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I love this site so much, I always ask a billion questions on advicenators and I do my best to answer as many as I can too.
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My bf and I have been together for a bit over 2 years. We are both 20 years old. We have had a really good and healthy sex drive up until about 6 months ago. He used to be able to have sex multiple times in one night, even after he orgasmed. Now he can go once, maybe, and then that is it. And when we do have sex, sometimes he has trouble keeping his erection.

Also, recently he tore his frenulum (the skin that goes from the shaft of the penis to the head - he is uncircumsized) during sex. So now it is even more difficult to have sex, if we have it at all because it is not fully healed yet.

I am a very sexual person and this is very frustrating. We have been doing other things but it is getting old and I don't know what to do. I want to bring it up but I can tell it bothers him a lot when I do. Our sex lives just aren't the same and I feel I am too young to be so bored in my sex life already. I have only had sex with him and am not interested in just breaking up with him and going out just for sex. Any advice on what we can do? I just don't know how long I can put up with this.

ask him to go to a doctor, if he loves you he'll do it, tell him to explain to the doctor whats been going on and maybe he can help

and in the mean time get some sex toys for both of you, you can order them online as to not deal with the humiliation of getting them in person,
you are totally right though, u shoulsdn't be bord this early on with sex

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14/f im not sexually active firstly. today i was sittin on my coach and i felt somethin weird so i went to the bathroom to check it out. i got some tissue paper and grabbed at the spot and pulled, what came up was a knot of my pubic hair and this small red bug, which was dead...i think. what is this red bug and is it dangerous to my health?

it sounds like crabs, and you don't have to be sexualy active to get them
crabs are like lice except on the rest of your body, go to your mom and ask her to make a doctor's appointment, it might be nothing but don't take that chance

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ok so im hooking up with my ex boyfriend tomorrow and i was wondering if you knew any tips that i could tease him with...like im wearing a low cut top lol
...i just mean like how could i sugestivly touch him and things i could say that would be suggestive...
i just want to know how to keep him wanting more.
sorry about the brief essay im just really excited =D

touch the hips, upper legs, lower back, put your arm up his shirt and run one finger slowly down the middle and stop just befor his penis, kiss his neck, if your talking to him, don't talk as loudly so he has to lean into you, wear sweet smelling perfume that IS NOT STRONG, but, when hes leaving spray a little on something he has so he'll be thinking about it afterwords

hope i helped

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So today my bf tried to finger me but it didn't work! aand it was possibly the most embaressing thing ever lol cause like his finger wouldn't fit in and it hurt like hell trying to. how do i fix this!?

ah, i'm sorry that is embarrising and i could definitly see how that would hurt,
try having him just slide his hand slowly down theree [make sure your legs are open wider and if your not turned on because your nervous etc. that might also be why] and if that doesn't work then gide his hand down

hope i helped!
i was trying to give advice with out making this wayy to graphic!!!!

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(question for females)

does it really hurt the first time you have sex or do people jsut over exaggerate????

ok from expereance, it hurts a little and it might be a little unfomfortable because your so nervous and not "all the way there" but its not like horrible pain, its over quick but at first its uncomfortable and just hurts a little

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why does it itch done there when u shave and how can i maybe ask my mom that i wanna get a bikini wax ... anyother way i could remove hair with out my mom really knowing

when your mom is out one day, go to the nearest drug sore on your bike or just walk. get a self waxing kit . then follow the instructions.

hope i helped
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