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I'm a 17 year old female and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. And..well the first and second time we tried it [firstly we barely did it at all because it hurt so much] I felt as if I needed to use the bathroom. I'm not really sure. I have talked to my friend about it and she feels the same way when she does it.

As in, when "it" goes in, I feel an urge to use the bathroom. But the thing is I DONT need to use the bathroom.

I have also talked to other people about this and they say that my body is totally strange. Anyway, the questions are; will I feel this way for the rest of my life? Is this just because I am new at this whole sex thing and will it go away soon?

Also this peeing urge is really bothersome, and really uncomfortable for me. Is there an explanation for this? Or a way to stop this urge permanently without NOT having sex. =) thank you

It's really normal to feel the urge to pee during intercourse. There is a certain spot in your vagina, that when hit makes you want to pee, known as your g-spot. But it is totally normal, and your body is not strange.

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okay so i'm a little scared i'm 13f and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i havn't even started my period yet and i'm afraid if i have it with him something bad might happen can someone please help me i'm afraid.

Your really young, having sex may sound fun but on young teen girls it's a handful. It may not be the right choice and you could regret it. You should really wait until your not afraid, because if you are it could come back to haunt you. And it is really dangerous to have sex when you haven't had your period. You can still get pregnant, yeah i know people say "you can't get pregnant your first time" or "you can't get pregnant you haven't had your period." BUT THATS NOT TRUE. It happens, you might be getting your period soon and you may be ovulating and if you have sex when your ovulating its a higher chance you might get pregnant, so please take this to caution and don't do it just because you boyfriend wants to. For all you know he might be afraid too and not ready, and if he really loves you he'll respect your decision and wait.

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-J.R.

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