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My names Amber, I'm fifteen & pregnant at the moment. I'm due around November 26th.
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ok so im kind of confused

i had a cist on my ovaries...which ruptured from havinq sex..well i had a pee test done when i went to the hospital && they said i wasnt preqnant...that was about 10 days aqo

well ive had sex since then and im about 4 days late on my period,

i fiqured maybe i qot preqnant afterward, or maybe i wasnt far enouqh alonq for the preqnancy to show up on the test

But i dont know and i need advice and please only people who really know what they're talking about.

I just want to know if i could be pregnant, or if you think having the cist could have thrown my monthly cycle off balance? (link)
I don't think the cist would have thrown your monthly cycle off balance.
Take an at home pregnancy test asap just to be sure.

Hope This Helps.



13-F

I'm gonna be 14 in a few days. I usually masturbate during my showers. I refuse to do other wise. But 2 showers ago I wanted to try something a bit bigger then what I use [I use the handle of my razor] This was a rounded containor onject about the size of the micro-phone from mario party 7 [I hope some people know what im talking about] anyway, it was in a bit and it didnt seem like it wa gonna go anymore. I pushed in lightly just once more time to test it and I had the slightest feeling of a tiny rip and it could go in

Did I pop my cherry?
No blood came out
It didnt hurt
I really wanted to save that for when I find someone I love enough to actually have sex with

How can I tell if I did pop my cherry? (link)
You'll know when you've popped your cherry because you will bleed, or atleast be spotting a little bit.
& Yes, it does hurt.
Because your actually breaking through a layer of skin.

Hope This Helps.


if I had sex wednesday (july 23) and I got my period today (july 27) that would mean I wasn't pregnant right? (link)
I highly doubt your pregnant, lmao.


Okay, so im going to have my first time in august with my boyfriend. I just have a few sex questions.

its pretty much impossibal to get preg. if you use a condom right?

does it hurt the first time?

can i have sex without birth control?

My periods are usually unusual, so im going to be scared if my period comes late [it usually always does] so how will i know if im preg. or not?

how do you use a preg test? im going to use one just incase.

are you sore in the morning?


anything else i need to know?
thank you :] and im 15 1/2 female. Please don't tell me that its stupid and im too young because i really love my boyfriend (link)
No, it's not impossible to get pregnant if you use a condom, There could be a rip in the condom or anything.

Usually, yes It does hurt the first few times.

Yes, you can have sex without birth control, I'd advise you to get on it though if your going to be having unprotected sex anytime, I'm almost six months pregnant at the moment.

Take a pregnancy test about three or four weeks after you have sex, Just to be sure.

I wasn't sore the next morning, but everyones different.


Do you usually have to take birthcontrol after you start your period? (link)
Your doctor will let you know when to take the pill, when they prescribe you the birth control pills.
Usually the doctor says, Take them the saturday after your period.


im from sudan in africa ...ok i don't know what to do ...my boyfriend and i had sex on july 14 weekend and my period it suppost to come on aug 4 and these days im feeling more sleepy and have lower backach...am i gonna have a baby???:( (link)
Considering your period isn't even suppose to be here yet, Theres not many ways of telling.
Wait to see if you miss your period, then Take a home pregnancy test to confirm it.
Stressing out can also cause the period to be late.


Hope This Helps.
:)


hi im a 15/m and im wondering Do women like men to have a clean shave in the penis area? would you rather it be hairy? or bald? (link)
Everyones different, & every girl likes something different.
I prefer trimmed atleast, not completely bald.


i have NEVER had unprotected sex, and i am positive about that.. but i do have it a lot, all the time, even if its right before my period... the condom has never broke and we never used expired condoms and i never slipped off or anything like that.. BUT i was supposed to get my period 4 days ago. my period has been regular for over a year now and has never came late.. i told my boyfriend about it and asked him if hes ever 'went' inside me and he said no, even though we always use a condom, he pulls it out first just to be safe.. is there any chance that i could be pregnant? i did get sick and throw up about 2 days ago, but we ALWAYS use a condome, i dont know what this could be, please help =/ (link)
Maybe the condom had a tiny hole in it that neither you or your boyfriend noticed.
There's always a chance you could get pregnant, even by pre-cum which a guy does not know when he does this.

I'd advise you to wait to see if you missed your period, then take a home pregnancy test just to be sure.

Hope This Helps.


I am a virgin. My boyfriend played with me "down there" and he ate me out last night. When I got home and went to the bathroom, not only did it burn, but when I wiped myself, there was a lot of blood. (It's not period blood.)
I told him about it and he mentioned that maybe my cherry popped?
Could you tell me what it really means to have your cherry popped and like what happens. I just need information.
Thank you!
17/f (link)
It's not really a cherry popping, It's something breaking through a layer of skin.
That was probably why you bled.

Hope This Helps.


so if a guy jacks off and gets cum on his fingers then he fingers you can you get pregnat (link)
Yes, theres always a possibility you could get pregnant at anytime sperm comes in contact with your vagina.

I'd advise you to wait to see if you miss your period, If so.. Take a pregnancy test.
I wouldn't worry to much though.

Hope This Helps.
=)


so is it true that girls find gay guys kissing hot? (link)
I don't.
I have nothing against gay guys at all.

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I am 19 years old and i have been having protected sex for 3 years now. i have been on birth control for about 3 years now too. i have always remembered to take my pill on time and on the right days. but last month in June i forgot for 3 days. i was really stressed out and forgot. so i got my period the next day and i have had it for the past two months. i have been taking my birth control and it wont go away. but the other day i had sex with my boyfriend and we didnt use a condom ( we weren't thinking) and he went inside me. and that was only two days ago. could i be pregnant? and why is my period 2 months long? (link)
Theres a big chance you could be pregnant, But sometimes people don't always get pregnant the first time a guy gets off in them, some do.
Everyones different.
I'd say take a pregnancy test.


i'm on my period but my bf and i were planning to have sex tomorrow. i think i will be ending my period tomorrow, but i will probably still have a little blood. should we still do it? it will be our first time. what is it like when a girl is on her period? (link)
You can wait a couple of days until your off your period,
I've had sex on my period, It's really no different.
You don't bleed when your having sex, Well I didn't.


Hope This Helps.


Is it possible to be pregnant if you are spotting while on BCP? I had sex on my 3rd day on the pill and the condom slipped off. On the 8th day of me being on the pill I had unprotected sex. I am having some spotting. At least I think thats what it is. Ive been on the pill a week and a half already. I was wondering if your spotting, is it still possible to be pregnant? (link)
It's possible you could be pregnant.
I'm almost 23 weeks at the moment.
Around my second or third month, I exspeircensed
bleeding & it didn't look like normal blood, It was like a dark brown, But I went straight to the emergency room & they said everythings okay, It's just old blood.
Bleeding during pregnancy can be caused by sex, Mine was.


Okay. So, I had sex for the first time tonight. Going into it, since i was a virgin, I knew it was going to hurt. And... it did. It wasn't horrible pain or anything but it was kind of like... the first time being fingered in the sense that I hadn't had that much in me before. It felt slightly good but slightly uncomfortable and a bit painful. It also didn't help that he was going for a longg time. Haha. I want to be able to really enjoy sex. My question is... will it get better? How long will it take until I actually enjoy this? Any experiences/comments? Thanks! (link)
It can take any amount of time, really.
I remember the first time I had sex, It hurt so bad.
even now, with my current boyfriend, It hurts bad & Sometimes it doesn't.

Hope This Helps.


Does anybody know how to take birthcontrol? (link)
Go to the health department, They'll prescribe you some birth control pills that are best for you.
He or she will let you know when is best to take them, Usually they'll say you take them a day after your period or something, But not all places are the same.
& You take one a day, every day, at the same time.
They'll give you anywhere from three months to a years supply of birth control.

Hope This Helps.
=)


Okay, I know this may sound stupid.
But is it possible for a guy to pee while he's releasing sperm?
Like basicly peeing in you?
Just wondering. (link)
No, It's not possible.


My bf and i went to have sex for our first time and i rolled a condom onto his penis and it broke i put another on and it broke he said it felt a little tight is there a certain way to put a condom on are there a few different sized ones? (link)
I'd suggest getting a bigger size.
It explains on the condom, or condom box on how to put it on.

Hope I helped.


recently this group of immigrants from africa came over and i was to show them around school...a couple of them were girls and i ended up dating and having lots of unprotected sex with them...they were about 17 so theyve deffinetly have had sex in africa...i always puilled out in time but do u think i might have AIDS or HIV? what should i do i dont want my parents or anyone else to know. (link)
If it was unprotected, There's a really high chance of you having an std or hiv.
I'd go & get checked as soon as possible If I we're you, Because it's better to
treat the problem before it can get any worse.. Start using protection because
all those people you've slept with could've slept with anyone unprotected that
was infected with an std.

- As for your parents, They don't have to know.
Go to your closest clinic, They will usually just do a mouth swab on you & Your test
results will be back in a few minutes.

Hope This Helps.
=)


Can you get your cherry popped when you masturbate or does it happen only when you have sex? (link)
Your cherry doesn't always get popped just by sex,
Mine wasn't.

Hope I helped.
=)




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