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Hey! Im Jessica! I am 17 years old, and i love helping people out, my friends say i am good at giving advice b/c i am a good listener.. If i can help anyone let me know. Just ask and i guarantee i will give u an honest answer, b/c that is what u r looking for:)


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I have a friend who I like very much, but who has a habbit of asking me to call her because she's feeling low at really incovenient times. I want to be there for her, but it becomes problematic when I feel I can't fairly say no when she asks me to call for a few minutes because she's feeling low, even it's like 1am. If it really was a few minutes, it would be fine, but once she has me on the phone she's impossible to let go, because every time I talk about having to be up in the morning she talks about how people always seem to let her down when she needs them. I do want to be there for her, but I do need to sleep too, and I simply can't survive on talking till 2am or later every night to get up at 7am. How can I be firm about needing to get off the phone without offending her? (link)
just tell her, u have a long day tomorrow, and that u have to go get some sleep and u dont wanna let her go but u have to and tell her that u really do care about her adn ur not tryin to offend her by getting off the phone, and tell her u will talk to her about this tomorrow or another day and try to make it earlier.. or if she wants u to call her tell her u bout to leave and ull call her when u get in. maybe she will understand, or at least i hope so.


Okay so Im 15 and everytime I go to the beach in my BIKNI I lay down and try to get a tan, but I dont feel right around the other gurls , they gather and sit and talk about me, but althe other guys are trying to ask me outeven 2 years loder than I am.... LOL PLZ HELP ME Thanks Jenipher (link)
well those girls must be jealous, bc the guys dont talk bout them and ask them out, u should stand up to the girls.. or just dont let what they say bother u..


ok me and this guy just met this year and were already best buddies!!hes really nice when no one else is around but when hes with his "cReW" he changes his attitude and everything.i like him and i kinda think he likes me too but he wont say anything but then sumtimes when were on the fone together(which makes me soo happy!) he kinda drops little hints but then goes back to these two girls he thinks he might like but then he says he'll probly never get with any of em..and one time he asked me right before we hung up on the fone if there was anything we wanted to clear up..so how can i get him to tell me how he feels about me truly??? (link)
be brave!! ask him if he likes you, or get ya friend to do it! seriously, if he drops hints, that usually means hes interested, and just dont know how u feel. so either just ask him or be like i like u, do you like me. and if he says no, just look at it like this, u r still his friend:)


My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do? (link)
im going to be very honest on this. you should tell her, and then kick her ass. friends just dont do that to each other, thats just wrong. i think you should drop her, b/c she is a backstabbing two faced whore. sorry, but i am honest


Okay..me and my two friends crack and smack have a band crack played the drums but then he decided he wanted to play the guitar so he got into it. so we found a new guy, sven, that was into the drums so we got him..he didnt even know how to play..he bought a really expensive drumset and that was a while ago and he's still not good. Well anyways we just originally wanted the band to be me, crack and smack. so crack went back to drums..we've had band practice with just us three and sven just doesnt ever bother getting better with the drums. so we hadnt heard from him in forever so we pretty much figured he was out of the band...but just recently he keeps calling up and telling us his thoughts on how OUR band should be doing..and he think hes still in it..what should we tell him????we dont want him in the band!!! (link)
just tell him that hes not in the band anymore, that u found someone to replace him, and if you need him back you will let him know! just let him down gently, but try not to hurt his feelings




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