about

Hey my name is Ellie :) I'm 16 years old from Staten Island, New York. I'm a pretty laid back and nice person :D or well.. at least I think so lol. So feel free to ask me anything, I'll try my best to answer your questions. If I don't know the answer, I'll do some research and send you all the links I can find to help you. Also feel free to add my aim or msn account, I talk to anyone. Thanks!

advice

when i recieved oral sex from my boyfriend it was that great.i wonder why please help.

When having oral sex, the guy tends to stimulate the clit (or clitoris) while doing it. The clitoris has over 3000 nerve endings. So it's like this unbelievably good feeling. But be careful because it could also be this unbelievably painful feeling if he stimulates it too much or too rough. But, that's a different story. Hope I helped :)


- Ellie

[view]

Hello, Im not sure this is the right place to put this.
But you know.
I want some pleasure.
Ive done.. you know.. fingering before..
but its not that great.

How do i make it sooo good for me?

HELP.

Hm... well there's a bunch of sex toys you could use.. like vibrators and stuff. I don't get off by fingering.. I don't know why. But you could stimulate the clit and it'll feel better than fingering and you might even reach an orgasm that way. Hope I helped :)


- Ellie

[view]

How much will it take for my cherry to pop? becuase im not even sure that i have one becuase when i masturbate and finger my self i can stick it super far up and nothing pops?

Do i just not even have one?

Your "Cherry" is called the Hymen. It's a stretch of skin that covers the vaginal hole from the inside of the vagina. When you have sex, It breaks. Which is why they call it "Poppin' the cherry" it sometimes bleeds, hurts, ect. But Some girls (especially those into rough sports) have already broken their hymen doing other activities besides sex. Like horse back riding, biking, ect. So maybe you've already broken your hymen earlier on. Keep in mind that when you break the hymen, sometimes it doesn't bleed or hurt or anything. Also keep in mind that just because your hymen broke due to other activities, it doesn't mean you're no longer a virgin. But I won't get into what makes someone a virgin or not because you didn't ask that lol. Well I hope I helped :)


- Ellie

[view]

what are the first signs of being pregnant? when do they usually start appearing?

Early signs of pregnancy would be:


Nausea
Missed period
Sore or tender breasts
Odd feelings in the abdomen
Lower back pain
Tiredness (a need for extra sleep)
Weight gain
Change of appetite
Sensitivity to certain scents (lotion, body spray)
Throwing up
Darkening around the nipple (theres another word for it I'm just not sure)


and the earliest is about 4 weeks pregnant or right after you've missed your period.. But every woman is different.. some don't have any symptoms while others have them all and start as early as a week into their pregnancy. Hope I helped :)


- Ellie

[view]

ok i fingered my girl friend..... problem is i might have had semon or pre cum on my fingers.... is there a chance she could be pregnant because she is a week and a half late starting her period.

It's possible. Tell her to get a pregnancy test or to see her doctor. Also, if she isn't pregnant, Discuss with her about getting on birth control. It'll help in these types of situations. Hope I helped :)


- Ellie

[view]

ok so this guy and i were messing around and we ended up having sex. well he didnt have a condom but im on birth control (yaz). but im also on antibiotics which affect the birth control. so one of his friends was coming so we stopped cuz we didnt want anyone to know. so he didnt cum but could i be pregnant because i have been really tired and i've started to feel sick.

i just want to know if its possible to get pregnant if he didnt cum

Well since you're on Yaz, It's a slim chance of you being pregnant. But since you've also said your medication effects the birth control, There's still a chance you could be. Also pills are only about 95 or 97% effective. I could be wrong on the percents though. But anyway, To answer your question, Yes it's still possible to become pregnant even if he hasn't officially ejaculated (cummed). When a guy gets excited during sex, He lets out pre-cum. Which still consists of sperm. So it's possible to become pregnant. If you still experience some symptoms and have missed your period, Take a pregnancy test. It's the only way to know for sure. Hope I helped :)



p.s.
Since your medication is effecting your birth control, You should really see your doctor and ask about an alternative to the birth control you're taking now. Or even change the medication you are taking.


-Ellie

[view]

ok its October 10 and the end of my period was October 6th
on October 7th and 8th me and my boyfriend had sex, and we didn't use a condom, and he cummed inside of me. Could i be pregnant?
And when could i find out ( when do the symptoms show and when can i take a pregnancy test? ).
Please help.
Thanks!

When you take the risk of having unprotected sex, You take the risk of becoming pregnant. Doesn't matter if you've done it once or a billion times unprotected, you can still get pregnant. Right now, it's too early for you to tell if you're pregnant or not. The symptoms wouldn't start to show until as early as 4 weeks pregnant. My advice is to just wait until you've missed you period (if you miss your period) and take a test after that. You can take a pregnancy test as early as a day after your missed period. Some pregnancy tests can even detect pregnancy 5 days before your missed period. Hope I helped :)


-Ellie

[view]

so just wondering, do guys like it shaved all off down there or a little bit or trimmed????

It depends on the guy and what turns him on. Some like shaved, Some like trimmed, others like it all natural and full. Just ask your partner what they like best and take it from there :) Hope I helped.


-Ellie

[view]

ive given bjs n hjs before but ive never been eaten out before or fingered. i just figure it wud be awkward n i wudnt know wat to do while he did it. any advice?!?! THANX!

Well you could either join in by doing him while he's doing you OR if you're not into that, you really just have to sit back and enjoy. There's not really a guide or rules on what to do while having oral sex performed on you. My advice would be to just enjoy it and don't stress so much on what you think you're doing wrong. Hope I helped :)



-Ellie

[view]

i just started dating my boyfriend about a month ago how soon is it to have sex with him i dont want to have sex with him to soon.

It really depends on the relationship and the people in the relationship. Some people feel that they're ready to have sex after the first month while others like to wait 6 months to a year before having sex for the first time. My suggestion would be to just make sure you're ready and whenever you feel that you're ready to have sex, then go for it :) Also remember to consider the other person's feelings on the situation when deciding when you're ready to have sex. They might have a different feel on it. Also remember to have some form of protection before thinking of having sex, It's always nice to be prepared. Hope I helped!

-Ellie

[view]

can u get any sexual diseases from masterbating cuz ive been doing it lately and ive notice a bump and some white dots and ive never had sex before

It's a very slim chance of getting an STD by masturbating. It's not impossible though. The only way you could get STDs from masturbation is you either shared a sex toy with someone who has an STD or you fingered/jerked off someone who has and STD and then did it to yourself. But you'd have to of done it at the same time. My suggestion is to get checked out by the doctor if you've done any of the things I've mentioned. If you haven't, then there really isn't anything to worry about. Hope I helped :)


-Ellie

[view]

Okay so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4months now and for some reason he cant get completly up. Im not use to teasing boys and so on. My ex was already always ready to go. So i have no idea whats going on. I try and to different things kiss him bite his ear go down on him and so on, and he just still wont get fully hard. He says its cause hes not comfortable around me. But what does that have to do with anything he also says i need to be more of a freak. What do i do someone please help lol

Lol! "More of a freak" Okay sorry that was funny. But I'm thinking just sit down and talk with him about the things that turn him on the most during sex. Also try to set the mood a little. Make it so both of you are comfortable and then just go with the flow. It'll happen, No worries :) Hope I helped.


-Ellie

[view]

what are the chances of being pregnant if you have never missed a period, have had literally about 80-100 negative pregnany tests done and one negative blood test from the doctor but have had uterine cramping and pain for the past 4 months.

Uterine cramping can be anything (Like the girl below me said) and seeing that you've taken over 100 pregnancy tests that have all turned out negative, I'd say your chances of being pregnant are extremely thin. You should still get checked out by your doctor for the things that the other girl has said. Hope I helped somewhat lol. :)


-Ellie

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker