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Q: ***probably not a good idea for guys to read this question.

I'm going to start off saying that before my boyfriend and I became physical we both were COMPLETELY pure (we were each other's first everything). Now to my question....

It seems like every time my boyfriend and I have sex the inside of my thighs and vagina gets irritated. A few days later I feel like I have a yeast infection. We have tried different brands of condoms and the same thing happens every time. We've even tried different kinds (lubricated, not lubricated, spermacide...you get the idea). The only time I don't get irritated in that area is when we don't use a condom (don't worry, I'm on birth control!!).

So, could I be allergic to the latex? If so, why don't surgical gloves irritate my skin?
here i know ppl hate links but this site may help you so check it out

http://www.estronaut.com/a/latex_allergy.htm

Q: hi i was wondering..how to give/recieve oral sex.like how to bring it up to your g/f. or what to say if you want it. and about giving it to them..do you just liek start kissing them and start touching them and stuff?

i hope whoever answers this understands lol..thanks : )
okay i am just going by what I've herd but get her in the mood but like don't ask hay will you give me a b-j right away wate kiss her and hold her and then pull back and kind of nod to your penis. don't be a smart ass and get a huge grin and raise your eyebrows just kinda gestures twords down there you know and if she doesn't get it at first then just ignore it and try it agen later if it doesn't work at all then I'm sorry i tried my beast

as for how to give to her-

A quick way to see if shes ready is to brush your fingers along her stomach, starting just under her breasts and moving down. Once the finger's there, you can immediately see what you are up against. There are 3 major things to check for at this point:

1- Density of the pubic hairs. Look for a trimmed or shaven environment.
2- Intensity of the excitement. Look for an advanced lubrication level.
3- Freshness or not. Look for a pleasant odor.

Once she has passed the finger test, explore a little further. Slowly go down her stomach and approach her to make certain that there aren't any unpleasant aromas. Remember: always have an escape plan. If there is an unpleasant odor, slowly come back up and play around with your fingers instead.


hope i helped even a little bit

Q: im 15 and i masturbate a lot it feels really good
and my penis sometimes stays hard for quite awhile
is this normal?
well the penis stays erect for as long as you horny so as long as your not taking "happy pills" then i'm pretty sher thats normal

Q: im 14 and ive got a really small penis whats is the normal size for my age?
the average size for a erect 14-15 year old male penis is about 4.5 - 5.0 Inches. When the penis if flaccid (Not erect) it could be anywhere from 2.0 to 3.0. Remember when the blood flows to the penis is makes the skin cells exspand and become larger.

Q: im 14 a guy and i masturbate quite a lot a few times every day i find it hard to stop its not weird is it? my penis is 5.5 inches long is that about the average?
no its not weird. your only 14 your going thew puberty and it's completely normal. and yes your penis is average size

Q: okay i have lots of questions!!
i've only like put the penis in my mouth, & ill go up an down for like a minute but then im too scared, i dont want to bite him..(my boyfriend, of 3 months) and like..what exactly am i spossed to do? im scared im not doing it right or it doesnt feel good
ask him! ask what he likes and ask if he wants you to try anything different

Q: i am getting marrie tonight and we both are virgin and dont know what to do,i am confused.but i am littel bit nurves also,that how can i have sex with a virgin girl,she is 24 and i am 25,and from where i have to start first lolzz
answer me please
chill okay your gitting married and you said your both virgins so your partner is most likely just as nervous as you are and it's the first time so its okay if its not the best sex ever. talk to your partner ask if they feel okay if it hurts or if theres anything you can do to make it better.

hope i helped a little!

Q: Hey. I know you guys hate these questions, I'm so sorry.

So, me and my boyfriend had sex Friday without a condom. Well, he pulled out, and it was a few seconds when he cummed. Well, I'm really worried I may be pregnant. What are the chances?
even if he didn't cum inside of you you still need to worry about precum so just to be take a pregnancy test

Q: okay so i want those jelly bracelets that are like meant for that sex game. i dont even want to play it, but i have one and i love the way they look and i want more colors, me and my friends wanna have friendship bracelets. this is what mine looks like.

http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u283/supermoeee/jelly.jpg

i want something like that or exactly that, where can i get them?

wall mart target hot topic clares some times the $ stor almost any were ^_^

Q: how hard is it to deep throat on an average sized guy? how does a normal bj compare to deepthroating?
same difference but most of the time when you give a bj u don't deep throat the thing is when you deep throat you have to relacks you throat so you don't gag on the pines and you have to work with the angle of the pinis

Q: Okay I know what a blow job is and everything.

But what do most guys like you to do when youre giving them one?
How long do they usually last?

Feel free to include anything else.
If you're dealing with a soft penis, you don't have to wait until it's hard to start the show. Put it in your mouth when it's soft (or semi-hard) to get acquainted. Kiss it. Lick it. Explore the different textures, especially the roughish tender head and the soft skin of the shaft.
You can do more wonderful stuff with your mouth than just suck (and remember--the harder you suck doesn't necessarily mean the better it feels). Mix it up by licking the sensitive underside of the shaft, the nerve-ending-loaded head of the penis, and the testicles. Softly blow on the moistened areas. The combination of sensations will feel incredible
Give your blow job a hand. Grip the cock around the base and slide it up and down, hand-job style, in tandem with your mouth. (Some folks like a tight squeeze, others may not, so check in.) This is great because you can cover a lot of the shaft this way without worrying about taking the whole cock in your mouth. You can concentrate on the super-sensitive head and suck as hard or softly as you'and your partner'like. Use lube for extra slipperiness.
Bring some toys into your routine. Experiment with cockrings, buttplugs, or little vibrators for some attention on the testicles and perineum. Hold a vibrator against your cheek to add vibrations to your mouth play. Or try sucking on ice or a breath mint to transmit a tingly sensation to your favorite penis. Again, check in with your partner to see how experimental you should be.

the deed is usuwaly finshed after the guy ejaculate It is ultimately your choice whether or not to swallow. Your partner's diet, health, habits and frequency of ejaculation will determine the quantity and taste of the ejaculate. The ejaculate of someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol or cigarettes, may taste more intense than that of a non-smoking vegetarian. The most ejaculate you might encounter is a teaspoonful or so. You have several choices if you aren't crazy about ejaculate, but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings:

* you can take it in your mouth and discreetly deposit into a nearby towel
* as your partner approaches climax, withdraw and finish with your hand.
* You can let your partner come on your body and admire the copious amounts of ejaculate
* you can use a condom

hope i helped=]

Q: i am a 12 year old male and my girlfriend and i have been going out seince new years eve and we think we are ready for sex. we have everything we need(condoms)
do u think we should?
i don't think you should because your only 12 and you have only been dating for 3 months maybe you should wate a few years be for you think about sex or at lest a few more months and maybe you should talk to your parents about sex and make sher you know all the risk of sex like STDs and pregnancy(not you her obviously lol) but seriously think it thew and talk about it with your parents.

but in my personal opinion i think you are way to young to be having sex.

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