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I am 15/f. I deffinitaly(sp?) know that I want to wait until marriage to have sex. But I have a couple of questions. First question: So you know how like, all girls bleed their first time? Well just say you had just gotten married and go to a hotel room? You just bleed on their sheets or what? What do you do about that? Second question: Well, I've heard a lot of girls say that it hurts the first time you do it. Well, it's not very romatic if you had just got married and you can't "do it" because it hurts, so then what do you do? I've just been wondring this because it just seems like it would be akward when it happens. Sorry if these are weird questions. Thank you bunches!

Trust me these are not weird questions they just seem weird because most people keep them to themselves. ( Not that you did anything wrong or asking them is wrong).

Well First- Not all girls bleed the first time, I know I didn't bleed. I am not sure if it was because I broke my hymen early on or if it was just because my body was different. Some girls tear their hymen through over-stretching or sports.

Anyways, I know it seems weird to just bleed on the sheets and then just leave it, but you have to let it go. It isn't going to be much, maybe a few drops, but usually nothing more. If you do get it on the sheets, it will come out, but don't scrub it yourself. Hotels know that this sort of thing could happen and that it does happen. They will wash the sheets like usual and if it doesn't come out, they put on new ones.

Second- The first time is always a bit painful, but not to the point where you can't continue. Your body and vaginal walls have to adjust to the size of your partner and the natural tearing of the hymen. It will hurt for a few minutes, but it will be a dull pain, one that will fade as your body responds and recognizes the pleasure.

All girls worry about these things and once you have done it, you will laugh at yourself for worrying! Just relax!

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~*~Trinity~*~

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what are some things that can delay your period besides pregnancy? i'm always 2-3 days earlier than i was the month before and i'm never late, but i am now.

Don't worry, it is natural for your period to come late or early.

A lot can cn cause this:

1) Stress-This is probably the main cause in irregular,early, or late periods. Just relax because you stressing over this will only make it worse.

2) New Diet- If you are changing your diet in an extreme way like cutting calories or carbs, or eliminating certain food groups, this can cause a change in your period.

3) Sex- Not saying that your pregnant, but usually when you start becoming sexually active or if you are just begining to have sex more frequently, your period can fluxuate, but that is typical. It is your body adjusting.

4) Just Because- A period is never predictable. Sure you might have your period come around the same time for years, but that doesn't mean it won't change. I used to get my period every month, now only once every two months. Your body is constantly changing, so at times your period will skip or become a bit irregular.

Don't worry you will get back on track. And a little tid-bit. If you had your age or whether or not your sexually active, or even your weight, all of this could help us more on advice.

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~*~Trinity~*~

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