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i'm 17/f and i want to know if i'm like ok looking... i know its hard to tell without a picture but i'll try to explain lol. My bf says i have the nicest body but i'm like ew i look gross. Please don't answer with things like its about personal prefference or its whats on the inside that counts.
i'm 5'7, thin..about 115lbs, i'm an a cup, my waist is about 25 inches and around my hips is about 38...and my inseam is 34. I know i'm not cut out to be a pornstar or anything but i'm just wondering if i'm ok looking. I've always thought of myself as discustingly skinny and unproportionate. And yes i do eat and no i can't gain weight no matter what i do (link)
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hardly anyone is happy with their body. but at the same time no one is going to love it for you, that's up to you. in your case though, you're close to the societal standards of beauty because youre thin. either way, i can tell you that there are men out there that like every shape so you dont need to worry in that department.. just worry about loving yourself and what you do like about yourself. and drink some boost shakes i guess! haha. good luck sweetheart.
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i'm 18/f and i've never had an orgasm before...what are somethings i can try or tell my fiance to try to help me reach an orgasm?
also he's never came from just a blowjob and i want to make him so how do you give a really good blowjob? lol thanks (link)
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watch porn very carefully for bj tips. i could give them here but they can get pretty graphic. as for the big O for you almost every woman will tell you her first orgasm was from herself. or at least that she has learned what feels good from practicing on herself. once you figure that out, then you can tell your fiancee exactly what to do (it might seem weird but good sex is ALL about communication). you can email me if you have more questions, if you want. good luck sweetie.
pseudospork@gmail.com is the email.
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my boyfriend wants me to send him something sexual in a message on myspace to like arouse him i have a pretty good idea of what im going to say.. does anyone else have any good ideas on what you would say?
thankss. (link)
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Good adjectives to use:
wet, pink, tight, hot, dripping
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I am a girl and I went to private school most my life and they don't really teach about sex there. I was wondering if you have to go inside a girl during oral for the girl to have an orgasm. I am new at this and sometimes it hurts to finger so I wasn't sure if I had to have a finger in me in order to reach orgasm. Thanks. (link)
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Everyone is different regarding how they reach orgasm. Some people don't get off on penetration at ALL, some love it. And 99.9% of women like clitoral stimulation. There IS a right way to finger. Make sure hands are clean and nails are short. Curl your fingers a bit like as if you were saying "Come here." It's just something you have to experiment with to become good with, like everything else in sex. Random other tip: during female oral, sticking the tongue in the hole feels so amazing.
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Apart from washing and cleaning yourself properly and regulary is there anything else I can do to improve the taste/smell of my vagina?
Like ive looked at some flavoured lubricants, but they taste disgusting.
Does anyone have any suggestions on anything i could do or a good type of flavoured lubricant? (link)
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A REAL man likes the natural smell/taste. Just remember that. You shouldn't worry too much about it because douches or even excessively washing your vagina can cause mild infection because your vagina needs those certain "friendly" bacteria to work properly. Vaginas are kind of like cats. They don't seem like they're very clean, but they always are.
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15/m
how big do you have to be to wear a magnum? normal condoms are too tight on me and cut off the circulation.
i'm alittle more than 8inches. is that big enough? (link)
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Magnums have much less to do with length than they do width. If regular condoms are tight, you definitely should get magnums. I call them "the golden ticket!"
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ok so my girlfriend is going to give me a blowjob very soon, and though neither of us want to admit it, we both have our questions
like..
where do i uh. ejaculate
ive heard the whole spit or swallow deal, but i cant imagine that enjoyable either way hah (link)
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if she wants to swallow, let her obviously.
ask if it's okay to have it in her mouth at all. if not, just do it in a tissue. or your hand first and then a tissue. if youre about to cum you can even take it away from your mouth a second and jerk it off a little into a tissue or your hand or both. if she doesnt care and wants it in her mouth and then spits it out into a tissue, that's also another option.
just ask her which way she likes the best and try the one you both will want to do.
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A close friend of mine suffers from Bipolar Disorder, and he refuses to see a psychologist. He is in extremely depressive mood all the time and frequently talks about suicide. This really frightens me because I don't want to lose him. On the other hand, I'm not sure whether his suicidal intention is serious. When a manic-depressive talks about suicide, does he MEAN it? I desperately want to help my friend. I can't see him suffering. I wish I could make him happy but I don't know how. No matter how well his life goes, he is forever buried in his formidable despair. I feel helpless and inadequate every time upon listening his depressive thoughts. I hate myself for not being able to change my friend's condition. So here I am seeking advice from you guys. My friend just told me that he thinks about suicide every waking second and that I "shouldn't have any hope in him because he won't be around much longer". My god, I am so terribly worried about him. What can I do? Please help my friend! (link)
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If he has untreated bipolar disorder, it is very possible that he means it.
You should always treat people talking about suicide as serious because it is a warning sign. A lot of the time it is for the attention, but if he has an untreated disorder it is very easy to succumb to these feelings.
If you honestly care about your friend and really want to help him, you might have to do something that is very hard. Tell your school counselor if you go to school. One way or another you should get a professional involved. It could be a matter of life or death.
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I had quite a sexually active life when I was younger. I broke my virginity at 13 and went on humping anyone I could get my hands on.(Of course, I only have sexual relations with women of my liking. This is not shallow hal here.)
Anyways, the problem came about a few months ago when I finally settled down and got myself into a serious relationship. At first, the sex was its usual. Then, after a few months, I didn't want to do it anymore. I can't seem to get it up for her. I try to avoid sex and it's seems kinda depressing. But here's the thing. I can get it up for any other chick, not for her. -___-
In short, I dont want to break up with her, I just don't want to have sex with her. (link)
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There is something under the surface here. Something about the way you feel about yourself and/or the relationship. It's up to you to figure out what that something is.
A lot of times it's something that is seemingly unrelated, but is indeed the cause. Anxiety about something completely unrelated, for example.
I strongly suggest you seek couples therapy or sex therapy.
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hi there my name is pleasure (a girl)from dade county,florida and i am 15 years old i need advice on first time sex i have many questions?
I would like to know if i would cry when i lose my viginity and how much will it hurt?????(i really need to kno cuz i am very scared and i need to kno how i can get over this fear?????
~Pleasure
dade county,florida (link)
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It depends on how experienced the guy is and how big his penis is. Just make sure you tell him it's important for him to be gentle cuz you don't want it to hurt. It's definitely very important to go very slow and gentle right at the beginning. (and probably troughout)
Just so you know, everyone says it hurts your first time but this is not true. My first time didn't hurt at all, it was enjoyable.
Good luck, and remember, just be really honest with your partner and make sure he's someone who cares about you enough to be gentle. Sometimes, unfortunately, guys don't care what girls want in the bed or otherwhise.
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Just a few little questions.
1.What is the average age that teenage girls get sexually active without seeming like a whore?
2.What do guys think of girls who believe in staying a virgin until they are married? (link)
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The average age is 16.
The majority of guys, especially if they are in their teens-20s (aka most hormonal) don't like girls who stay virgins. In fact, a lot of guys (unfortunately) think it's exciting to devirginize virgins. They see it as a challenge, they think "oh you just haven't met the RIGHT guy."
of course, there is a percentage of them that can respect that decision, especially if it is for religious reasons. This is not a fun reality, but it is true.
If you want to stay a virgin until you're married it's perfectly okay and there ARE guys who respect that, but they are unfortunately hard to find. Also know that there is absolutely no problem with waiting until you're READY which is different than waiting for when you are married. Just make sure you use protection because STDs and early pregnancies are, to put it lightly, not fun. (and of course you know this).
Doing what makes you happy is important. Don't let guys or ANYONE compromise that.
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Hi. 18/F
What are some really cute/sexy things to say to turn a guy on?
What are some really cute/sexy things to do to turn a guy on?
All in ALL, Whats the best way to turn a guy on.
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Keep trying different things and see what his response is.
Grabbing the package is the most effective and works every time. Grab it and smile and say "I like that."
A lot of times what turns people on is if they are not expecting it. You guys could be doing something completely non-sex related and try just taking your shirt off. He probably won't complain or ask why, but if he does just say "I know you like it" or "Don't you like it? I could put my shirt back on if you want."
Nibble his ears, breathe hot breath into them.
Suck his fingers. I have not found one guy that doesn't like this. It feels a little weird to us girls but they imagine that it's their penis and it gets them very excited.
Run your hands on his body. Even with clothes on. Get very close to the top of his pants. Run your fingers a little bit on the inside of the pants/boxers. They love this. It's the anticipation of your hand getting closer. Same thing goes for grabbing his thigh very close to where his penis is.
Ask him to give you a massage. Keep your shirt on at first and then after a bit take it off and tell him it makes you feel more comfortable.
Try these and see if they work! If they don't for some odd reason then send me an email at pseudospork@gmail.com and I'll tell you more if you want.
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I had sex for the first time on Saturday with my boyfriend. Sunday and Monday we kept having sex but it got really .. intimately to the point of ouch. That night I bled as if I was getting my period, which I can understand.. next day it was like I have my period and i've had it since, but now it hurts when I pee, and i'm peeing alot. I'm also a diabetic .. I don't know if it could be my sugars or if its a STD, or related to sex ? My pelvis area hurts cramp wise and when I pee it feels like it has to pee more, but it hurts too much. Is there anything wrong with me or is this normal? (link)
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i'm sure you figured this out by now but those are the classic symptoms of a urinary tract infection also known as a bladder infection. these CAN be related to sex and also can be related to a lot of non sex things. they are extremely common, especially in women.
easily treated- you just go to the doctor and get some antibiotics.
hope youre feeling better now or soon!
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everyone always says that you should be totally comfortable before you have sex, and that if youre nervous youre not ready.. but then people always say youre gonna be nervous your first time. so how can you tell? (link)
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if youre with a boy you really like and you start doing other things and if he tries to have sex with you and you have no problem with it but just have little jitters cuz you've never done it before, then go for it.
you'll know the difference. right now it's probably not-ready nervousness.
point is, don't rush it. that might lead to regret and that's not a fun feeling.
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I was wondering what the chances of pregnancy are in the following scenario:
the male uses a condom and the female has been on birth control for at least 3 years. About halfway through intercourse (well before ejaculation), the first condom breaks. After a few seconds, the male pulls out and uses a new condom. The other condom stays intact. The male also pulled out when ejaculation occured later while using the second condom. The only real worry involves the condom that broke for a few seconds in the middle of intercourse (well before ejaculation). It seems like a very small chance (especially due to the female being on birth control), but was wondering about it to help ease worrying a little, since this has never happened before.
Thanks! (link)
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It depends on where you are in your cycle and how well you use your birth control. Birth control is almost completely effective even without a condom, a condom just is that much better. So honestly you're probably fine. And your body is used to it because you've been on it so long.
Fertility: you're most fertile the second week of your cycle, meaning 2 weeks after you got your last period. This isn't set in stone and it can be a little earlier or later. It depends on your personal ovulation which cannot be determined easily.
Hope this helps!
Louise : )
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