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hi im 16 yr old im a shy guy and im overweight and ive been trying to lose some weight im worried because my penis is very small can being overweight affect the size? will it grow? (link)
yeah im pretty sure weight could affect the size because your cutting off circulation. so loose some weight and im sure it will grow..your still young too so you have alot of years to let it keep growing


okay so when me and my boyfriend just make out and its gets....boring. lol. so is there anything that i could do to spice things up a bit?
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thats how sex comes into the picture




ever heard someone say "it just happened?"


JW..but.....are guys less attracted to you when your having sex and your vaginal area is hairy....jw

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depends on what guys like


most like it bald tho....

a hairy kitty is a smelly kitty




I asked this already but It happened again. for the fouth time Ive bled when my boyfriend fingered me. seriously can I pop my cherry four times. it soaks through my underpants onto my jeans too. it just bleeds right after. its really annoying and I dont think he is just breaking my hymen again and again. he did it one time but not for very long and not as intense and it didnt bleed. I just wanna know if it will stop or if its abnormal (link)
four times?
thats possible

but maybe hes just being to rough and keeps ripping you open if your really tight

tell him to be more gentle
....inside the vagina is VERY sensitive....


tell him to rub the clit more and stick his fingers in less....feels much better.

also make sure his nails are cut...he maybe cutting you if they are too long..


15/f ok this might sound really weird but i really need to ask this. i love to masturbate but i cant get any sex toys and im just using my fingers. i dont want my mom to notice that im masturbating. shes really against it, and so thats the reason i cant get sex toys. im really getting bored without sex toys and i really want to know if there are any household items that i can use to masturbate with instead. i noe from this i might sound weird but im really getting sick of having nothing to use but fingers. any advice would be appreciated! (link)
get a messager for backs that look like this


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okay . so i've been with my boyfriend [jayson] about 5 months , and jayson is VERY quiet and kept to himself. but i've recently found out he's "sexual" and has done "sexual" things in the past. and of course all guys at 15 are going to be sexual , but i thought jayson is different , hes always quiet and only likes to be loud and outgoing to me and his friends. so anyways, a couple weeks back he put his hand down my pants and kept going up my shirt and stuff. and no guy has ever done that so i didnt do anything back because i didnt really know how to react. but now my friends say i needed to "return the favor" and hes probobly upset i didnt do anything back. but the thing is, im ready to be sexual . but i dont know how? like what do i do? do i just stick my hand down his pants? what do guys like? exc... i wanna take it to the next level. but i dont know how to. any advice or tips? or what guys like? or what to do? (link)
everyone likes different things


you guys have been together for a while now so just explain to him you dont know what your doing and if he could help guide you along.



go with the flow and dont be scared to ask questions about what he likes and what to do.



always use protection if it gets to that level
have fun


My boyfriend and I are thinking of having sex. I'm a virgin. He isn't. He's been tested and he doesn't have any STD's or anything. Well I want to be on birth control, but my parents are really religious and I can't go to them about this. They will freak. So I was wondering is there a place in Oklahoma, Kansas, or Texas where you can get birth control without your parents? I'm 16 so I'm still a minor. I'm going to use a condom, but I want the best protection I can possibly have because I will not put myself in that kind of situation. (link)
try to find a friends parent to get some for you. because you need a doctors prescription. (or a trusted adult.) you could try to go to plan parent hood and explain to them your situation and maybe they will give you some but im not sure.


also you should really tell your parents.

tell them your THINKING about it and you want to be safe and you want them to know your being safe.


what should a girl do while being fingered so she doesn't end up just laying there and making the situation akward. (link)
adding to what that person said below me...she could start rubbing her body too.


i got fingured, the right side of my vagina swelled. WHY?! HOW LONG UNTIL IT GOES AWAY?! (link)
it like when you rub your eye alot and it swells. put ice on it..it will go away..i happend to me too so i know what im talking about..no worries! :]


is it more likely to get pregnant if you start your period while having sex? and your not using a condom?

or is it just like any other time? (link)
all i really know is that your most fertile on your 12th through 15th day. to figure those days out you count from the day you started your period.


but there is always a chance of getting pregnant when your not using a condom. period or not.


i've had my period on april 17th, it started april 17th and now i have some discharge, well it the discharge is usually clear liquid or kind of brown but now sometimes when i wipe myself there is some blood.....sometimes not a lot though only on the toilet paper....is that normal cuz i've never noticed blood it's usually just clear or kind of brown....it's kind of freaking me out....i am married i do have sex i know i am not pregnant for sure......is that normal or is something else going on....please answer as soon as possible any advice is appreciated. Thank you !!! (link)
are you on the pill? the pill can mess up your period track and you can get your period twice in a month or it can make you bleed a little bit. if you arent then i think you should go see your gyno. its probably nothing to worry about. hope everything is fine!


This is very embarrassing ok im 16 and my penis is very small just over 2 inches fully erect
im really embarrassed i had a gf and when she saw my penis she laughed we broke up and im feeling really low and im too embarrassed about being with another girl what can i do will it grow?
can i pleasure a girl? (link)
that girlfriend you had is messed up! i have been with a guy who had a 3 inch penis when erect and he pleasured me just fine so dont worry about that. guys penis's dont stop growing till about their mid 20's or so you still got ways to do. just from now on dont show a girl your penis inless your confident she wont judge you for it and talk with her about it before you show her and tell her your self concious about it. if she actually likes you for YOU then she wont care. but you can also buy male enhancement pills if you are gettin so self concious its effecting your love life. just remember there are girls out there who like little penis's.


Right so its a bit of an eww question - sorry guys.

Me and my boyfriend had sex today and I thought it would be fine, but I warned him I didn't know for sure whether I was off my period or not. So we did it - and aside from it all being very well and good I realised, after we stopped that the condom was covered in blood. I SO didn't want him to look but as he took it off it was inevitable and of course he saw. He went out of the room too so I have no idea what his reaction was. I also realised it had got a bit on the bed; not badly. He said not to worry it was fine - but as you can imagine I was MORTIFIED.

So... really, although I warned him beforehand and he said he didnt mind, I'm still utterly mortified and worried that he's ... well, utterly 'grossed out' about it. Ive been with him 1 year and 2 months and for someone who only turned 16 last year hes quite mature about these matters.

I'm still worried.
Guys, what would you think?
Or anyone, has this ever happened to you? Did it change anything? What would you think if you were him?

Thanks Advicenators :) (link)
ive had something close to this happen to me. i wont tell you m experience because it isnt neccesary haha but it didnt change ne thing at all between us. just made us closer because now i knew i could do anything infront of him and it wouldnt be as bad as that haha you guys have been together a long time so it shouldnt change ne thing. if you want to know my experience because of watever reason message me on my myspace [[myspace.com/keepgettingdeleted]]


is it better to have the skin on end of you penis cut off if its tight? kus i am in a class of girls and a couple of days ago they were all talkin about this sorta thing lol ty i'm sure theyll be intrigued to find out XD (link)
yeah because the penis is thicker when circumsized. well some girls find it better when un circumsized. so it all depends on the person.


My gf and i are thinking about having sex both our first time we are both 15 and im a bit nervous
ive got a really small penis almost 3 inches erect
im worried that i wont measure up can you satisfy a girl with a small penis? (link)
yess sir you can. the first time i ever had sex was with a guy who had a 3 inch penis too and wow it was pretty good lol you should have no problem satisfying her..inless shes loose. but you said its both your first time so highly doubt she is. have fun and use protection! and dont worry usually the smaller ones are better! good luck!!!! :]


OH MY GOSH. Alright so I tried waxing down there because I absolutely hate hair, and it was terrible pain. I don't like shaving because it gets itchy and they grow back in like two seconds. How can i get it to hurt less, or like numb it or something. I mean it's terrible pain. I'll take any advice I can get. Thanks soo much (:

14/f (link)
i use nair. it works pretty good and you stay smooth for a good amount of time and it doesnt get red bumps or make you itchy. becareful though. if you dont use it properly you can get chemical burns and trust me. THEY HURT ALOT!


Alright.. wow.
well i was talking to my bf and we've been together almost 4 years, and we havent gotten very intimate. not past 1st base, i've tried to go down on him several times and he just never lets me.
well, today we were asking eachother random questions, and I asked him what his size was.
well, it took a really long time to get out of him, but its because hes only 2 inches.

Well, that was akward.
What i want to know, is how much does it actually take to please a woman?
hes really self concious now, and i need like, statistics to tell him, something that will make him feel better :/
please guys!

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yeahh if you been wid him fo 4yrs den size definatly shuldnt matter n you need to tell him that or show him it dnt. he has been watchin to much porn n its gotten to him that big sizes please women. ill let you in on sumthin lil mama. i dun it wid a 2incher before n wen he got hard it was 4 inches. n im guessin you a virgin so even wen he get hard n turns to 4inches it gunna hurt. so you gunna b happy he lil n he gunna lubb it cause you will b moanin n he will get confidence cause he makin you happy.


i mer up with my boyfriend a few days after my period and we ended up aving sex. well the condom broke while we were making out and his pants were down.. [[i dunno how]] so i told hm we ccoodnt have sex. well he asked if he coodplz stick it in for like a min so i let him for like 10 SECONDS and he didnt cum until like 25 minutes later after i gave him oral... wat r the chanced im pregnant. plus hes never gotten a girl pregnant before and hes had ALOT of sex. [[ he was already tested and doesnt have anything so dont trip]] and he told me nothing came out.. so yea... (link)
your probably fine..just dont worry and if your period doesnt come on time then get your self checked


Ok so I got the Depo shot about exactly a week ago and I am supposed to have my period now[7 days later].We took a pregnancy test at the health place before I took the shot so i dunno. And it's still not here.Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex the day after I got the shot but he didn't cum in me. Why am I not getting my period, please help? (link)
how do you no he didnt come in you? every time a boii gets excited he comes...even just a little..
and maybe you are just stressed so its causing ur period to be late. or you could be pregnant. take a pregnancy test in a couple days and if it comes out negative then you are probably just stressed out
-ashleyy




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