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I'm Mallory. Im 17 and live in central ohio. I love giving people advice because i think i usually know a good solution to peoples problems. My friends always come to me with their problems so maybe you should try it too!! :)
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okay .. i've been best friends with these 2 girls for as long as i can remember. when we got into middle school, they started acting all bitchy and ignoring me and my other best friends. they also lie ALOT and think they're better than everyone and talk about people who they're friends with. recently, something happened that wasnt my fault at all, yet they blamed it on me. i thought the best thing to do would be just to ignore them when they tried to be mean to me, but they just spread rumors about me and try to make it seem like i did something wrong, and go out of there way to make me feel bad. i don't want to apologize for something i didn't do. do you think there's something i could do to make the whole situation better ??
so this year i had friends like that....i stopped talking to them and got REAL friends...that made the school year a LOT better
7th and 8th grade i had the whole rumor situation and people being mean to me for something i didnt do. i just once again ignored them and got REAL friends. they eventually stopped. i know it sucks while its happening but if you have real friends there for you to back you up you wont even worry about it. i mean its all middleschool bullshit. its the whole POPULARITY thing!!! in highschool, there is none of that popularity bullshit!!! its better to be hated for WHO YOU ARE then to be loved for WHO YOU'RE NOT!!! be yourself and find people that can love you for you and stop just caring about themselves. they will stop and it will go away if you dont let them know that it gets to you! I PROMISE!!!
you could also just apoligize to them that they think that you did that but clearly state that you didnt. if they are still bitches..FUCK THEM!!!
This friend I know started to hangout with the "popular girls" I feel like since she sarted hanging out with them we arent as close as we used to be what should I do?
i used to be a "popular" girl in middle school so i know first hand...YOU DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM...THEY ARE BITCHES!! forget about ur friend and find some true ones....once you get to highschool, there is no such thing as popular and unpopular
theres this boy that i like. But his like my best best best guy friend. sometimes he flirts with me, we do everything together, his brother n'd my brother are friends... what should i do?? should i ask him out or should i wait until he makes the move?...
i say give him little hints here n there n see how he reacts....flirt with him n whatever. if he reacts good to that then joke about it like...oh yea i know you want me...stuff like that. eventually he'll get the hint n ask you out if he's into it too.