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Is there any chance at all of a woman getting pregnant if the man wears a condom, without actual intercourse?
The penis would still be quite close (touching, probably) to the vagina, but not inside. (link)
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Whenever there is penile-vaginal contact there is a change of pregnancy, but the presence of the contact greatly reduces the chances by up to 97%. Being on the pill also helps, and doing both is the single best way (other than total abstinance from any sexual act) to prevent pregnancy and disease. But from the sound of things, you or whoever you were asking about is pretty damn safe! Good job! Incidentally, you SHOULD wear condoms even when there is no penetration or even ejaculation, because the sperm can still get in and there is often a bit of semen on the tip of the penis before the man ejaculates.
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please could u tell me what prison sentence someone will get for sexual abuse on a child of 10 years old (link)
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Depends on the age of the abuser and the State or Province in which the abuse occured.
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i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do. (link)
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ok, so far no one has given you any real counselling, so I'm going to try:
1. Did you use a condom every single time you had sex? A dental damn for cunnilingus if there was any? Protection, protection, protection EVERY SINGLE TIME? If the answer is no, then you must go to a clinic and get tested for AIDS, and various other STD's and STI's that you are at risk for.
2. Have you been to the gynocologist? If not, for heaven's sake, go! It is for your own personal health and safety and that of the baby, should you choose to have it. Also, if you choose abortion, you may need a referal from a gyno.
3. What are you going to do with the baby? From the sound of your question it sounds like you plan on keeping it, but you need to decide if that is the right thing to do. Can you support a baby for the rest of its life? Can you love it and care for it at all hours of the day and night, sacrificing your every desire to keep it warm and healthy? Can you provide for its health at all? Do you even want this baby? If the answer is no, then you might want to consider abortion or adoption. Many people posting answers to this said that abortion is evil, and many people share this belief, but depending on what country you are in you should have full legal rights to abortion if you want it. It is not in fact dangerous, it is a safe medical procedure that will not affect your future fertility and only you can decide if that is right for you. Not everyone is plagued by guilt, as some would have you believe, because abortion can be the right choice for both you and the baby. Talk to planned parenthood about this. www.plannedparenthood.org
Adoption is also a very real option for you. What happens is you contact an adoption agency during your pregnancy and tell them that your are however many months pregnant and that you wish to give the baby up for adoption. They will give you the names of couples or single people willing to adopt, and you will be allowed to choose the people/person to whom you will give your baby. In some cases you will be allowed to visit it and be involved in its life. That is usually the choice of the adoptive parents. This is all totally up to you. For more information on birth control, diseases, and abortion rights and procedures, here are some websites:
www.scarleteen.com
www.womenshealthcanada.com
www.womenshealthclinic.org
www.legaldirectory.ws
www.adoptionservices.org
I hope this helps you in some way. Good luck in the future.
And to some of the other people who posted responses to this question: What were you thinking? A pregnant girl came here looking for help and all you could think of to say is that she is a slut and that it is all her fault? You are not here to pass judgement, you are here to help people who do not have the answers. How she lives her life is up to her, and all we are here to do is help her make the right decisions in her times of crisis, that is, when she asks for help. She did NOT come here to be insulted and she is in a serious enough situation that I for one am ready to overlook personal disagreements with her lifestyle.
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I heard this ad on the radio for these parties... they're like tupperware parties, where women get together and buy stuff... only we're buying sex toys instead. Since I've got all these boring married coworker gals who are always inviting me to their make-up parties and kitchen selling things, I was thinking of setting up a sex toy party.
I'm totally serious.
Would this be a bad thing to do with co-workers? What exactly is a sex toy party? If I call the shop that's offering this thing will I get suckered into some awful deal my friends will never forgive me for? (link)
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Please do not do this. Please. You said yourself that these women are boring married women who throw kitchen parties, and you honestly think they are going to show up for your sex toy party and buy things, for themselves and their husbands, right in front of everyone? No, that is just setting yourself up for a major fall. I promise you this party will be a fiasco.
If you are set on at least trying, bring up the subject at work. Say "I was listening to the radio the other day, and heard about these sex toy parties" in a nice, neutral voice and see how they react. If they seem excited or interested, well, you could give it a shot and if they are disgusted, forget it.
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