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Q: I'm too embarrassed to ask this in any other way but anonymously. I'm 19 and female.
Basically, I've never had an orgasm. I've tried to masturbate and nothing. I have a boyfriend who's gone down on me, nothing. I researched and I know the key to it is stimulating the clitoris, and I know where it should be, but I can't seem to make things work. I'm comfortable with my body, and I am so distraught and confused and upset with the fact that I can't experience what's supposed to be amazing. This isn't to say I don't experience pleasure, I just can't seem to get a big finish.
I'd heard about women who can't have orgasms in the past, and I wondered, solemnly, if I am one of the unfortunate few. Is that really possible?
I just need some solid advice. Thanks
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is there something wrong with you? no. there is something called female orgasmic dysfunction. in order to get an orgasism it involves physhcology and emotional well being.and actually it turns out 1/3 of woman have difficulties. here are a few websites .
Women without orgasm: now or not ever
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Q: Do guys with biggish penises get dizzy or like feel symptoms of blood loss when they get hard. I would imagine it takes a bit of blood to make it get that big.
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its a question! dont be embarassed. well the body compensates for blood loss. when ppl get blood taken some they can get a few pints of blood taken and feel fine. so the answer is no, being dizzy is the last thing on his mind :)
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Q: I know everyone's vagina smells, but I'm wondering if there's some time of cream or wipe I could use before having sex so that it doesn't?
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there are things called dousches which is liquid that leaves a fresh scent but i do recommend using them for several reasons. (a) they have been linked to increasing amounts of vaginal infections which doesnt sound too nice to me (b) they wash away natural lubricants for sex which cause sex to not be painful. (c) most guys dont mind the smell if its slight. and dont use any creams on your vagina ever!there are great quality wipes called summers eve. they work good. they have a bunch of products for woman.
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Q: Hey all,
I get really horny when I have my periods. I was just wondering if this is normal because of all the hormones in my body or was it something else?
Thanks in advance
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hmm for me its the totally the opposite for me. i get all lik grr dont touch me !! ha ha but its different for every woman.Hormones do some crazy things sometimes.
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Q: Hi im 18 years old... and im sexual active with my boyfriend for over 5 months... well to get to the point, I always have wet spots on my underwear and i shower twice a day and I clean myself down there very well... I don't know what that is and it has a funny odor to it.... do I have an infection or something? Please help and let me know!
Thanks.
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i have the same thing. i worried about it also and i talked to my gyn about it and he told me that the vagina produces daily lubrication to keep everything down there..well moist. and as for the odor....every woman has her scent. if u get any itching,burning,irritation or strong odor then that isn't normal and could be a UTI or a yeast infection. whatever you do, do not do not use a doushe they have been proven to cause more problems opposed to fixing them. slightly scented wipes are good to use though.:)
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Q: ok, im 18 and female, and about a week ago, me and my bofriend had sex, and it was my first time, not his, well, when i got home i went to the bathroom and it burnt a little and i was bleeding a lot. is it normal for a girl to bleed a lot when they first lose their virginity, it stopped after about 3 days, but we had sex again and i started bleeding a little again, is this normal. the last time i bled from it, wasnt so bad, but im just worrying that we did something wrong and thats why i was bleeding so bad. please help...thanks
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its completly normal to bleed even everytime. if you get any other symptoms go to your OB/GYN
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Q: do you have a bone in ur vigina like that u can feel?
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other then your pelvic bone no
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Q: how do you know if your cherry has been popped? like i know you can pop it by rideing a horse or a bike or even putting in a tampon. im a virgin so naturally i think i would have mine still but how would i know if its been poped when i was younger or something?
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u would know because of the bleeding which is minimal and the uncomfortable irritating pain will let u know i havent heard of to many cases of non sexual innonence taking but everyones different
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Q: can you have sex when you are on your period?
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it is technically the best time to avoid any chance of pregnancy not that its not possible...but it reduces chances.for me having sex with my period is kinda painful but its different for everyone. so yes u can....should u? i dont think so.
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Q: if you have sex with someone bigger then your boyfriend.... can they tell?
i have been with this guy for 3 years and made a drunk mistake with someone else who was alot bigger then my boyfriend. so he fits perfectly inside me...can he tell i cheated on him the next time we have sex?
i heard you could.
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no they will not be able tell.promise its impossible.but honesty is best for the sake of both of you.
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Q: Is suicide the only way out? Please, no one word answers.
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absolutly not. i am speaking from a next to er bedside, respirator and surrounding doctors view. there is always #s and hotlines that you can talk to and the person on the other side. hang in there sweetie
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Q: Hey! I had sex for the very first time about a month ago, and since then my boyfriend and I did it 4 or 5 times. my question is "How long will it take for me to start enjoying sex?" some people say after 5 times, it stop hurting and after 10 times it starts feeling good. I would like to know if it's true because right now, it doesn't really hurt anymore but I still don't feel like it is as good as everyone says! And I dont think ive had an orgasm yet...
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well... putting aside all of me and my bfs troubles, i finally enjoy sex.he is my first true bf. although i didnt lose my virginity to him,he taught me how to enjoy sex.i agree that when you first lose your innonence it is a not beautiful pleasure experience.after i lost it with him i would fake orgasisms cuz i never once had a real one.[i was on bottom] BUTwith my bf now...girl jump on top.its amazing:] i have a orgasism every time, but i can only get one in that position.everyones different though:]
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Gender: Female Location: stamford ct Age: 16 Member Since: March 10, 2010 Answers: 34 Last Update: April 14, 2010 Visitors: 3570
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