Hi my names is Samantha and i am here to do what i do best-Give advice. Ive done alot in my short lifetime so far and i hope that the mistakes i made or even the good things that ive done could make an impact on some peoples decisions. When I was 13 I was deeply in love with a 16 year old and went out with him for 2 years-through that relationship i found out what love wasnt and it was not him .After he dumped me I went to an all time low and i attempted suicide-I failed and im here now and i am happier then i ever have been..And through my 10 day visit to the hospital, I have realized what my life is about, and what I would like to accomplish in my short lifetime.Hopefully you will trust in me to give u the most honest and trustworthy advice that I can give and at the same time have a friend that you can come to when you just need someone to talk to, I am always here, and am eager to help. So why dont You Holla at me and I will do what I can to help.
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hello im trying to get my wife pregnant. she has already had two kids before we got married. i have never had any kids and need some advise on what to do. (link)
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I would look on the internet and maybe book stores on different "pregnancy positions" as they are called, I've heard that there are actually sexual positions that you can try that will help in the process of getting pregnant. Try to plan a romantic evening, and give her a massage and stuff to help her relax. Also try to have sex alot when she is ovulating. Their are actually kits that you can buy at drugstores or walmart that will tell you when is the best chance to get pregnant...It could take a while so I wouldnt get discouraged. It could take a couple years. If in a while you are not pregnant I would go to a fertility specialist and see if your sperm count is good, if not ask what you can do to raise it, and other options..hope i helped
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okay so tonight my bf and i were in the hott tub.. kinda fooling around. no we didnt have sex. But i did end up getting alittttleee excited and i think he did too. But it was all touching n stuff. ANYWAY.. its pretty silly buttt is there anyway i could possibly get pregnant if he did ejaculate? i mean theres cylorine.. and stuff. but idk. just wanted to see if theres a possible chance.
dont be lame with your answers. its not a joke. An honest answer would be greatly appreciated.
5 for whoever can tell me. (link)
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No way!!! Dont worry any question You ask isnt dumb or lame or whatever, If You dont know something why not ask. Anyway back to the answer, No You cannot get pregnant when the sperm is in the hot tub, If the sperm hits the air its dead, and as long as he wasnt in you, then you are alright. Another thing Dont think that if he pulls out that you cant get pregnant, He pre cums in you before the big finish so there is still a chance that you could get pregnant, You should probbably look into birth control pills, they are great!!
Hope i helped ya,
Samantha
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well me and my boyfriend had sex and after we did i checkd to see iof the condom was broken but it ws not. i want to know if there is any chance that i am pregnant and i am very worried and need ur help. (link)
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If the condom didnt brake, then You cant be pregnant. Condoms are about the only thing that protects you from getting pregnant more so than birth control pills and everything else. I would say that you are alright. Sorry it took so long to answer you, ne ?'s email me babycakes9357@yahoo.com
Sammi
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im 15 and my penis is bent a lot to the right
and more when i get an erection im a bit worried
is this normal? (link)
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well im not a guy so i dont know for sure if it is normal or not but im sure that theres nothing wrong with u...Ive heard about other cases like on tv or other programs of a guy whos penis was a little crooked or bent or whatever, so its not just u... I would try to find a guy on here and ask him and see if he tells u any different...hopw i helped n sorry if i didnt any questions about girls or a girls body then ill hook u up definitly...thanks for askin
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Ok my situation might be retarded but see me and my bf have been going out for 11 months and he wants to "do the dirty" but he doesnt want to use a condom he says it takes the fun out of it for him but i dont want to get pregnet would birth control pills be just as good protection as a condom? (link)
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Well take it from me b/c ive been there already..the smart thing to do is to wait but if ur like me n u really feel right when ur with him then i would do it, but be smart about it. I would use a condom but if ur not going to use a condom the next best thing would be birth control..Birth control has a 99.5% effictive rate so theres a really low chance of u getting pregnant. But they dont protect from STD's or AIDS and a condom will if used correctly. Birth control is what i use but i know that my boyfriend is clean because we got tested together before we had sex...so maybe thats something to look into before u do it...hope i helped and just remember if he wont ware a condom or if he wont go get tested then he prob just wants u for ur body.
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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i would get put on birth control and then use a condom and theres no way u can get pregnant. atleast its never been recorded that both the birth control and the condom failed...as for the condom breaking u wont want him to go fast ur first time so dont worry about it
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what is 69? i heard someone mention it before and there is a little poem on gonebuddy.com that says roses are read violets are blue ill be the 6 if youll be the 9 or sumthin like that ..... but i have no idea what it is (link)
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69 is when a girl puts her vagina over the guys mouth and he eats her out and she lays stomach to stomach on the guy and she gives him head while he eats her out...or vise versa the guy can lay on top of the girl but its usually dont girl on top of guy. hope i cleared something it all up for you-need to know ne thing else just ask!! if ur embaressed IM me on AIM @ babycakes9357 n ill help!
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If you gave a guy head and he might have HIV..could you get them too? (link)
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you get HIV/AIDS from blood to blood contact if u did it i would immediatly get tested..
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ok i know this sounds stupid..but i don't know what a hetrosexual is! can some please tell me?
thx (link)
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A heterosexual is a person who is straight rather than gay
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What are some good sex website that show you like positions and ways to spice it up? (link)
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a good website is kamasutra.com or cosmopolitan.com i recomend cosmo to really help because the describe in details what to do and theres also this thing called getsex tips from a guy and they give u loads of information and things to try to kink things up a bit and believe me it works..hope i helped let me know!!
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Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do.. (link)
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Well you need to shave slower a good tip is if you use a regualar razor is to buy this cream its called bikini touch or something and you can buy it at walgreens or walmart or whatever is close to you but it gets rid of the rash or the irritation...Also you can wax but that hurts really bad lol ive done it another way to get most of it is to get a bikini trimmer (electric one) and it will get most of it and u will have to shave some instead of all of it...
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I've been sexually active for about 6 monthes or so now, and I'm going to the gynocologist sometime this week. Will she be able to tell that I'm not a virgin? I'm only 16. Oh, and if she can find out, are they supposed to tell your parents? PLEASE, PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Take it form somewhere who has been there. A gynecologists job is to look at ur insides and test you for diseases mainly STD's so yes she knows your sexually active-and im sure that they have a confidentiality agreement which means that she cant tell your parents nor anyone your business...
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