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JP
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I'm 18/f and a college freshman.
I dated this boy on and off throughout high school, and we were still great friends when our relationship ended this past summer. He had been in a really bad, near fatal car wreck last March, but he was recovering and doing more than the doctors ever said he could.
I found out last Thursday afternoon that he had committed suicide last Wednesday night (he had ODd on his pain pills and they found a near empty bottle of everclear next to his bed). I still don't believe it was suicide... I mean, that's what they're saying, but I know him so well and just can't bring myself to believe it... he must have just been in a lot of pain.. IDK.. I guess it was suicide... Anyway, I've been really incredibly angry that he would do that (suicide or not... all those pills and alcohol!) to me, his mom, and his cousin - the three people who loved him most - not to mention any other friends.
A few years ago, his half sister was killed from drinking and driving, and I can't seem to bring myself to think that he would leave his mom all alone...
Rather than making me sad, I'm just .. pissed off that he would do this - leave us all here to wonder why and to pick up the pieces all over again. I'm even more pissed that he's left me here to deal with his sisters death all by myself (her and I were BEST friends, and I blamed myself for her death)...
Anyway... am I crazy for being so angry with him?! I mean, of course I'm sad that he's gone, but my anger is overpowering every other feeling I have... (link)
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I'm sorry for your losses.
but you're not crazy for being angry. any would be, as well as confused.
just remember, neither death had anything to do with anything you did, and that, even if you still feel that way, his mom could really use a friend now, someone who could tell her things that maybe she didn't know.
Good luck.
JP
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My boyfriend and i just started having sex about a month ago. And a couple of times i have bleed. I did lose my virginity to him but i didnt bleed the first time. is it normal to bleed after the first time? we do it more than once at a time ...could it be that? please help (link)
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Yes, it is normal to bleed. It could just be that you were tense during sex. it will stop soon, eventually.
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My last period was on January 16th, my fertile days was on January30 to february 3th,i have intercourse on january 29th after on or two hours i start having some cramps on my lower abdominal through now(4.5 weeks), i supposed to have my period but no period,you think i might be pregnant?
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I'm no doctor, but its sure sounding like the demons pink cross. (watch Juno, you'll get it) it'll also give you some positive feelings.
i'd go to cvs and buy 3 pregnancy tests. don't freak until you know for sure.
2 out of three positives is usually a yes.
Good luck. I wish you well.
JP
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15/f
So saturday night I spent the night at my friend M's house , we're not talking , but we used to. So things led to one another though we had sex I guess? It didn't really hurt like at all , as much as him fingering me ( guess I don't like getting fingered ?) . I don't regret it or nothing. I don't really see it as me losing my virginity to him , I don't really know if he even popped my cherry. But I know pretty much a penis entering a vagina is sex. Ohh yes we used a condom, and I have no worry that I might be prego. I probably wont talk to him no more, because I realized that night I really really don't like him. Not for nothing he did, I just don't . Buhh yeah I've been bleeding like since then & I thought it was my period, but guess not cause its like really light, so how long do you think I'll keep bleeding. And do you have any opinions about my first time.. well kind of first time? (link)
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i dont know much about sex, but i dont think your supposed to bleed afterwards. well, only a little, but not like a period. only like a couple a drops.
JP
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