are prime reasons.
Vilva is a soft area, you dont want to get irritations there from a rough external cloth do you?
Cheers
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Well, its kinda awkward to talk about this to my friends or mom. I like this guy, and i have no expirience, but he has a lot. I am 14, and i have never made out with anyone :\, and he had already made out with at least 5 people, and has fingered his ex, and my friend gave him a blow job.
Well, i think he kinda likes me and i want to make oout with me, but i dont want him to tell people i was bad, and i dont want to do it in front of people. What should i do??
Also, about the finger thing, well, i dont think it will get that far, but should i shave my vagina? Dont say, "Its up to you" just tell me what a guy would want...Sorry its so long, and thanks :] (link)
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Darl
You are 14, a whole beautiful life awaits. If you are not sure about him keeping a secret OR if you dont think you are confortable with people knowing it, i would say wait. I mean lets have some self esteem. Lets not be a cheap target. Flirt Flirt and Flirt more. if hes genuinely interested, then he will stick around. And by that time you will ahve a clearer vision and thoughts to decide what you want and what you dont.
Cheers
Shaving : Is this your first time? Then trim it close. because IF you are going to let this guy, then you dont want to appear with cuts other random weird things as a post-shave gift.
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hello, i am 15/female
this is probably a stupid question but i need to know.
my vagina, the inner labia cums outs of the outta labia because it seem to be so big, so you can see my inner labia from outside the vagina [[if that makes sense]]
i don't know if this is right or not, and because of this i am scared to do things with boys incase i have something wrong and they think i am weird.
also should i be shaving my pubic hair?
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Relax
Its perfectly normal for the inner and outer labias to be like that. And yes your question DID make sense. Its perfectly normal and its beautiful too.
Regarding Shaving, its entirely upto you. If you feel comfortable without hair, then go ahead. Be careful for razor burns or cuts.
Thats all
Good luck.
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