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Q: hey i am 14 years old and my boyfrend wants to finger me. i want him to and i'm not scared about that but i just dont no what to do or anything i need serious help... lol and i am not to sure what happens when he does it either!?
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Try it yourself first, find out what you like and don't like, then you can both enjoy it. Otherwise he might just stick his finger in and wiggle it around, which really won't do anything for you.
PS: Your cherry will *not* be popped by something like that.
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Q: hey. i have a question.. what does masterbaitin do it you? lets say i do it... what bad things can happen? what if u do it and u dont have your period? im scared...
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Physically? Nothing, aside from giving you an orgasam and the temporary endorphin+hormone-stuff and fluid loss associated with that. If you mastrubate with foreign objects you could really hurt yourself. But it cannot stop your period. A very simple summary: periods usually stop due to stress or pregnancy.
Metaphysically, lots of people believe that mastrubation is a sin, because you're using your reproductive organs for...well..not-reproduction.
And maybe your parents could find you and you'd be very embarassed. But that's truly it - no other bad stuff happens like hair on your palms or messing up your cycle or organs or whatnot.
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Q: Okay well my boyfriend and I have recently been having sex through about 3 months and we have been going out for three years. Not once have I had an orgasm, I always have to fake it and I sort of get tired faking it because I want to experience what an orgasm feels like. And I don't want him to give me oral or finger me or whatever, I want to have an orgasm through intercourse. The sex feels good, but there are times when I cant even feel it in me. Does anyone know how I could achieve this?
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Really the only way you can have sex through "normal" intercourse is by finding your g-spot. If you don't know where it is, don't expect him to know either. It's behind your pubis, about a half-inch in - you can get to it by inserting a finger and curving it towards your belly button, or there are lots of sexual positions that are supposed to help your partner stimulate it through intercourse. But I recommend checking it out yourself first, because lots of women find it really weird/uncomfortable, don't get orgasams that way, and because knowing your body and what you like/don't like will help you guide him too.
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Q: its my first time ever getting my period...but it comes one day & then the next it doesn't come then the next day it does..so basically its a every other day thing...is that normal??? please help asappppp
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I'm 24, and on pills, and mine's still stop-and-go for a week. I'd say it's normal, as long as it's not really gushing buckets, causing you lots of pain, or lasting more than a week.
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Q: um, i am a virgin and all. and thats kinda the problem. most of my freinds arent virgins, and i get made fun of. even my father had sex when he was like 12. and its driving me practilly INSANE! im sixteen years old, and i "enjoy" myself almost daily. i am speaking the embarassing truth. one of the minor reasong why i bought a computer was so i could look up porn. and i tell myself all the time ill stop "enjoying" myself once i actually have sex. and thats put me at ease for awhile. i mean, other that that i ok, besides sucking my thumb.one time, a prostistute was asking if i wanted a good time, and as sad as it may sound, i was saeiously considering it. and thats when i knew i had issues. so the actual question would be: do i have problems? is this humane? shold i go out and see a shrink? please, this took alot of courage to admit this, so, please,dont judge me.
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From everything I know about guys, it's totally normal to "enjoy" yourself almost daily. Everyone does it, no one talks about it, and yeah, you're going to keep doing it even if you have sex. Lay off the porn a little, though - that stuff can really desensitize you after awhile.
I'd only be really worried about it if you started missing life to stay home and "enjoy."
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Q: I dont want to sound like a jackass or anything, but why do most women (most being the ones that ive talked to on the subject taht are in HS or graduated around the 17-21 age range) not like birth control. Now it seems to me that birthcontrol isnt to bad at all, and that these women dont understand that seriousness of having a baby. Can someone pleas like to explain why someone would rather risk getting pregnant and having an unplanned baby or having an abortion, instead of takin a pill that would save you from alot of trouble.
Sorry about the length, but its a serious subject, 18-m
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Lots of reasons. Most of them are crappy.
- Birth control is physical proof that you're having sex. Your parents may find it.
- Birth control is expensive and not like buying pills at the store - they usually want to give you a full checkout for it, which is pretty uncomfortable for lots of women (some even think they'll "loose their virginity" by going to a gyno). Condoms are worse, because they "break the mood" when you have to put them on.
- Taking hormones makes you gain weight.
- Taking hormonses also increases your risk of heart disease (not sure any young women use that excuse, though).
- You are Catholic and believe that birth control is abortion, and/or a sin.
- Girls are horrible to each other and like to find excuses for calling each other a slut.
- Complete and total denial: of having sex, of the possibility of pregnancy. Maybe ignoring the risk means that it can't hurt you, or at least, you don't have to go through the oh-so-painful ordeal of thinking about it seriously.
I personally think that a girl who doesn't use some sort of protection has no business having sex at all, because she's either really irresponsible or completely immature (or both). That might leave the burden on guys like you, and thank goodness you're conscientious about it.
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Q: im 13/f and i am a very strong believing catholic. i masterbate once in a while. im wondering if that is a sin. i read in books and stuff that its completley natural but i wanna make sure that its not a catholic sin. please help. i rate high!!
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By the book, Catholics consider it a sin. I was told that it's a sin because you're using your body in a way that God didn't intend for it to be used. But yeah, it's something that everyone does, including lots of Catholics. Your faith is personal though, and I cannot tell you what is and isn't right for you, or what you should or shouldn't believe, or what you should be doing. That's a conversation for you and God to have. Your heart will tell you the answer.
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