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My name is Kate Im from Ohio and I love to give advices and help out with all kinds of problems .

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Hi! well i had my pariod 4 2 years now and it ALWAYS herts and what kinda Of Pills i should take to get rid of it and is it ushall that there is is soo much blood thanx!

Hi,
I have the same problem as you do the cramps are just real pain. What I recommend that you should do is either take Midol,Tylenol or Advil. Midol is for period pain but the other can also help with the cramps. The blood is normal dont worry about that usually either the 1st day or the 3rd gets quite bloody but as days pass by it slowers down.. Hope I helped. If you have any more questions. You know where to find me :)
Kate

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okay
my b/f says he cares
but he doesnt act like it AT ALL.
i dont know wuts going on but like, ill ask him if he "wants" anything and he says w/e u want, and i have been asking and asking him and he never tells me and he has even gotten really mad about it, i dont know what to do, please help..i mean, we do all this shit in teh movies not sex, but other stuff and it seems like he always has other thigns going on...please help me find out what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

if he doesnt tell you maybe its because he is uncomfatble or shy. tell him to write down what he wants that may help.You need to tell him how you feel and that you want him to be happy with you and that your trying to make this relationship stronger by doing that so he needs to let you know some how he wants to be pleased, Hope I helped.Kate

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Recently, I've been talking to a boy who is much more experienced than me. Not to sound like a prude, but does it hurt getting fingered for the first time?

Yes it does hurt a little tell him when to slow down or stop. Talk him through it and everything will be fine. ♥Kate

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ok i have a few questions..

what store can i find a vibrator at?
(or a dildo..etc..)
about whats its price range?

will they let 13 year olds purchuse these kind of things?

any advice on how i can purchuse these things with out my parents knowing?
if it helps: 13/female thanks for any help i can get! i rate!

Hi,
You have to be 18 to purchase any erotic things. You usually find them at a sex store. It will be hard to buy a vibrator without your parents knowing maybe you can get an 18 yr old friend to buy it from you ?? Hope i helped. ♥
Kate

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hEy! i wanted to ask you this whats the % i could still get pregnet if
1. my boyfriend uses a condom and wen he cums he takes it out
2. im on the pill

thnaks..i want to be over protected!no babys for me!let me know if you know the answer! thanks!

Well see condoms usually protect 99% but you never know if it breaks make sure your on the pill and that you use a condom that is not to tight or to lose so it wont break or slip off then that way you will be sure everything is safe. Trojans are a good brand , if he cums inside you i wouldnt recommend that he continues thats not good even if your on the pill. Hope that helps . If you have any more q's I will be glad to answer ♥Kate

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well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?

no dumbass answers please

ill rate 5s if you give good answers

First of all this is a HUGE Step do not do it unless you truly love him and know he is the one! Because then you will feel bad about it so make sure you are making the right decision. Well ask him if he feels that you guys should make love ? . You need to ask him if he has had sex with anyone before and if so if he used protection but Guys always lie that they are virgins or that they used protection so i would suggest that you still get tested for just incase .Best protection would be Trojans , you can get them at the Free Clinic or any store,also buy birth control for better protection.If you have any more q's i will be glad to answer. Good luck ♥kate

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Im the 1 who rote about my parents u no about 5 questions down.

They do it at like 11 ocklock and they are so loud i no its normal but they are told and im worried that my mom might get pregnant and people will think badly at her and i cant talk to the normaly you no?

pleeze help me

I bet your mom is taking birth control or they are using protection she wont get pregnant. Try to talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you are worried about that issue. ♥ Kate

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i would like to know some pointer on what is the best way to give a guy a blowjob/head. like i know the basics but what would turn a guy on on how it is done and let him enjoy it more?

Hey if you click on this site
http://www.sex-project.com

and look at the left column you will see all kinds of topics from blow jobs to orgasms and on the blow job sections they explain everything. hope I helped. ♥Kate

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Umm...on my 15 b day my friend gave me a vibrator like a solid one and it got some scratches on it after a while and yet i still use it! one day i was using it and it started to be painful and when i hit climax, i noticed it had blood on it and i think i have already popped my cherry and i kno it wasnt that time of the month, so could the scratches on the vibrator be cutting me? Please help thanx!

Sounds like you did pop your cherry. If that vibrator scratches you stop using it dont harm yourself.Find a safe one! ♥ Kate

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Hello, I was just wondering, does masturbating had any health effects to it?

No its healthy but depending on you sex if you are a female/male, girls usually use sex toys and boys rub on their penises to get to an orgasm. just dont use anything crazy to hurt yourself if you do use something such as sex toys.Just dont over do it.♥ Kate

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