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names alexandra, alex whatever you wanna call me lol. my birthdays in march. Sophmore in high school. 2008 was a horrible year for me, I went through a lot. if you ask me anything ill answer as much as I can. I won't criticize you like others, it bothers me when people do that. Oh and I'll get a new picture soon, that ones like over a year old.
myspace is
myspace.com/alexandrarenee1234
advice
One day i found out that my penus is bent (curved)
and i want to make it straight like an scale can some one help
please tell any natural cure or any excercise
I will be very respectful n honourable to u.So sir plz help me........
prostate-massage-and-health.com/curved-penis.html
I think that's what you're looking for?
yes i have been posting a lot about this situation, im sorry to keep doing this but i just dont know who to tell anymore..
this guy that i met a while ago yeah we talk online and ive seen him twice and ill probobly see him at my friend's in a few weekends but anyways, first he pressured me into sending him pictures which i didnt do. now he is pressuring me badly and keeps asking me to give him a bj. ive said, no sorry i dont think thats gonna happen , tons of times. but then he makes me feel so bad. and no i dont want to, and i wont. but its almost like i feel like this is sexual harrasment. the way he talks to me now..its like he doesnt even care about my feelings or what I want. its only what HE wants. he keeps on saying things like, yeah so just suck it. or, oh yeah your a good girl who doesnt give bjs, i forgot.
this is pissing me off and he is making me feel stupid and bad about myself, really bad. like im only good for one thing for him. i am being so pressured by him. and last night after I IMed him. [usually he IMs me but he hadnt talked to me since saturday night and i didnt know why] anyways after i kept saying sorry but i dont think so [in other words, no] yeah he was on for two hours today same time as me, never IMed me. why not. i know im paranoid but..ugh. i dont even know why i want him to talk to me. i wish i didnt care so much and could just get over him. he doesnt even treat me nice, at all. he orders me to do things for him. and then whenever i try to stick up for myself in a nice way, he just says k. or basically doesnt give a shit. or he just makes me feel dumb. like the whole picture thing? saturday night he was begging for pictures. and..i didnt know what to do..i said, would you be mad if i didnt send any..and he goes, um yeah kinda.
he is mean. doesnt even treat me fairly. i cant do this anymore. and then i have to deal with him going on and off with talking to me. i wonder why he does that..i know that he likes this other girl who lives in new york who is obsessed with him [seems like it] an writes on his wall I LOVE YOU. dont know what thats supposed to mean....
someone please help me
he's like any normal teenager, he's just trying to get something and doesnt seem like there is anything wrong with it. this happpens to me, if I don't want to I pretty much make it seem like im really mad; so next time try that if you want , if it doesnt seem like he cares you're upset, I wouldnt waste my time on him. That shows you he's trying to use you, he probably used to people saying yes, so he gets mad when you don't give him his way. It seems like you like him, just try your hardest to move on, find someone new that will treat you right and not be an asshole. Remember you arent doing anything wrong.
well me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 6 months now and hes told me hes done stuff with other girls and he wants to do things to me, the other day he said have you got a 'shaven haven?' ive shaved my pubes but when you shave you get stubble? is that still classed as a shaven haven? and will he like doing stuff to me if its like this?
thanks x
everyone gets stubble, I highly doubt he will care, but you know him more than me if you think he will care, shave up the day that you know you guys are going to go farther, so its smooth.
i read some answers on here about popping cherries and someone said some girls arent born with one? how do you know if you have one or not? i dont wear tampons but i play alot of sports and excercise alot and ive never felt it pop...so yeah how do you know if you have/dont have one?
If that is true, I wouldnt think that you could tell if you had one or not until it actually gets popped because its so far 'up there' . its not always that easy for it to be popped (sports & tampons) usually you have sex and it pops
Is it really bad to masturbate? I really really really want to. I have not had sex and plan not to until marriage. But I really need masturbation. Is it bad to masturbate. Even if its only every once in awhile. Like every month or every other month?(I havnt masturbated since november)
I learned in CCD (classes/mass for teens) that it was a sin. but if it doesnt bother you that you; go ahead. Its a normal thing that pretty much everyone does.,
i was wondering, if you were to give a bj, how do you do it? and also, what do you do if they cum in your mouth? spit, swalllow or what? can you get pregnant from swallowing there cum?
:)
different girls give head different ways, it usually comes natural, and you go off of what the guys like, you could look up tips on google. It depends if you care about swallowing or not, but you can't get pregnant from swallowing, your stomach doesnt connect to your eggs, and the gases in your stomach would kill them right away
im 17/m im a virgin and im a bit embarrassed my penis is not that big ive been with my gf for just over 6 months shes my first girlfriend and were getting close and she wants to start doing more im still a bit nervous about showing her my penis and about having sex im worried i might not please her or i might not be any good can you satisfy a girl with a small penis?
Well as long as you are 3 inches long, than you can hit the g spot. i highly highly doubt she will care, if you're that embarassed dont be all out there with it, she won't mind anything after she sees how good it feels. if I were you I would look up tips about sex, I'm positive that will help you, it helped my boyfriend! haha
Good luck (:
so this guy i sort of like wants me to give him a handjob and he wants to finger me..this is a really weird and probobly stupid question but lets say he fingered me, would it be possible that if his hands werent washed good enough and had touched himself down there recently, would it be possible that i could get pregnant from that? i mean im not going to tell him to wash his hands..and what if its still under his finger nails..ugh im just paranoid but idontknow what to do..and i dont even know how to give a handjob?! he knows i dont..but i actually have no clue..what do i do?
No, you can't if he has recently, but if you give him one and it gets in contact with his hands and he goes to finger you, there is a small chance of it happening. if you dont know how to give one you could look up tips on google or something, or he could tell you exactly what he wants while its going on. hope I helped (:
18/f.i had my boyfriend, we've been together for a month. when i was in their house we used to stay in his room we are kissing something like that, touching my breast and sucking them too. the last time he put his finger around my vagina. my question is am i still virgin?
Yes, you are still a virgin, losing your virginity Is usually referred to as a guy being inside of you.
im a girl, and i masturbated and im completely embarrassed but does that still mean im a virgin?
1) you dont need to be embarassed, most people do it
2) yes you are a virgin, since im guessing you havent had sex & your cherry isnt popped obviously
Is it common for your vagina to make noise from being too wet when being fingered?
yeah its just air that kinda builds up and gets released,
16/m
Two questions
1.) Do girls like it when a guy shaves their stuff?
2.) What's the best way to shave down there?
Thanks in advance.
1) yesyesyesyes!
&
2) aha sorry can't help with that one,
heyy just had a quick question and wondering if anyone who is on this birth control Loestrin could help me out. I was on Yaz but then i switched to this new one Loestrin. My gyno told me their could be months where i dont get my period at all.. i didnt like that part but i decided to take it anyways. This is my first month on it and I just finished that pack and have YET to get my period, but i have ALL the symptoms, is this normal?
my friend takes it and she does get signs of getting her period. Including cramps, headaches, feeling weak and being moody. your body just needs to adjust to it, I would give it another couple of months and if it doesnt get better, which, good luck!
i know im ready to have sex with this kid i know.
i just dont know where to do it.
he lived too far away so we cant do it at eachothers houses
no car
and i have no clue where to do it.
any ideas?
you could go to a friends house with him, when their parents aren't there, and if its okay with your friends. I don't know, places I'm thinking of its not very private or comfortable.. like I've had friends have sex outside somewhere random at night like a park or a forrest preserve.
I have a serious cutting problem. I just got out of rehab for depression and suicide attempts. I was there for 3 months. My cutting habit started in rehab. During day treatment, I began scratching myself with plastic tweezers during Art. I cut when I feel anxious, I cut when I think about my ex. The only girl I ever dated, 5 month relationship. She abused me and was obsessed (clinically, extreme OCD). She hurt me and took control of my life, but some how i still love her and think about her and want to be with her. We aren't allowed to talk, but we have seen each other a few times and I just break down. She still loves me. And more than anything I would love to be back with her. I know that I don't need to, but after all the stuff she does to me, I still am in love. I cut as a punishment for thinking about, talking about, or anything else about her. Which is hard.
This is mainly a two part question.
How do I stop my cutting habit? (I do hide things and I am on anti-depressants)
And,
How do I get "out of love"?
Thank You So Much.
17/F
its kind of hard to stop if your mind is set on cutting... you are going to think about it right away when something goes wrong, I've been through it. try seeing a counsler, my counsler recommened throwing ice cubes at a brick wall, screaming or ripping up a phone book.. I never tried them though, this sounds kinda crazy but take your sheets off your matress and stab your bed with a knife just let out your frustrations or throw things against your wall, but things that are nice and soft loll I've broken a lot of things because I used to grab whatever I could be my hands on. From now on don't let your feelings bottle up in you, because it just gets worse.
with the whole out of love thing, sorry I can't really help you there the only thing I can think of is finding someone new, that puts you in a better mood, because even though you love her she's making you upset also
So i've had sex w. two guys .
and the guy i'm sexual w/ right now , we've had alot of sex like maybe almost every other day, it used hurt but i'm finally used to it now ,
i've never had an orgasm while having sex, masterbating yes, but not sex. i dont' understand why not.
what should i do ?
try putting your legs on over his shoulders so he can go farther in
can you have sexual intercorse when you have a bladder interfections
s you can but its not a good idea, it could make your infection worse than it already is
So the other dayyy like me and my boii had analllll. OH MY GOD. I pooped a little bit. he has a realllyy big dick. like BIG. is this normal? he kinda just forced it in there. kthx. no really though are you supposed to shit after anal sex? ... and stain the bed
Yes its normal, but whether it happens or not depends onthe person
so a few days ago i gave my boyfriend a handjob...we were making out on the couch and he wasn't expecting it cause we've never done it before but i went down his pants and started playing with it but we never stopped making out..is this the right way to do it?
my second question is, he cam after like 30 seconds...i stopped after that...are you suppose to keep going? or does it hurt them to? i felt that it was really short and i kinda wanted to do more but i didn't know.
and any advice overall or personal experiences on this is appreciated :] thank you
yes you could make out, It doesnt matter, whatever you two are comfortable with. you dont need to stop after he cums, but if he isn't hard anymore I would stop, and get him hard again
I am a girl and i really want to get an orgasm im 16 i dont want to finger myself like what are some good ways it mastubate
besides the obvious having a guy do it, you can get a dildo or any other toys,