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My boyfriend is going to be 15 on the 25th and I am already 15. On june 5th, we will have been going out for 8 months. I feel comfortable with him and I love him. We have been talking about having sex but we just aren't sure if we should because of the ages we are. I know its illegal until you are 18 but we really want to. And also, what condems are the best to use? Please help!

it's not illegal hun, i had to do a report on teen pregnancy and a portion of it was how kids 11-15 think that it is illegal to buy condoms and have sex if you are under 18, its not illegal....PORN is illegal if you are under 18... and as for everything else, there really isnt much i can say to help you make your decisioun, just make sure he is the right one for you...

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ok..me nd my bf have been together for 7 months. just recently we had oral..and he busted...so he went to the bathroom and everything was ok. later that day, he fingered me. my period has always been irregular. im late a week nd my bf is freaking out. is there any way i culd b pregnant?

well you said you guys had oral right? and he busted...well unless he busted IN your vag , theres no way you can be pregnant...and same with fingering...okay pretty much, theres no way you can be pregnant unless cum went inside your vag...lol and if your periods are always irregular, then im sure you arent pregnant, no worries :) if you ARE still worried, juse buy a pregnancy test or go to the doctors to find out, they keep information classified :) good luck!!

-Jenn
JSIMT

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Well i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has had sex before and I havent (15/f). For the past couple of days I have really been thinking if i want to do it or not. My boyfriend is perfect, but im kinda nervous about the whole thing. Dont get me wrong, I do want to have sex with him, but its only been to months and i think its kinda soon. I have been sort of leading him on, but i really thought about it today and im jsut not ready. What ways can i tell him that im sorry for leading him on but im just not ready yet?????
Please help

well sweety, only YOU can decide whether your ready or not...but hey, if your having doubts about it, i honestly wouldnt go through with it :) thats just my personal opinion though, because if I were dating someone for 2 months and i REALLY liked him...and i was doubting having sex with him...i wouldnt go through with it just because if i were SURE i wanted too..i wouldnt have to question myself you know what i mean? Also, if you do decide to go through with it...just think about why your doing it...is it because you really likehim...or because you want him to like you more? Who knows :) lol and oh, one thing i would MAKE SURE to know...is if you guys are looking as if your going to be dating for a while, because some guys get sick of just one girl, but im not judging because i dont know him :) so just look out for yourself hun!!

good luck, hope I helped!

-Jenn
JSIMT

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Okay this is kind of a gross question.. but i'd like it know.. like when does someone finger you? like are u having sex, or just sitting there.. or something else yeah im really clueless on this whole thing... some people in my grade have been fingered and i'd just like to know what it is... thanks lol

being fingerd, like everyone else said is when the "significant other" lol puts their finger in your vagina. Well. It just happens, normally when your making out and your feeling each other up alot , it just happens, I know a lot of people whove gotten fingered in the movies , int heyre bed rooms, really just anywhere where no one can realli see...its a personal thing between 2 people :)

hope I helped!!

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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help!

Okay well if you just lost ur virginity, then thats the exact answer. When you first have sex, that screwes up ur entire menstrual cycle. My sister lost her virginity in January of 2004 , and after that, for about 6-7 months her period was totally messed up, she went to a gyno and he said it was perfectly normal for a person who just recently lost their virginity, so, if thats your case, dont worry hun!

-Jenn
JSIMT

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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..

Its all about you hun, YOU Have decide, you cant really ask people whether u should or not ( sorry if that sounded mean), if YOU want to do it, and if YOU think your READY...READY being the key word, then do it...but if your bf is pressuring you, which i dont think he is, but IF he is, you shouldnt do it unless you WANT too...hope i helped hun! byeee

-Jenn
JSIMT

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