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ok,(im 14 male and shes 13 female)and we were fooling around the other day.she was on top of me so on so on.I know shes not ready for anything oral or actual sex.I got really "hot and bothered" and i started undoing her pants and it didnt feal right.i asked her "are u sure ur ready"? and she says "I dont know not really but i REALLY want to beacuse i know itll feal good so im not going to stop you" i didnt want her to regret anything we did so i stoped.Did i do the right thing beacuse she says shes not ready but she wants to beacuse itll feal good?and should i ask if shes ready next time it happens? (link)
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You did the right thing. Good job man.
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wondering...
what do guys really think about having boners during class...&& while holding someones hands && while you guys around "girls"
thanks alot hope its not confusing... (link)
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Mike, you're an ass. I hope you're in an accident causing you to loose the penis that you don't seem to deserve.
That said, it's generally just kind of awkward.
It's kind of embarassing when somebody realizes the bulge in your pants, but once you get used to it, it's not such a thing anymore(it really doesn't bother me much anymore, even when somebody does notice, I don't normally even say much more than "Oops, my bad."). Personally, when holding a girl's hand I'll try to prevent her from noticing just because holding hands isn't generally a sexual activity, so I don't want to ruin a sweet moment with something like that.
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Now I have a comment to make and a question. Everyone will tell you how you shouldn't go for the sex and you shouldn't like the cuter guy. Now I know I live out the parts about the cuter guy being nice and all that. Everyone tells you not to do stuff, but in the end you end up not taking their advice at all. You end up doing the opposite. For instance I asked a question about should I like the boy who I've known since kindergarden or the hott one that goes to a diff school. Everyone says that the guy whos hott is a jerk but hes not. My point is it just cracks me up because you all waste your time writing how you shouldn't do things but in the end everyone always does the opposite. So whats with it? It's point less when people say follow your heart well you wouldn't be asking a question if you could!
So whats with all of this?
(I put it under sex cause people always answer the questions on sex) (link)
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Well, if you ask questions, then do the opposite of the advice given, you're still getting advice. You may not be taking the advice that people are telling you, but what they say is helping you decide. If somebody says that you shouldn't date the hot guy because he's a jerk, then you read that and you think "No, he's not a jerk, he's funny(or whatever he is)." and there you go, you've just made your decision.
For those who really know how to use this site, they'll realize that this site isn't for people to tell you what to do, it's for people to offer suggestions and advice, and you make what you will of it. They tell you something, you read it and think about it, and you decide yourself.
That's what's with all of this.
And when people say follow your heart, that might mean that you didn't give enough information and your question depends too much on your circumstances.
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