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Q: i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused
Its really nothing to get in a tizz about.Just blow it off,I know it hurts to be called names but seriously all the people calling you names are probly just jealous or have problems of there own and need to take it out on someone so they chose you.Why? I dont know,becuase you are coming out of your shell and they dont like it!I dont know but just be strong,thats the best advice I can give you!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????
Well no its not wrong its just frowned upon! Seriously I know it may feel like love but your only 13!And even though he is nice to you and doesnt nag that might just be part of a plan to get you to fall for him so that he gets what he wants and some guys are really patient!But I might be wrong and maybe he really does love you!I just know that this kind of thing happens all the time and girls get hurt everyday.So be careful!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: can women fall pregnant by a man who is 20years older then them
A girl can get pregent anytime! It doesn not matter how old the male or female is and even if you are on birth control or using a condom,those help but they are both 99% effective.And yes I know that 1% isnt that much but girls get pregnet everyday when using those!So be carful!
Hope I helped
*Lacey

Q: does anyone know any good sad quotes about drinking and driving, death, losing someone, cutting yourself, someone cutting or hurting themselves, suicide, ect or anything else you can think of thats sad
Go to the website "mychemicalromance.com" seriously they are good for everything.Listin to their new cd and look up their lyrics.Im sure you wont be disapointed.Also you might want to look up dresdendolls.com they are also a VERY good band!They sorta have a white stipe feeling to them but their songs are so much better.
Hope you find what your looking for
*Lacey

Q: Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much!
Well 14 is a very young age to be doing sexual stuff but I know what you mean by boring and 11 months is a long time to stay togeather with someone and at such a young age.So i imagine that this boy wants to take it further as well(of course becuase he is a boy)but if you dont know then you need to find out.And if he does then I suggest the usual french kissing but spice it up a bit! Maybe while your on your couch sit on his lap face to face!Then put your hands on his chest region and then slowly move to the shoulders,by doing this he might get the picture that you want him to do the same but stay in the chest region longer!Also that position is great for buttox grabbing..hehe!And dont forget mood music...check out AquaLung,H.I.M(Album-Razorbalde Romance),South,Snow Patrol...ect(im an emo kid)!Also you might wanna check out Cosmo Magazine it has some cool stuff but its also pretty racey and stuff for adults,but maybe you can get some ideas!But Just remember that your still young and even though you have been togeather for almost a year that doesnt mean you will be togeather forever and you dont wanna regret anything!
Hope I helped and that you have fun!
*Lacey

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My name is Morgan,im 16,I love to shop and do girly stuff but I am a tomboy when it comes right down to it!I love to camp,surf,I play drums.I like to read alot and listin to music(My chemical Romance,Sondre Lerche,The 88,Dresden Dolls,Fear of Falling Stars,Gosling,Phantom Planet,Rooney,36Crazyfists,INCUBUS,Dashboard,Scotty Ryan,*im an emo child).
Most of all I love hangin with my homies Dane,Katy,Mitch,Vernon,Todd,Dan'l,Kayla,Jamie,Summer,Mark,Kyle,And J.J!

And I am here to dish out some advice!


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