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My girlfriend is cutting herself,she has been doing it for about a year.She is not as bad as she was but she is starting to think about it more and more,she says she is addicted and she doesnt know if she can stop, and she really wants/needs help.I dont know wat to do or say.What can i do to help my girlfriend? (link)
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first off.... u can take al of her razors away from her.. so she doesn't have much to cut with... it worked with my best friend...then if u wanna talk to her.. just talk to her baout openly, but if you don't, i'd say bring her to an adult that u both really trust...
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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ (link)
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definitly don't let it go. People can get real sick from being bilmeic! You should talk to her about it first... ask her if there is anything u can do that would convince her to stop. You can also tlak to someone like an adult u really trust. If your scared your friend will find out ur talking about her to someone.. then u can ask the person to keep it between u and tehm for now.. until u feel like u have a plan to help her or something... hope i helped.. if i did.. you can always leave one in my inbox!
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ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do (link)
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Well, i have the sasme problems sometimes in school and online. It happens to a lot of people. Online, you can always block the screen names so you aren't bothered by them. In school, your right, you can't ignore them, but you can always go to a teacher or a guidance counsler if your school has one. They can help you deal with them, and possibly talk to the bullies themselves. I wouldn't try to handle things by yourself though. That could lead to some sort of violent fight which is something you don't want at all. So my best suggestion is to block them online like i sai before... or talk to a teacher or guidance counsler when school starts. Actually, I've heard that if you are able to take the insults in and just say things like " thanks" after they insult you.. they'll get frustrated to find out its not fun to pick on you anymore..
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