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im 13 female and hes 15 male

me and my friend have known each other since forever and i havent talked to him in a while and then he called me a couple weeks ago and i went to his house yesterday and we talked for a long time.. well he called me at like 11:48 last night and we were talking and he was like you should come over to my house Saturday night and sleep over and stuff and then he was like what would we do adn then i was like idk and hes already experienced in that department and im not and well he wants to have sex with me and may i remind you hes 15 and im only 13 and i just dont know what to do because i dont want to have sex with him but then if i do i kno it will ruin our friendship and i dont want that to happen and if i dont i dont know what he will do because he might not talk to me ever again but i know you will say then hes not worth your friendship but i seriously do love him and i liked him ever since i was in 1st grade bc we hung out all the time and i just dont know... and if you dont want me to then what do i say to him to make him understand! please help me

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You should never ever do anything you do not want to do or feel uncomfortable doing. He is older and it may not seem that much (only 2 years difference) but the maturity level and experience level is way different. Tell him you like him a lot but don't feel comfortable sleeping over and well you know...If he is a true friend then he will understand you are not ready and do not feel comfortable. And if he makes a big deal about it and gets mad ect. then you know he was never a true friend. Let me just say that guys are great but also pigs and in my opinion sex is sex and making love is with someone you love completly(in marriage).
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my boyfriend and i will be watchin a movie, and he will start making out with me.. i love him to death!! but.. they only problem is that he wants me to have sex with him.. i dont want to.. im a virgin, and proud of it.. however, he has talked to me about getting married and having children someday. and mayb even b4 we get married.. i dont want to have sex or get pregnant! IM 13! how do i make him stop? (link)
Don't ever let people talk you into things that you are not ready for. That is such a great thing that you are a virgin and I'm glad that you are proud of it. People these days are doing the wrong things and are messing up there lives. Talk to him and tell him how you feel, if you really love him and he loves you then he should understand that you are not ready for something as big as sex!!
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If you've never gotten your period and you have sex, then you can't get pregnant, am I correct?

Oh, and I'm not that young, so don't be like if you haven't gotten your period, then your not old enough, lets just say I'm in High school (link)
Thats never a stupid question. No you can not get pregnant until your first period.

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Do you niples ever stick up?? Why?? (link)
Yes they have. They usually stick up when you are cold. It happens to every girl so you don't ever need to worry about it.
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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi? (link)
Don't ever let somone pressure you into something you are not ready for. If someone is telling you things that you just don't want to do right now do not do it. You know sex is something you share between a person you love and when the time is right you will know it. But if you are not ready tell the person how you are feeling. Talk about it.
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