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Q: ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!

your friend should be there to help and support you, i understand y shes mad, cuz ive gotten mad when my friends have cut. but, she still shouldnt not be friends with you because of it, cuz she needs to realize that shes making everything even harder for you. you need to talk to your friend and tell her that u need her to be there for you since you're going through a hard time in your life. hopefully she'll understand. hope i helped!

Q: okay heres my story..what should i do?

i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!

at first i thought u were overreacting, cause u never no her friends could be really cool..but bringing his ex-girlfriend is just wrong. she doesn't sound like a good friend either, saying that she wont ditch you "completely"?! thats messed up..you needa talk to her about it and if she cant apologize and realize she was wrong..if she doesnt..u need to realize she might not be the best friend you thought she was. hope i helped!

Q: Hi my name is jessica my friend and i have known each other since 2nd grade now she thinks i called her a jerk so now its a big fight between us i tld her sorry but she said that it didnt cut it so i really want to be friends again what should i do

i know how u feel, the same thing happened to me. if shes gonna get mad over something THAT stupid maybe shes not a great friend..she'll probably get over it soon enough if you guys were friends for that long..just give her some time and if shes STILL mad, try to have a mature talk with her about it, and if that doesn't work, its her loss.

Q: Okay there's this person who I know and like they have always depended on me for like a lot of stuff since like 7th Grade and now were going to be Juniors in High school. but we never hang out like maybe ocassionally on a friday during the school year. and like recently they called me like at 1:30 in the morining for me to come pick them up and take them to my house and I'm not 16 yet and not legally to drive but my family is out of town....so they told me to pick them up from somewhere because they did something really stupid and didn't want to risk getting in trouble with there parents...but yet me get in trouble for several things....what would you guys consider this person?

i dont mean to be mean, but truthfully it just sounds like shes using you. i know it hurts to realize that but i think its the truth. if she only calls for you to get her when shes in trouble, i guess she trust you, but you still can't let her walk all over you like that.