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Well im Dominican and i was born in Queens, New York. I live in Florida. Im 16 years old. I love my Hubby.....and i luv him to death! Hes my everything along with my nephew. Both of them are my pride and joy (no lie). I luv Winnie the Pooh.....(Thats my other Hubby). I luv the Yankees....Dont fuck wit that.

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i've counted up the days after my peirod and i think my boyfriend and i missed my ovulation days by a few days everytime. the last time we had sex and i could have been ovulation would have been on the 2nd of this month. and i took a test yesterday that came up negative. do you think i'll have a positive result later on? or should it have showed up by now?

Hey,

Well if your trying to get pregnant.....what you should do is have sex everyday and have him cum inside you. You HAVE to have sex EVERYDAY. Try to increase the sex on the days around your period that way you can have a greater chance of getting pregnant. You can also go to this wesite.....www.mymonthlycycles.com. In this websit you can track your period and it could tell you the date that you will be ovulating and you can do other things aswell. Its a really col website. Hope i have helped. If you need anything else just ask.

Gorda1224

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this is a very embarrising topic but i have a gf who has done numerous things to me (sexually) the problem is i truly dont know the perfect way to finger a girl.....very embarrassing but please help

hey,

well this is embarassing....lol....but its ok. The way to finger a girl is just stick your finger in her and just move it in and out and around. Start off slow and as she gets excited do it faster.....maybe you could eat her out while you finger her(if you want)......i bet she'll like it and maybe give you somethin in return.....;). hope i have helped....If you need anythin else dont be embarrassed to ask.....

Gorda1224

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ok well i have stared my period once and that was 3 months a go i have not had sex soo i am not pregnet! it worries me! i havent told my mom that i haent started in 3 months! because she know i have origanly started! is my body going haywire or somthing? and i gett alot of discharge still!

Haywired Body??

Hey,

I dont know if your situation is that your not getting your period everymonth at the same time......if thats the case....dont worry your period is irregular when you first get it. About the whole discharge situation i is goin to happen to you from know on......even if youdont have your period. Usually its b/c you have seen or thought about something sexual and it turned you on......even though you dont realize it. Hope i have helped.
*Gorda*

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Ok well today I had sex for the first time and it kinda went bad because it only lasted for about 5 min becuz my partners penis kept falling out!!! It was his first time to so I don't know if it was my fault or his..it was really akward after we stopped..because we didn't talk until I told him I was going home. I just don't know what to do should I call him or something and tell him im sorry? Or I don't know PlEASE HELP! ILL RATE 5's!

Hey,

Well you should defenetly call him. Ask him about what he was thining about after you had sex. Tell him that you enjoyed it even though it only lasted 5 min and tell him that you are still happy that you lost it to him(that should make him feel good). It is up to you if you would like to say your sorry, but i dont see that you have done anything wrong. The reason it probably kept falling out is b/c you were probably in a position that his penis could fall out from inside you. You should go to a websit that teaches you all kinds of positions. Just call him and talk to him about what happend. Hope i have helped.
*Gorda*

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just this year i decided to loose my virginity to my boyfriend of 10 months. the first two times we had unprotected sex. it freaked me out because i thought just maybe i could be pregnant. we have been intimate a couple of times more. truthfully, i wished i waited like i intended in the first place. i love my boyfiriend and i am 100% sure that i will marry him. but i am soooooo scared of the responsibilities that comes along with sex. i really wanna wait til we get marreid, or at least until we are finanially responsible for any "accidents". He loves me , and he said he will never be upset if i decided to wait. but lately he haven't been coming over. i think its because he knows i dont want to have sex. he is very persuasive and that scares me because 80% of the time i give in to him. i love him and he loves me, but i truly believe he will be very unhappy if we discontinued being sexually active.

Hey. Why dont you talk to him and ask him if the reason he hasnt been comin over is b/c you told him that you wanted to wait till you got married. If your absolutly positive that you are going to marry him, let him know how nice it is goin to fel when both of you are married and become intimate for the first time. But since it has already happend tell him that you would like to wait b/c you want to be prepared for any accidents. That you know that he will be there for you but you want to know that both of you are financially stable. Hope i have helped.

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I am a married women. Now I wanted to coceive . I went to doctor that what are fertility period ,she brief me but don't understand. As per my understanding I understand that My periods starts on 6 May,05 after 10 days like 15 May,05 till 24 may,05 is the fertility period you can do sex on those 10 days you will be pregnant . Am I right or wrong

Hi,

I really ont know when you would be able to concieve but i do know a website that you could go to www.mymonthlycyles.com......its really easy. all you do is put in all your information (around the time you get your period every month, how long does it last etc.) then it will give you the day that you could have sex and concieve. But like another person has answerd you if you would like you could also have sex every day and you would concieve.

I Hope i have helped!....GOOD LUCK!

~Gorda~

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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
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Hey,

Well I've been told by a doctor that the child always follows the mothers pattern when she first got her period. Example, my mother got her period when she was 13 for the first time didnt get it again untill 3 yrs later when she was 16. Im 15 now and i got my period for the first time in Feb of 2004, i recieved it March and April, 2004 and didnt get it again untill last week. The doctor told me that Im just a late bird and to enjoy it while it lasts. Butshe also told me the consequences, which are that if i dont get it i wont be able to have kids (im not tryin to scare you but its better that you know the truth. That is possible) Or with your mothers permission they may put you on birth control to regulate the cycle. Well i hope i've helped. You have any more questions just e-amil me.

Luv Always,
Gorda!

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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well.

hey,....the first procosion to take is make sure you want to lose your virginity. Losing your virginity is a big thing, just imagine how the guy you marry will feel knowing that his wife to be has not had sex before and that she is pure.....but if you think you are ready make sure you are losing it to the right guy. that hes not going to leave you after he has sex with you or that he will have sex with you whenever he wants after hes out smoking and parting. To tell you the truth it does hurt.....a lot.....but the good thing about it is that the guy is there to comfort you and hold you. And you do bleed the first time maybe even the second time. Well i hope i helped.....xoxo......good luck! if you need anything else be sure to email me!
**Gorda1224**

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