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I dont think ive ever had an orgasm during sex. Oral sex included. I don't tell my boyfriend this because i love having sex with him, and im a really good faker. Is there any position i can try that will make me have an orgasm? (link)
Well i had the same problem when i first started so is ok. but take him to a pool or the beach there you'll defetnetly have one. you will just get one top of him ion the beach n you will feel it way better n for sure you will have one. cause what happen is that the dick of the guy touches your wall and defetnetly ur G spot.. so have have funn lol


hii. i was just wondering if wearing two condoms is better than one ?
thanks
kaitlyn (link)
i totally agree with the one below. when u use to condoms it could break also the guy wouldnt be that happy cause he will berly feel it. so the best thing is birthcontrol. :)


okay, [18f] ive never had sex and ive been dating the same guy for almost 2 years, hes not been rushing me about anything. but i really want to have sex with him. i have no idea what to do or anything. i read alot of questions on here that says something about the girl being on top or botton or whatever, i dont get it. who goes on top? and what do all the guys want to do when you have sex? i need tips and answers please. please dont tell me that im not ready because i think i am and i really want to so if your gonna say that then please dont answer my question(: (link)
If you want to lose it is your decision am not here to judge you use to help you..... Well sometimes what they say if the gurl goes on top it will hurt less thats a liee let himn be on top and if it hurts to much push him off n tell him to go softer trust me i been wit ma bf for a year n the 1st three months it hurted me bein on top so let him do that job. N you should always start with oral sex it will help him estimulate n get more turned after you done with that the you see that is really hard you get him to go on top of you and you start workibg your magic after time passes you will b able to change positions but for now i advice you the bottom because it will hurt you alott. Also the moat important of all is to use protectiob it can be condoms or birthcontrol but you need to be safe 1st of all. Soo i hoped i help and gudluckk


Okay, my boyfriend cummed in me a week ago.
I've been on birth control for two years, and I used a contraceptive film.
The second day after, I don't know if its paranoia, or what, but my lower stomach, next to my hip bone is absolutely throbbing.
Not all the time, but frequently, and when it hurts, its not excruciating, but its painful.
Idk what it may be.
Any advice? (link)
Hey..
i would recommend you to visit a doctor. or do a preggnancy test. you may be pregnant. birth control pills are not 100% effective. Thank u and i hope i helped....


were can i get the plan b pill? (link)
hi. YoU can surely get da b pill in your family doctor he shuld give u a prescription 4 it. THANK YOU. And I hope i helped


Hi This is a bit embarrassing im nearly 16 and ive got a really small penis ive never had a girlfriend im too embarrassed will it get bigger?
is there something wrong with me? (link)
HI there and no its ok you dont have to be embarrased........ the good thing is that i have a brother that have gone through that.... the same thing happen to him since he wus little he had a realy small penis.......when he turn 16 he didnt wan tto show his girlfriend his penis cause he wus embarrassed that she migth leave him but trhe thing is that he wusnt finish with puberty yet......... that maybe happening to you 2 that you have started with puberty but you havent finish it yet so dont worry it will grow now my brother is 19 and he said that it grew ebven more........ so dont worry let time be the judge of that.....................
P.S.. i dont about this but my mom said that it could run in the family through your dad or ur grandfather.....
So gud lUCk!!!!!!!!!!


how do i acheve an orgasum by myself? using my hands doesn't work. (link)
Hi my Boyfriend fopund this maybe this website will help you out is about making a girl get orgasm...
So GUD lUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_give_a_woman_an_orgasm


im 15 and my gf and i have been together for 4 months and she wants to do more sexually im a bit nervous my penis is not real big she wanted to give me a handjob so she undid my pants and she touched my penis through my underpants when we start doing things i get nervous not sure why i like her a lot is that weird? what can i do? (link)
You should first ask your self if you doing this to please yourself or to please her.......maybe you are not ready yet thats why you feel kind of nervous or maybe if you try to communicate with her like tell her what you like and what makes you feel good and start form there and work yourself to the top and if you realy like her it wont be a problem her trying to make you feel good...... and remember is not the size of the penis that matters is how you use it....... so dont worry about the size of it.........
So Gud LuCk!!!!!!!! and write bak to see how everyting went.......


My bf and i are 15 and weve been together for almost 8 months and just recently he showed me his penis hes about 5 inches long and hes really shy about it i told him it doesnt matter isnt that a normal size for his age? (link)
Yes its normal he is still goin through puberty so it will sure grow by time but if he turns 18 and it still small it still 5 in thats not normal but he is still young he still have time so dont worry...... Also Sometimes that could could run in the family if his family member dont have such a large penis he migth not have one either....... it migth be inheretige it runs in the family but still dont worry he still have time for it to grow more......... so Gud lUck!!!!


I had sex last week, and I am super paranoid that I am pregnant. I am so stupid.

The thing is my boyfriend does not like condoms, and I ALWAYS insist that he wears one, but sometimes in the heat of the moment we end up not using one, but he ALWAYS pulls out or I push him away. I finally had a long talk with him about it and we are going to use condoms from now one. I am super nervous though. My period is supposed to come next week, but lately the lower part of my stomach has been "bubbling" with lack of a better word. I don't know if it means something, and it is too early to tell.

The question is what is the EARLIEST you will notice any signs of pregnancy. I read two weeks on Google, but is there anything sooner?

It's only been a week, and the week I get my period would be two weeks. (link)
Ok you should not stress out is way to early tell....... If your period doesnt come in 4 weeks it could be a posobility that you could be pregnant... but rigth now only time will tell and your belly if it starts growin..... my mom tells me taht if you are pregnant were your Ovaries are under ur belly it will feel hard so that copuld be another sign of pregnancy... also if aso my kind liquid start coming out of your breast ......
So GUD LUCk and Take CAre
REmMBEr Doent STRESss Out let time tell you and a doctor


when you give a hand job how do you get inside the guys pants? do you stick your hand in there or do you unbutton/zip his pants and pull it out or what?
and what do you do with all of the cum? (link)
Hi!!!!!
yeap you stick your hand in his pants you pull it out.... with the Cum jsut clean it later wth a towel before you wacth your hand.... you'll still will have to clean it if he lets you after the CUM comest out...
So GUD LUCK!!!!!!!


my boyfriend finishes in my everytime we have sex for like a whole year he has && I never became pregnant..&& I dont even take birth control or anything to that extent..is anything wrong with me? I want kids in the future is this a bad sign already that I cant?! (link)
NO thats not a bad sign maybe you'll not ready now......You'll just have to wait and let time tell.... but if it keeps like that you have to go and see a doctor maybe you cant fertiles or produce a baby or something can be wrong with your Ovaris.......so get a check up.....
GUD lUCk!!!


When I was younger I shaved my vagina hair..It got all itchy and whatever, was it supposed to be? I want to shave it again but im scared that it will itch again and i cant just randomly itch it in school..Thanks for your advice in advance,
Gina (link)
my opinon is to use NAIR, the lotion that in five minuts it takes all ur hair off you just apply it dere, and if five minuts the hair start falling out. you wash ur vagina, and that it easy and simple. you culd buy dat in CVS, Walgreens, ect.
or Wax but thats more painful, sop trust me go for the lotion of NAIR. it also doesnt icth or nothing it leaves its smooth. with out itching. so try it.




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