Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx
you could just start ignoring her for a lil while and see if she even cares that you are doing this if she doesn't then yeah shes not a true friend..you could also do something to get her to notice you like dye your hair or something? then you should talk to her like if shes over at your house just tell her how you feel about what shes doing and tell her that its not only you that is annoyed by it.
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I'm 16, moving to college this fall, I have at the moment 3 people I consider to be my best friends... we're not going to the same colleges, but I never doubted for a second we wouldn't keep in touch, we've been friends for nearly 5 years, had our ups and downs but been solid for a year!
Well we decided a month or so ago we were all going to go together to get some piercings done! and tried to decide a date, it kept getting moved for various reasons... finally we decided wednesday but I found out I had an appointment on that day... and also needed to check with my workplace they didnb't have any problems with facial peircings... so asked if we could go next week instead... anyhow I found out today they went without me! the thing is, they didn't even tell me they were going... my friend said the other two decided to go because there was a party today and they wanted to show it off there... and she went along with them... now the thing is, I wouldn't have minded so much if they'd told me this, but I'm really hurt they value showing a pericing off more then going with their friend... and also that they went behind my back :(
What should I do about this? I have events and gigs coming up where I'm going with them and I don't know what to say to them or how I should react! I do tend to be a little emotional about these things but to me this is a big thing, that they chose this party over me!
i would be a lil emotional also if this happend to me..really i don't think you should stop being their friend or anything cuz then a whole buncha drama and everything and who really wants to lose a friend?..well i think when ur around them you would feel left out so just try to make the best of it and just forget about it
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people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do?
you should really just be urself but if your boring then go crazi.
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