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You sound really hott. And I want to fuck you until the break of dawn. And then maybe if you're good enough you can suck my dick too.
:P Yeehaw

LOL Yeah let's do it...

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i have a ? about the lips down there. one of them is bigger than the other one. and the flaps and stuff are really.. uneven. like some r bigger on one side (for ex. the lips) is this normal???

my second question is that on one side it is really itchy sometimes and i always have to itch it. its been like this for a few weeks nwo but i dont want to tell my mom because i dont know if its becuz ive been... um... rubbing down there too much because of masturbating. sorry if thats gross but plz help

1) That's totally normal.
2) If you're itching alot like every day then you should see a gyno or doctor. But if it's only for a little bit at a time and maybe once a week it might not be that serious.

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Thanks for your advice it helped this is a bit embarrassing but im about that size or a bit bigger when hard it's not too small is it?

Well...just between you and me...I've even seen smaller. :P

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Im 16 and been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months and weve been thinking about having sex
but my worry is my penis is quite small only 3.5 inches long im a bit worried what she'll think
should it matter?

Well if she really loves you size shouldn't matter. :) And I'm sure when you get hard, you get bigger. So just don't worry too much about what she'll think. Good luck.

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Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it.

Yes you're still a virgin. You're not an oral sex/foreplay virgin. Virgin = no penetration

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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?

The sooner you are honest with her, the better. If she really likes you she won't leave you for being with a guy. It's possible she might ask who the guy was so you might have to tell her but I do suggest telling her ASAP. The longer you keep it to yourself, the greater the chance of her not being too happy about it.

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im 15 and masturbate quite a bit its quite normal
is it? My penis takes a while to get hard is this normal?

Of course that's normal to masturbate so much. You're young and you're just learning about yourself.

It's also normal for you to not get hard so quick. It's the same with alot of guys actually. I wish I could help you more than just to say it's normal. But I am not a guy...lol

I hope I helped you.

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Yes your advice did help about my bf penis not goin in, a couple of times his penis went soft
is this normal?

Yes that's normal. Usually guys get frustrated when they can't get in so they get soft but you can usually get him back in the mood.

If his penis still isn't going in, try having him fingering you alot with 2 maybe up to 3 fingers because I did that and that really helped me with my first time.

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im 16 and my penis is not real big and im a bit worried what my gf will think does it matter to girls? what is the average size?

Size doesn't really matter to most girls. At least most girls I've talked to about it, and that's alot. They all say the typical "It's how you use it." Which is true, if you know how to use it you'll be fine. ;)

I think the average for guys your age is 6. Actually for MOST guys it's from 5-6. So if you're a 7 or above or something you have nothing to worry about!

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Me and my bf are 17 and when we go to have sex
he has trouble getting his penis in im not sure if im too tight or not his penis isnt real big
what can we do?

Well I had trouble with this and my first partner as well. I was really tight and the width of his penis was kinda big. I'm guessing your boyfriend's is too. And I'm also guessing you're a virgin which is why it's so tight. How I got through with it...I just beared the pain, and I had my boyfriend just push himself inside me REALLY fast so I could barely tell what was happening ya know. Ask your boyfriend to do that, and afterwards I promise it gets better! :)

Tell me if my advice helped! :)

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ok...im 17/m senior and ive never been n a relationship...ive been on dates with 2 ppl in my life and the last one i went out w/ 3 times...but thats done...i been told a lot recently how good ilook and how hott i am, but this is way new for me....i dont think ive ever even gotten a look from a gurl till now...im a popular guy, not the most, but every1 knows me...im a funny guy...but wats wrong w/ me...i mean i just got my first kiss! wtf...help plz. ha

Nothing's wrong with you. Just a "late bloomer". :)

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what does it mean when u get fingered?

When someone sticks their fingers in a girl's vagina and just moves them around to make her feel good.

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ok well.. my boyfriend asked my if we could have mutual oral.. BUT i dont know wut it is!! some1 help me to know wut hes sayyin!! i need to kno!!

It's called 69 and normally the girl gets on top of the guy with her vagina in his face, and the girl's face in the guy's area.

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If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..??

I don't know many girls who think their vaginas actually look good. I didn't at first and was afraid of a guy going down there but then it felt so good and I just got used to it. Guys don't care about the smell...if they did they wouldn't do it. So I just say let the guy do his thang. ;)

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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

Uh no. Abortions aren't free sweetie. Thank GOD. You shouldn't get an abortion anyway. Give the baby up for adoption.

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what kinda of sites could i go to and get help about sex and teenage pregnancey?

I know one that has some stuff http://www.beinggirl.com

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

That's normal. I've had my period since I was 12, and the most I've had mine is 4 days. Be thankful! :P

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

Guys really shouldn't wear two condoms. It doesn't help any more than one condom would. Get birth control hunni.

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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.

I don't agree. I think you have a pretty bad attitude about sex, and I just think you think because you're in high school, you should have sex.

People DO wait until marriage to have sex.

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okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it!

You're normal. I'm sure they'll grow out of that stage, just be patient. :)

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