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I'm Edith. I'm optimistic, and i've learned from my mistakes, i believe everything happens for a reason.
Gender: Female
Location: Californiaaa
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: rockmyworld212
Yahoo: chocolatecoatedhate
MSN: guyswhoweareyelinerarehot@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 3, 2007
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Last Update: October 18, 2008
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so if a guy jacks off and gets cum on his fingers then he fingers you can you get pregnat (link)
it's very unlikely, but not completely impossible.
stay safe.


hey, i'm a girl and i need some suggestions for masturbating. fingering myself does not feel good. i've had to use a variety of objects but i just can't find one that satisfies me enough. i have no access to buying or getting any dildos. i do NOT have a shower head to use.

anyone have any ideas or suggestions of things to use? please suggest household objects that i would most likely have. (link)
if you have a bathtub, use the regular faucet, let the water run very lightly or water pressure you prefer, lay on your back and spread your legs, this also allows you to be able to use your hands.


17/f. I asked a question awhile back: so much wrong.....no one cares. Well, I went to the doctor(this past Saturday) and now he's sending me to a psychologist. But it hasn't happened yet. And things are still spinning out of control. I cut myself yesterday. I just freaked and I wasn't really thinking. I know I have to talk to someone. Like really talk. And like that question said I talked to my teacher a little but it was just about the panic attacks. I trust him and I think I could talk about more. The thing is though, if I do, I'm afraid he'll like tell a counselor and then my parents will find out I cut myself. I can't let them find that out. If I talk to a counselor, I'm afraid they'll tell my parents. So my main thing is, to what extent is everything kept confindental? I need to talk to someone; I'm going to snap. Last week I was having suicidal thoughts(not too severe, I just didn't care anymore). And it wasn't like I attempted it. I feel like I'm losing everything and no one cares. (link)
maybe you could find someone on this website, who is willing to talk to you whenever you need someone to talk to.
they dont know you, so it would be completely anonymous and they wouldn't judge you.


15\f

my friend told me that having sex isn't even that pleasurable! It was her first time though...
I was just wondering; is she right? the first time doesn't even feel good? and when does it start feeling good?

thanks (link)
It depends on the person and what they enjoy, as the person below has said, the first couple of times aren't that great, but once you know what you like and your guy knows what you like, it's pretty pleasurable.


well i have braces and i relly want to give my bf a blow job but will the braces get in the way?if i do give him on will they hurt him? (link)
Everything should be fine as long as you don't like scrape your teeth along his penis, but you're not supposed to do that anyways. Things might be slightly more difficult considering you have braces, but everything will be alright.


15/f

ok so i went out with this guy for like a year and then broke up w/ him like right before summer. we got in like a huge fight and we stopped talking and stuff. now were like friends again and we talk.. not like a lot but we do talk. anyways we wanna like hang out soon.. but he wants to like hook up and im like fine with that. but he like wants me to give him a bj too..but like should i? or is that really slutty? i was really close with him i mean we went out for like a year. and like its weird bc now when we talk its like its the same.. like i still trust him & everything its weird. (link)
if you still have feelings for him, you shouldn't do it. you're doing this for him, but you aren't getting anything real in return. but if you don't like him as more than a friend go ahead, because in the end no one will get hurt. Good Luck.
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There are bumps on my vag, usually about 5 or 6 at a time (not all clustered like cellulite). Some of them look like pimples that match my skin color, and there's usually one or two that have the texture and size of a mosquito bite. There's also this one bump that looks kind of like a scar. It's about an eigth of an inch long , is several shades darker than my skin color, and is surrounded by a VERY VERY thin yellow-whitish line. and these bumps sometimes itch.

additional info:
-i am a virgin, so no STIs..
-i masturbate on average four-five times a week, depends on where i am in my cycle
-14/f

what is it, and should i be worried/get help? (link)
Well, it is indeed possible to get acne/pimples on your vagina, it sounds like some of it might be acne.
If you shave that area, it might be ingrown hairs or irritation.
Lastly, since you said you masturbated, it might be an infection, if you use your fingers, it is possible that your hands weren't clean, and if you use other items, it is possible that those items might have collected bacteria.
It could be an infection, and in that case you probably should get it checked out.




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