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hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him??

TELL HIM!!! If the baby's his (which it sounds like it is) then you should tell him. You don't want to dissappoint your baby's future.

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Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do?

Ask him why he does that. I believe that he is afraid or shy. When he gets close, he just holds back and maybe feels embarrassed. Talk it out like a couple should.

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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..

Well, my mom recently had a baby. My baby brother is now 3 months. Anyway, he's not my child but he consumes a lot of my time also that I need for me when I get home from school. Basically, have the baby.....when you're not one anymore. Now, I'm not calling you immature, naive, or anything. You are a teen just like me and i'm not trying to sound like anyone's mother, okay? You and your boyfriend seem to have a grounded foundation, don't ruin it. A baby will take all your time, love and most importantly, your childhood. I bet high school is enough so having a baby will just add more stress. Stay with your boyfriend (if it works out) and see in the future (like when you're 25-30-ish) if you two are ready for a baby... hope i helped..

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ok me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex..i right now am a virgin..my question is, ive never shaved and he wants me to..but like i honestly dont know how i'm suppose to do it..do you just shave everything? or what..and like what about the hair really far back?? sorry if this questions a lil blunt but i really need advice & well thats what this sites for right?..

:) thanx in advance..i'd really appreciate some advice :)

Dear Thanks In Advance,
If you are a virgin and you have made up your mind about having sexual intercourse with your current boyfriend, make sure that shaving is absolutely your decision. If your mind is made up and you go through with having sex with your boyfriend, BE SAFE!! Use a condom and talk over sex issues and safe sex if you two haven't already. You have to be positive that this change for you is what it is...for you. Don't let the fact of you pleasing your boyfriend influence your choice. So, if you have gotten over the bridge of actually shaving, take this procedure:
1. You have to be wet while doing it. Say like during a bath or shower
2. The choice of female shaving razor I recommend would be Gillette for women
3. When you shave, ALWAYS shave down. NEVER go against the natural hair growth's direction
4. When you reach your clitoris, pull it out of they way so you can reach the hair around it
5. Shave evenly and if you want to go further back, just keep the same procedure going
6. When your satisfied, rinse and wash to get all spare hair follicles
7. Before getting out of the shower or tub, massage Johnson and Johnson's brand baby oil on the shaved area to repel itching
That's it. Simple and safe. When you do actually shave, take slow cautious strokes. The oil will moisturize your private area. If you like the results, stick to this procedure until you have mastered your own from experience.

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