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I'm a female and I wanted to ask to see if anyone knew of some exercises to tighten my vaginal area. (link)
it is long and agonizing process. and really, your vagina will be considered tight enough if your partner's penis have some force preventing it from stretching you out.

you can try to use a toy, insert it into your vagina, then squeezing it as hard as you can, and do this repeatedly. this will strength the muscle around your hips.


What is a painless way to do anal sex? (link)
personally i find the best way to ease the pain during anal sex is to do a pre-insertion with lots of lubrications. if you know you will be having anal sex, use your hands or a toy and gently give yourself a massage and slowly insert the toy inside your anus. it is much easier time if the muscle has been pre-stretched, giving you more focus on the pleasure.


is it wrong to be fingered at age thirteen? (link)
it is very normal to have a curious mind at the age of thirteen. i remember i was a rather curious teenager when i was 13 or 14. so long that you don't experiment inserting things into yourself, you do not want to break your hymen at that age. and most definitely never let anyone else touch you, as it is very unsanitary and rumors can easily arise from it.


What's your opinion and why? (link)
it's ok as long as you know what you are doing or about to do. if it is with just with one guy or girl, and you believe both of you will get some fun out of it, then why not? as long as you are not making a habit out of this, and have sex with a different guy each day, then it's not a big deal.


I have been married for 5 years and have never been satisfied in the bedroom because of this 1 thing. My husband is great but this is really weird. I have this fantasy of him having sex with me while I am sleeping. It would be OK with me if I woke up during it as long as it started while I was asleep. I know this is not normal but it's what I really want. How do I approach him about this without sounding crazy or creepy? (link)
being married for 5 years and sexually active throughout this time, i don't think creepy is a concern. crazy? that's what you need to make things fun. i think you could have a nice night together, watch a few sex flicks where sleeping sex is involved. then you could casually point out that it is an interesting thing to try. if he agrees, then there you go.


what is fingering? (link)
fingering is a sexual act where you pleasure/excite yourself or others by using your fingers. generally you stick your fingers, however many, inside your (or someone else) vagina or ass.


19/f, Do most girls not like giving blow jobs? I am really just curious because I love love love LOVE to give my boyfriend head, so I cant relate. I am just wondering exactly how lucky is my boyfriend? :P (link)
i wouldn't say most girls "like" it. some just don't mind it. if you absolutely love it, then your boyfriend is quite lucky because he knows that you will do the best to spice up your relationships.


Okay... since I broke up with my bf I am sooo horny. Haha. Before him, I had never masturbated but while we were dating he started fingering me and I kind of relied on it haha. Well now were done but I'm like soooo horny. And I don't know what to do. I really don't want to masturbate... But what else is there?? (link)
remember that masturbate is normal, and fun =) if you don't feel like fingering yourself, there are sex toys which you can buy, or improvise something to help you get the similar sensation as you would get during sex.




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