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Q: OK..
So i've had Sex a few years ago and i guess i'm under age too and none of my friends know... infact NO ONE knows.
The thing is this guy [Sam] at school asked me out and i said yes [i have been out with him before] and it was going well until today at break and i got told by my best friend [that has every lesson with him] that he was gona dump me for this college girl who is really pretty and later that i found out that she has had sex. Now Sam is the knid of guy that would do anything to have a girlfriend who likes action or gives action [e.g sex] so i think that he was gona dump me for someone who has had sex. I dumped him then in the next lesson that i had with him because i didn't want him to dump me. So now i don't know whether i should tell him that i've had sex or just leave it...
But then alot will spill out into the year at school and i will have been the first to have sex... and i'm not poular..
Please help me. I have no idea what to do and i'm just really agry, upset and worried about what i do or don't say...
I'm also sorry that it is long.. :S
Thankyou all in advance. X

any guy that would go out witha girl who only gives him action is a jerk. thats all i gotta say to that one

Q: I met this nice Italian guy on Myspace,
and he wanted to know if we could talk
over MSN, so of course, I was like, sure.
He seemed really nice but then he wanted to
get on his webcam, so I said alright.
I've watched other people (non-sexually) on webcam.

Of course I had to tell him: don't strip or anything,
and he said he wouldn't, but then I guess he
changed his mind and took all his clothes off?
I felt weird saying "No" and he obviously wasn't
going to take "No" for an answer.
Oddly, I watched him but felt really nervous the whole time.

Not to sound like a dork or anything,
but I've never really seen a guy close up naked.
However, I was kind of disgusted with this naked guy.
I was also really scared, which is weird,
because most of my friends have actually
had sex with a guy and obviously they are
comfortable with even more than just looking at that!

Is this usual? Is it ok to feel a little freaked out by...male parts?
I am really boy crazy and I love guys, so why
do I freak out so much if I see a naked guy?
What if I'm a Lesbian?

And by the way, I won't be watching that
guy on webcam again so don't worry!

ok the first time i saw my boyfriends private parts was kinda gross at first.. so it's tottaly normal... i think that it takes little bit of getting used to and it's completely normal! dont worry!

Q: how many times does a teenage boy think about sex in a day. im a boy, but its not like im going to count, but im sure some sad psychologist has, so im wandering, what are the guys findnings? jus curious
i heard eveyrthing from every 5 second to every 3 mins to maybe anything inbetween there

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