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my boyfriend is always pressuring me to have sex. i'm not a virgin, which i told him, but i dont think i am ready to have sex with him. i mean we have been going out for 4 months, but i really dont think i am ready for that kind of commitment. the last and first guy i had sex with was my first love we had known each other since we were 3. me and him are still friends and my boyfriend always gets jealous of me talkin to him. he also cussed me out various times in person and on the phone. i really dont know what to do about this and i KNOW i cant ask my mom cuz she would go and cuss him out. 17/f/ga (link)
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It sounds to me like you need a new bf. If he is pressuring you into doing things your not ready for, verbaly abussing you, and gettin jealous everytime you talk to one of your other guy friends, he doesnt sound like a good bf to me. Don't wast all of your love and tim eon a guy that isnt gonna return the favor.
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ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
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Lauren (link)
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It's not really normal becuz if you dont think your ready then thats not good. You should wait until your totally ready to try sexual things with your bf. You can't take bak wat you did...but you can talk to ur bf and tell him taht you think you guys rushed into it. He should respect you for that and if he doesnt..kick him to the curb
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ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after? (link)
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I'm not shure if it's normal but my advice is to go to ur doctor immediatly..juss in case
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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Just make sure that you are ready to lose it and dont rush yourself into it. Make shure that before you tell your parents that you need birth control, that they wont be dissapointed in you for wanting to lose it before marriage. In my beleif, I am waiting until marriage. If you don't think you can do the same, get on birth control right away. You don't want to end up getting pregnant. Just make shure this is a decision that you will not regret because you can never take it bak.
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do. (link)
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You definitly need to stop hanging around him. Stay as far away from him as u possibly can. And NEVER walk alone! Always walk with one of your guy friends or close gurl friends. Guys like this are really dangerous and you need to let your parents or another adult know that he's doing this. It's wrong and a felony. If he does it again, get help as soon as you can!!! Let some one know that he might be a rappist so that he can be stopped immediatley!
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Ok, there is this boy I want to have sex with but I dont know what he will say, and I dont know how I should ask...I trust him, all tho me and him arent realy like best of friends or anything, I dunno, I am so comfused, what should I do and if I ask how should I ask?? (link)
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Ok first of all how do you know for shure that you want to have sex with him?? Did it juss pop in your head one day that hes the guy you wanna bang?? I think taht kinda sounds ridiculous. And if your not that great of freinds with him then how do you know you trust him. I personally think you shuld calm down on your hormones and find someone you truly love and trust to give them your everything. If you ask this guy to have sex with you it will probly creep him out. Just calm down gurl, you got a whole life ahead of you...
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