Hey all, my name is kimberly and I'm here to help. I'm just an average teen just like ya'll so feel free to ask ANYTHING and EVERYTHING and I'll try to answer it as best I possibly can... don't be afraid... ask away!!
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Okay well... my boyfriend and I are both
virgins and not sexually active what so ever.
However, when we lay down on a couch/bed and he wraps his arms around me I get a lot of VD.
Like what the heck ?
Is this normal ? or just weird ?
HELP. (link)
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hmm... you get a sexually transmitted disease from your boyfriend snuggling with you? lol... i think you mean something else besides VD, because VD means venereal disease which is like an STD.
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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
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No not at all. It was just a dare. Even if it wasn't, it doesnt mean your a lesbian. Many people experiment when they're young to figure out exactly who they are and what they like and don't like. Don't worry hun!
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Sorry if this is long. Okay i'm a 14/female and have a slight problem. I met this guy Greg at a party, and really liked him. So we talked alot and got close and ended up going out. But about a week later I broke it off because things wern't working out but I still had feelings for this guy. So one day we were talking on-line and we were joking around about having sex. So I was like "Yea i'd bang you any day!" And he calls me and was like "Are you serious?" and me being stupid I said yes because I didn't want to look dumb. So one day I went to his house and was going to tell him I was joking and all but he was peer pressured me into doing it. After that we promised each other we wern't going to tell anyone. And he was like "well I would like to tell my friend Joe" so I was like okay. So the next day I went to school and Gregs ex girlfriend comes up to me and was like did you fuck greg? and she told me that the rumor was going around and so I talked to Greg and was like why did you tell everyone and he was like "i'm sorry I didnt mean for everyone to find out" Like cheap whiskey I bought his stupid lies! So then we were friends and ended up going to homecomming. While at H.C he tells me that he loved me and everything but didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. So I was just like okay and we were just friends. Well I became good friends with a girl named Leah who was also friends with Greg. So I was talking to her (not knowing she knew about me and Greg) until she brings up what happened between me and him and she tells me that he lied to me nd wasn't a virgin! So i confronted him and he said that it was true so I was mad. and i also found out that he lied about toher thinfs too. So we deicded to not talk for a week... his dumb idea so we havent talked for some time but the thing is I stil like him even though he's caused so much pain in my life. Like the rumors I had to hear going around school and geting made fun of. I see myself getting very upset at what other people say to me like some times I come home and just cry. I started cutting my self and always find myself thing about suicide and I dont know if this has anything to do with this but lately i've been REALLY tired and falling asleep in class when I go to bed around the same time every night! I really need to get over Greg and his lies but I just dont know how! I'm emotionally attached and need to know how to let go and i'd appreciate advice! Thanx babes!
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-Kristen* (link)
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Wow... well you didnt say this but i think you were a virgin before? so if you were then the attachment is there because your first is always like such a huge deal in your life. If you werent a virgin before then just dont think about that last statement. He seems to be really unhealthy for you so I would suggest cutting off all contact with him for a little while and see how that goes. And Im not going to tell you what to do with the cutting because I have been there so many times and i know that you can only stop when you are ready... nothing anyone else says can make you do it, just know that there are people in your life who probably love you and care about you... you don't need this jerk greg, he seems really like a bad guy! You sound like such a sweet girl, you deserve so much better then this ass hole! haha. Hope I helped somewhat!
~KiKi
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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not. (link)
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Absolutley DO NOT have sex with this guy. NEVER EVER do something because u feel pressured. If your intentions on this arent pure, then u know your not ready to have sex with him.
Hope I helped
~Kiki
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Is giving a hand job considered 2nd or 3rd base? (link)
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I'd say 2nd base... oral stuff is third.
~KiKi
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im 15 and my penis is not that big and im worried what my girlfriend will think does it matter? (link)
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Penis size does not matter unless you are a shallow girl. If your girlfriend says it matters break up with her. Shes not worth it. Hope this helped!
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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much! (link)
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He was showing you how he wants it done, if you didnt like it say something to him or dont do it anymore.
~KiKi
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