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Now i know that it hurts the first time but how much? Like trying to stick 2 fingers up you nose? or like pin prick?

are you talking about fingering or sex or somethng else please email and explain what you mean by "the first time"

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This is hard to talk about im 14 and im very small in the size department its really worrying what can i do is there something wrong?

No there is nothing wrong at all.

Its just a matter of growth spert.
dont worry your time will come as it will GROW!!
I knw a 16 yr old who has a very small one and his should be coming very soon so DONT WORRY!

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my bf and i have been together for 3 weeks were 15 and we were kissing and gtting flirty and i noticed he had an erection and he realised that i noticed and he got really embarrassed and ran off
why would he?

Hey.

He might be scared that you will judge him by this or tell people about this.

He might be just really shy and not know what to do in this sitituation.

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im 14 and my penis is really small im really worried will it get bigger?

Yes do not worry!
You will have a growth spert soon i am sure because i know a guy who is 16 and has quite a small penis.

Don't worry it will get bigger!!

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lately i havent been able to have an orgasm. i masturbate almost everyday with a vibrator but the past 3 days i havent been able to orgasm and normally i orgasm everytime and really quickly? what's the problem?

Hey.

The problem may be that your not feeling the pleasure anymore maybe your body is getting bord of you using the same thing.

Try using something else !

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okay so I think that my boyfriend is going to finger me soon, and i really don't want him to find out that i've never been fingered before, but i don't want him to think i'm LOOSE as well.
anyway i can achieve that?

15/f

Hey..

So you havn't been fingered before which will make you "tight" ..down there if you know what i mean.

So you would'nt be loose if you havn't been fingered before..but you don't want to be tight either because then it would make it hard for him to finger you so i suggest you finger yourself just soo he can get in there!

Or if not then i think you shouldn't worry he'll find a way.. :D

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i masturbate 2-3 times a week ;; but it only last for a few minutes. is this normal? if not what can i do to make the pleasure last longer?

Yes it is normal.

You want yourself to have a orgasm for it to feel good.

To finger yourself longer you should rub the top inside bit of your vagina and when you feel like your horny or really into it start fingering yourself and if the moment goes away start fingering with one hand and with the other hand start feeling the top inside of your vagina.

Go on to solotouch.com
- click enter.
- say your over 18 even if your not.
- click on masterbation lounge.
- then look at the videos on the right hand side!

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im a girl i masturbate and i feel no pleaseure in it. how do i make it feel real good?!

Heyy..

You could rub the top of your vagina but sort of inside but at the top but im not sure what it's called.

You could find some objects around the house!

Go on to www.solotouch.com
- click on enter.
- then im over 18 even if your not.
- the click on masterbation lounge.
- Look at the videos on the right side of the page and watch the very first video choice as there is 3 differnet ones to look at!!

HOPE I HELPED

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when i masturbate i hit an orgasm, and i keep going and whatever and i never wanna stop but then like after 3 minutes, i just like stop masturbating sit up and go online.. is that normal?

Hey..

Yes it is normal to have a orgasm and not wanting to stop as it is very tempting.

Stopping after 3 minutes and going to do something else is normal.

Next time you could try going for longer and then you can try using some objects that will get you more into it!

HOPE I HELPED!

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So no! I don't have a guy in my life and I'm not about to screw any old guy. So how do I y'know plesure myself without buying expensive sex toys? I really need to know.

Heyy

You could try fingering yourself or find objects around the house to help you out but don't use anything sharp.

Find something circular and start from small objects and then find some bigger ones when your confident.

You can use a electric tooth brush but put a comdom or something over it..yes this one sounds weird but some people like it.

HOPE I HELPED!

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Ok so i need answers here! Me and my boyfriend were dry humping and i was wearing a skirt and his penis was out. I was kinda giving him a lap dance and my underwear was wet from what im thinking was myself. Im not sure if he came or not but what are the chances im pregnant? he fingered me before too but b4 there was any contact with his penis and im kinda hurting now cause i think he went deep. PLEASE HELP!And tell me can the sperm (if he even came) travel through my underwear and into me? Could i be pregnant and what can i do? Thanks in advance

Heyy

I think it's unlikely that you will bbe pregnant but if you are worried still take a pregnancy test.

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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

you should maybe talk to him about it because your not ready for sex and you shouldn't have it just because he wants to and he should understand beucase other wise he wouldn't be a very good boyfriend to you and if he is going to break up with you for that you have to think...
does he want love or sex?

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i can't take life. i honestly can't. every morning when i wake up i'll try to think of something good that might happen today, but the truth is it's just another damn day. where i'm still my miserable and lonely self. everything in life is too disappointing. I don't have friends or a boyfriend, well i used to have a "friend" but she always tried really hard to make me feel worse about myself. Just now she even asked my "why?" when after she said that guys stare at her 24/7 and I told her they do the same to me. She's such a hurtful bitch.

Every time i have a date set up w/ someone who is interested in me, HE BREAKS THE FREAKING DATE. So all my relationships end before they really begin. See it's just my luck.


I want to commit suicide but I can't because I'm afraid of the pain.

Please don't say anything like "Oh everyone feels this way sometimes." because i feel this way ALL the time. all the god damn time.


people ignore/exclude me whenever they can. i don't even do anything bad/mean.


and also please don't say "oh honey everything's gonna be okay things will get better!"


because i've already heard that too much.


therapists/counselors don't help me. i've seen too many of them. can i be put to sleep or something? like a dog? is that possible?


what can i do to take life? i just want to die so badly. don't say anything like "oh just pray about everything and it'll be okay." I'm not a christian and i never will be again. i'm agnostic because it's the only true religion.

it's not like i've had any horrible tragedies or anything, but i still am just as miserable as anyone who has had them!


god i want to die. help.

ok...i think you should join a club of som sort so that you can interact with people and make friends with people. People will start to notice you if you get out there atalk to people and join clubs and things like that. One way of meeting a new boyfriend is joining a club or just going down to the beach and talk to some one where there is only you and a couple of other random people .. ok .... you need to find something to join ..!!

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im 15 and been with my girlfriend for about 5 months and were getting very close and shes getting heavy ive held back a little mainly because my penis is not that big and im worried what she'll think or if she stays with me does size matter much?

heyy
ok soo you have been with her for 5 months ...
your next step is to explore eachother adn if she really cared about you and if she was mature size shouldn't matter.... you don't need to worry because you guys should ahve about a month exploring each other and knowing what you have both got to use!!

HOPEFULLY I HELPED

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ok..well i am VERY horny sometimes...and i'm 15 female...i have a bf who lives far away and i'm wait'n till marriage for sex. but what can i do to "pleaure" myself. i know of masturbation...but i dont want to use objects and i dont know what to do w/out objects...any tips? thanks

soo you want to pleasure yourself??
you can poke yourself with your fingers ..and u can use objects if you feel tht way but sometimes you will be tight and if you are start off using one finger then move onto 2 ....you can start rubbing your self "down there" first to get horny and then "finger" or called poke yourself if your a horny person.

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My boyfriend was fingering me tonight, I guess we got pretty into it. He's popped my cherry already, so I know it isn't that. But I started to bleed. I'm assuming he must have done it too hard or possible scratched me. (Its not my period either) So, I'm not going to do anything for a few days to let it heal. But is there anything else I should do? I shouldn't see a doctor, should I? Its not THAT much blood. Thanks!

you don't need to see a docter..

there are some girls that get "fingered" and they bleed don't worry your not the only girl that its happened to and you shouldn't worry about it just don't let him do it for a while unless your fine with it and it doesn't hurt you at all.

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