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i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not.she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore and today i found out that she gave him HEAD and that's she's not a virgin. If she did that to him then that's the only reason why he's gonna want to be with her is because of that. and if he finds out that she's had sex then he's gonna want to have sex with her as well. He treats girls like shit and i can't take it... she came up to me today saying "em, it makes me really annoyed that you say that stuff about rob and it's not even true." i was like okay... and you definately know first hand? she's only known him for a month... NOT EVEN! THEY ARENT EVEN DATING! should i just be straight forward and tell her what he's gonna want from her? or should i let her get hurt?
I think that u should be straight forward with her even though shes not believin what yoour saying. She may not believe you when you tell her what he wants from her,but tell her anyways-she at least deserves to know. If she doesnt believe you when you tell her this just try to forget about her becasue shes making a major mistake and didnt listen to you when you told her and you have known him and you found out first-hand. And if she decides to go ahead and do this with this guy shes not even dating tehn she will get hurt and it will be her fault and not anyone elses.
well ok i am feamle and i am a teenager... here is my situation i just bought some new under-wear and i have been missing them for a little while ...and i think when one of my frends changed in my room and that she took a pair of my under-wear...and i think i saw her wearing them (which is a little discusting) but i don't know how to ask her without sounding weird or stupid. What should i say to my friend??? Signed Don't want to point fingers or blame!!! Please help me as soon sa possible !! thank you
ok...well i definately think yu should casually ask your friend the next time you see her-oh did u happen to see my underwear or when u changed in my room-did u by accident pick up my underwear with ur clothes cuz i cant see to find them and i thought i saw u wearing them or sumthing like that.
Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??
Signed NEED HELP FAST!
Well i definately think u should let him know how u feel-however blurting it out may not be the right way to go about it. You can try seeing how he feels about u or seeing if he has special feelings about any other girls. Then if the timing is right(you'll know) just casually ask what do u think of us as a couple-i think ew would make a cute one-or sumthign like that.