Hello, My name is Kelly, I'm 15. I'm no expert on anything, but I've been told I give pretty good advice. If you have any questions or need help with something give me a shout. I can't promise that I can solve anyone's problems, but I'll do my best to help.
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i wanna ask this friend thats a guy to a graduation dance at my school(8th grade/female) but weve known eachother since we were like 4 and i asked him out over the summer and he said no, cuz he just thinks of me as a friend. so if i asked him to the dance i think he would think i like him and would say no, but i dont. also he likes one of my friends but she wont go out with him. i dont want anyone to no i asked him especially if i say no because theyll think i like him, so how do i ask w/o everyone finding out, and how do i ask him? (link)
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Well what I would do if I were you is I would just explain to him that you don't like him like that, and that you would like to do to the dance with him just as friends. As for your friends finding out, there's not really a way to avoid that, but just explain to them to that you don't feel that way about him. As for asking him just call him up and ask him, or e-mail him. But if you want to ask him face to face just find a time when you can talk to him alone for a second. I wish you the best of luck, I hope I helped you.
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I just found out that a girl at school, I knew already that we werent the best of friends called me Rude, annoying, and bitchy while talking to one of my closest friends.
History of us,
we were never friends but we never were mean 2 eachother. Last year I had mono and was on medications, I had a short temper and she or someone else sai somthing thing that mad me mad or annoyed me. She said "you have changed alot since you were sick. nit for the best either. You are mean." I said stuff back 'this is the real me i didnt change. get used 2 it." i fell bad now but i didnt know what i was saying. now i think she hates me and I want to apologize but I dont want to seem like a goody goody who wants everyone to like them.
what do i do. please help me!
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Well 1st of all That's mean what this chick did, but It sounds like you want to be the bigger person and fix things. Good for you. If I were you I would tell her the things that she said really upset you, and your sorry for saying what you said to result in saying what she said. To me that doesn't seem to goody goody, it seems like the mature thing to do. Hope I helped.
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A really good friend of mine is going to the movies with this guy,tomorow, and i know all there gonna do is make out and touch eachother and stuff, it happened last time. She wants me to go, and i really wanna go too, and she said "bring one of your guy friends, itl be a double date!", and i said "okay!", but the truth is..i really dont have any. None..actually. I really wana go, and il feel akward if im really alone, and i dont want to tell her that im a loser! I dont know what to do, and i cant make any at school because i go to a school where theres no boys, and im really ugly so i cant really make any guy friends that want to kiss me. This makes me feel really bad, and shes so pretty so she could get like any guy..i dont know what to do. Ne suggestions, please? (link)
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Well hun, it sounds like you have a problem. But not just with guys, but with yourself. What you need to do is gain some confidence and realize that its not whats outside that counts its inside that really counts. Alot of guys are shallow, but there are some good ones out there, you just have to look around. But if you have some confidence in yourself, you'll feel alot better inside, and tons of guys will be attracted to you. *guys think confidence is a big turn on* And another thing, remember this. As girls we tend to be harder on our ourseleves than we are on everyone else. so basically you judge yourself harder than anyone else does, so everyone else doesn't see what you see. You might see yourself as a troll in the mirror, but everyone else could see you as a sweet, pretty girl. So don't be so hard on yourself. As for the guys thing if you feel like you can't meet anyone or you don't know anyone, talk to your friend. I mean after all she is your friend, and if she's truly your friend she will understand and try to help you out. Just because you feel like your friend is prettier than you, doesn't mean that you should be intimidated by her or feel like she's better than you. So just talk to her about how you feel, and I'm sure it'll be ok. Even if you don't have a guy to go with atleast you won't be having to keep your eye on some guy you barely know who keeps trying to go further than you want to go.
And p.s You don't need a guy to make you feel beautiful. Your beautiful with or without some guy.
I Hope I helped you some. Good luck and be confident.
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I have a great friend...we always talk about how we're gonna grow old together. But there's a problem. He smells extremely bad of bad B.O. I don't know how to tell him... people have come up to me and asked me to please tell him about it. I don't want to offend him...what should I do? How should I tell him?
Thanks a bunches for helping out! (link)
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Ok well he's your friend , so if you tell him more than likely he will understand. So just approach him one day *make sure its when you two are alone and can talk without interruptions* and say :Look if you weren't my friend I wouldn't say anything but I care about you and I want whats best for you. This may sound rude but you need to do something about your hygiene. Like maybe you need to find a new deodorant or something because your B.O. is really bad." Or something to that effect and if he gets mad just tell him you were trying to be honest and help him out.
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im way confused right now. my 8th grade year is almost up and me and my frineds are driftin apart because of me. i really like this guy that my friend likes but we never had a problem with it. now all i do is talk to him because he likes to flrt with me a lot and so i kinda leave my friends so i can only talk to him. now there kinda driftin apert from me. i no its my falt and i feel really bad. i just really like this guy and i like the kinda attention he gives me. i dont want to not be friends with my other friends i just dont no wat to do because i cant stop flirtin with that one guy i cant do it i like the attention to much. what should i do. (link)
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Well it sounds like something I once went through. I once liked this guy that one of my very best friends liked, and well to make a long story short we ended up not being friends and being without the guy we both liked. Now, I'm not telling you to not continue to flirt and like this guy, but to try and make more time for your friends. If things don't work out between you and this guy you like, its always good to have someone to talk to who knows how you feel. So don't stop flirting and liking the guy, just tell your friends how you feel and try to still make time for them also.
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