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Hey gorgeous ! im jenn! 15 yr. old grl from arizona ! ya its like the worst place to live.. but hey i get by! =) im really nice & understand and i love helping people with they're problems.. i always make people feel better if their down, cuz thats just the type of grl i am !=)
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Hi everyone so the problem is i have this friend and shes really nice but i cant STAND her, shes soooo clingy, but i cant tell her that because she will be all mad and bitchy. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! thanks bye -krodehtyllek
hey hun! ive deffinatly experienced this before pretty much! so i think i can help.. you deffinatly need to tell her straight up, you shouldnt be punished for speaking the truth and being honest.. honesty is the best quality in a friend & trust! tell her in person that you need to talk to her and tell her that she is really nice and everything but shes way too clingy, and that your sorry if that hurts her feelings but your just being a true friend by being honest..
* hope i helped =)
This might be a little long since I'm giveing you background info.
Ok, This girl named Dee (fake name) needed a friend at the time. I decided to take that role in her life. Every day there would be something new, example: "I hate my life", "Nobody likes me", "My stepmom did ______________ and made me __________". And it never ends!
So one day I decide to break the fake friendship tie that I had set up. And I went through with it. The thing is that she keeps coming back. She tries to be nice to me, says a perky "Hi!" everyday. The reason she does that is because she thinks she can fix it, but its way to late for that.
My question is: What can I do so that I have no kind of contact with her?
hey hun! im sry that she did that to you... but next time she says something like ' hi ' to you and tries to be all friendly just say look.. ive been friends with you , but all you did was stay depressed no matter what.. and im not that type of person to always be down..
let her know wuts up.. but in a nice way !
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ok i just got a cell phone, and my friend is going to the beach with my family so i figured her of all people would be happy for me since we can go do whatever while everyone else is somewhere else...and she wasnt happy or excited or anything she was just like oh ok cool. and shes normally never like that and then like the next day shes got invited to some special dance and she was all happy and kinda rubbing it in my face and all yeah so im going to the mall and stuff to shop for a dress. and she told me a while back that she would invite me to one of those dances but she never said n e thing about that. and like when i told her that i got a cell phone all i said was oh yeah guess what i got a cell phone! and she was like ok w/e...idk if i should tell her or what and now since this happend im not all THAT excited n e more about going to the beach together bc im afraid she'll be all talkin bout that dance...what do i do?
She IS doing that to make you jealous.. although you kno it bothers you that she didnt say ne thing about the dance...so i think you should just confront her and tell her " im sorry if i made you mad or something .. but can we have a great trip when we go 2 the beach without ne fighting or hard feelings " and tell her also to be open with you- and let her kno ur open minded too.. hopefully that'll help eachothers friendship! good luck huN!*
ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!!
hey gurl.. let him know b4 anything happens.. or at least try and let him kno that nothings true... And if he's a true friend he'll believe you- and everything should be good! * hope i helped a lil! *
ok well my friend and i always have liked the same guyz pritty much and then shes always able to go out and tell them and she ends up going out with them and i get all sad n stuff and then after they brake up i dont like that guy anymore and then we end up liking the same guy again ((cuz we tell eachother who we like)) and she did the same thing again and then now she likes one guy and i like another guy and she flirts with the guy that i like but shes always saying that she doesnt like him and the guy that i like is the guy that ive felt best about so far and then he might like her but im not shur and i really want to be her friend still its just im pissed off about the fact that she keeps stealing the guyz that i like and thats why my friends keep making fun of me that i still dont have a boyfriend yet and i dont know wut to do? wut should i do?
i think you should have a talk with her and tell her if she really doesnt like the guy that you really like then why is she flirting with him? if she says she isnt say i know what flirting is and thats what you're doing.. dont say it in a rude way.. and just say i really like being your friend but it seems like you steal all the guys i like. . and that is not very cool of her to do that. Dont let her make fun of you either.. * hope i helped *
my best friend and i were spray painting our bikes. Her father comes out in a rage. He starts hitting her and she was screaming for him to stop. She used a bit of foul language towards him, but he was really hitting her. the mom had to try and calm him down.SHould I get help, tell someone or just leave it alone? I don't want it to seem like i'm in their family's business, then again that is my best friend she was crying histerically but i couldn't see her because he told me to leave.
i really think you shouldnt' leave the situation alone. I think you should get help thats not ok to leave the situation alone.. I know most people would do anything for your best friend and im sure that hurt you when you saw what happend.. so yes get help. hope i helped*