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I'm 14 and going into high school this school year. I have been friends with this girl lets just call her Liss since...the end of 6th grade. We became best friends ever in 7th grade and then everything with her other friends went downhill from there. They all hate me and some have now threatened to kill me. I'm not scared, that has nothing to do with this but i'm making a point. I thinks he thinks she can't like me anymore cuz this has been going on awhile and she doesn't wanna get into trouble with her other friends when they do the same thing to her as me. COnfusing i know. Lately, she's been making exscuses not to hang out, she adds me in her profile if i ask her cuz thats how her pro works but she takes me out the next day and never puts me back in. I've told her this bothers me and she always makes up some dumbass exscuse like I had to take someone out there wasnt room. And i'm like i'm ur best friend take someone who isnt. I never said that but i sure did think it. The point is...i think her and i are starting to stop being friends and i dont want to. She's a wonderful person and one of my best friends and i don't wanna lose her to the people who she *THINKS* are her friends. They do seriously threaten to beat and kill me and her..but they are cowards and dont even have the guts to look me in the eye. They wont hurt us no matter what they say but i think she might be scared and stop being my friend just cuz of them. Help me..i'm all confused!
well, you need to talk to her right away. tell her that you've been there for her and a true friend through everything, but you're not going to sit around and wait for her anymore. don't ask her to pick sides, because it seems like she's confused right now, so she just might make the wrong decision and choose them over you. and while she's with the other people, don't sit around at home or anything.. keep yourself busy with other friends or activities. at least you'll get your mind off of it for awhile... hope that helped!! =)
This is for my friend there is this guy that is one of her good friends and he makes her cry by bringing up like bad memories and picking fights with her .. she's very emotional my friend .. and I always tell her that if he treats you like this he's not worth it and she understands but somehow she can't put him behind her .. like he calls and she forgives him she's wayy too nice and ends up getting stepped on but i don;t know if she realizes this and i dunno if i should tell her like i said she's emotional i dunno if she'll take it the wrong way .. thanx !
you need to tell her, babe. if she's very emotional, she might be mad at you at first, but she'll come around and realize that you're right. i'm sure you don't want to see her getting hurt in the end, so just talk to her. make sure to tell her that you're not trying to be rude or anything, and try to be as nice as you can about it. hope it works out!
ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high
tell her that by hurting herself, she's also hurting others. just because her uncle died, that doesn't mean that she shouldn't be able to live... that just shows that she should appreciate the little things in life. and i'm sure her uncle wouldn't want her dead! hope it all works out babe!
Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp
talk to her about it, babe. i don't think you should have to doubt your best friend... and if you do, then there's something wrong between you two. when teresa is with other friends, keep yourself occupied with other people. i'm not telling you to replace her, but it'll get your mind off of things if you keep yourself busy. =)