My name's lexxilu. I'm a really sweet girl, very driven, and lots of fun. I'm 15 and know a lot based on personal experience and by listening to others. Even if I can't give you solid advice, I can usually point you in the right direction. So, if you have any questions feel free to ask, I'm really open to anything!
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about a couple weeks ago i got a sour or blister thing in my mouth. now a couple days ago i got another one on the right side of my tongue. it hurts a lot. i read something about herpes online and i really think its herpes. ive only gave my boyfriend head once with a condom and once without a condom. im really scared. do you think i have herpes? and if so, how can i treat it or make the pain go away?? please help (link)
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It definitely could be herpes, and it could not be.
Basic things to consider, however, are did he have any sores or bumps on his penis during oral sex? If he did, and even if he didn't, please consult a doctor and DO NOT DELAY.
www.plannedparenthood.com is a fantastic resource.
If you live in an area where there is NOT a plannedparenthood, please look in your phonebook for a Health District, and call them and ask for the location of a STD prevention or test site.
If you don't have a cell phone on which you can make a private call, or SOMETHING, write down the number and carry it in your wallet until you can use a friends cell or whatever.
Really, though, darlin, it's important that you get tested and make sure this doesn't happen again.
Sidenote: Your boyfriend needs to get tested too. Please don't wait. It's important that you know who you're sleeping with when you engage in sex. I don't care how old you are, 13 or 23, you should know what you're getting into.
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omg...I'm 14/f and I masterbate I'm sooo embarassed is it a bad thing? Does it mean that I want to have sex or sumthin? I know I don't want to but still i don't know whether what i've been feeling lately is bad or good it makes me feel really guilty (link)
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No, there's nothing wrong at all with masturbation.
Everyone, (and I mean everyone) does it/has done it/will do it at one point in their life. Don't be ashamed or feel guilty, many a seasoned woman or two will tell you that you can please yourself better than any one can. =)
Be proud that you can talk about it (even anonymously, even on an advice website) because there are really people out there who act as though it's an inferior thing to do. It's not, and um. Based on experience, guys respect you more if you're open about it. Well, respect... or just know that you're a sexual person and want in on that action.
Masturbation is a very healthy way to learn about your own sexual function. You'll learn how to please yourself, how others can please you, and even how to please other people (believe it or not, whether male or female, the "hot spots" are the same when not on private areas). Most of all, you'll get a great release that can, er, be used as a stress relief when absolutely necessary... =D
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP! (link)
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The truth is, you made a few wrong turns, maybe hung out with the wrong crowd, and got yourself a bad reputation there, missy.
If these people have the gall to call you "sloppy seconds" then they will probably not let up and stop their harrasment. I reccommend that you tell them you don't appreciate it, change your habits, and find yourself some new friends.
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
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First of all, it's completely A.O.K. and respectable that you haven't been sexually active with everyone in your hometown, so don't be embarrassed.
Secondly, do not do ANYTHING with your boyfriend/significant other/friend with benefits unless you are totally into it, willing to do it, thought over all the consequences, and know what you're dealing with.
Now on to the "good stuff"... if your boyfriend is "expirienced" then he will probably know what he is doing. I cannot tell you if it will hurt or not, everyones body is different, but YOU will know. If you're uncomfortable or in any pain, tell him to stop. Your "cherry" will not "pop" (meaning your hymen will not be broken) if he is touching your clitorus. Inserting his fingers inside you may cause your hymen to break (which would, in technical terms mean you aren't a virgin). If this is your boyfriend, whom you love, are dedicated to, and are content with doing this with, you shouldn't be labeled as a slut.
Who are you going to tell who would label you as a slut? Hopefully, no one who doesn't need to know.
Have fun, and as always, if things escalate, use protection.
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Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?
thnx for the help>> roxy (link)
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Yes. There are thousands. The best thing you can have him do is wrap his finger in a condom. He might orgasm out of it and impregnate you.
(p.s. if you believed any of this, I will be sure you are in 7th grade)
(p.s.s. fingering yourself is called masturbation. Everyone is doing it.)
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help....my name is lola and i strip in a strip club. ive been in porn movies and different clubs. i have a hard time finding a guy who can just accept my job and love me for who i am. if i ever do find a guy they turn out to be real asses or just treat me like im a nobody. Just b/c i show my body doesnt mean i dont have feelings. idk it just seems like something needs to happen. porn is the first job i ever had and ive been making good money. should i quit my job and start over or just follow along with porn. if i start over again it would be rlly hard and it would be a long time before i make money again. i dont know what to do anymore i need help... (link)
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Unfortunately for you, there WILL be a time when your boobs no longer hold their bounce, your vagina will grow tired, and no amount of plastic surgery will be able to heal your sexually betered flesh. Save yourself the time of growing old and bitter. Either kill yourself now, or go to school. :D
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