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well my bff asked me 2 make-out w/her man so i did the next time at skool me and my bff"s man were in a library and he made out w/me he cam on 2 me and now my Bff is PISSED at me and now we r in a BIG fight wat do i do?o i forgot the night b4 she presured me into fucking her man but i didn't. (link)
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okay, well first of all why is your friend trying to get you with HER man?? thats got me a little confused. But, if she pressured you in the first place to make-out with him and then , HE tried to make-out with you again after. That NOT YOUR FAULT, and you need to just sit her down and try to explain to her that HE came on to you and that it was only because she had you make-out with him b4... and, you should also tell her that its kinda weird to get ppl to make-out and fuck her men. but, if thats how she is then she needs to learn not to get jealous because if shes gonna start stuff like this then she needs to deal with the consequences that came out of her actions. because if she didnt have you make-out with him in the first place then this wouldve never happened and you guys wouldve not been fighting. and, i also think that no matter how much your friend begs you or w.e. that you should make-out with her man, because it leads to drama like your in now.
i hope i helped you at least a little.. and i hope things get better with you and your friend =]
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My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.
What should i do? (link)
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okay,w ell maybe she doesnt mean to always ditch you, maybe things just come up. but i think that in this situation you should forgive her, because if she realizes shes doing it and apologizing fr it then at least she trying not to be mean about it, and maybe she just doesnt remember about plans or w.e. ..
so, i think that youshould forgive her but talk to her about the fact that it aggrivates you and ask her why she does it all the time, and tell her that you dont really wanna be ditched all the time.. cuz its annoying and its hurting your feelings etc...
well hope i helped =]
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EVERYTIME i like a guy, flirt with a guy, a guy flirts with me, i get a chance with someone......
MY bestfriend goes after him. EVERYTIME!
she's a lot more "easy" & "pushy" with guys than i am and she'll do things like hook up with the guy i have a crush on at a party when i'm not there.
I HAVE confronted her about it and we fought for about a month....i found new friends.....BUT she's my favorite person to be around! i ALWAYS have a blast with her and we both laugh at everything. The problem is she's NOT loyal. i told her that. and she apologized...i gave her a second chance....We made up and she promised she would work on it. A year has gone by and NOTHING has gone wrong!
except for now....for about a month we have liked the same guy. the ONE weekend i go out of town....she hooks up with him!
she calls me and tells me omg he's so cute. we're so cute together.....but the thing is....................i "can't" get mad because......no one had a "label" on him! for the past week they've been texting and hanging out and AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH it makes me SO ANGRY!
if they ever break up.....i can't "go after him" because it's my bestfriends ex!
SHE RUINED IT FOR ME......
i keep saying.....whocares just find another guy....but it's HARD when you've been liking one and flirting with one for a month to just to move on while you watch your FRIEND WITH HIM!
I LIKE HIM AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
and when i want to go out to lunch...i always call her and we go and laugh and have a blast......BUT I CAN'T BECAUSE
1)I'M SO PISSED AT HER
2)SHE'S ALWAYS WITH HIM NOW
so i go hangout with other friends....but they aren't the same
i'm STUCK (link)
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okay, well for one shes not a true friend if she knew that you liked him and was tlaking to him so pretty much just dont fight with her but try not talking to her and maybe she will realize that you are really pissed at her for doing that to you.Because real friends dont do things like that. well, i dope that i helped and i hope you feel better. Try not to let it bother you, or at least not let it show as much. because trust me, i understand. it will help.
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My best friend has been acting really weird. And today I asked her if she likes me or not and she says no because I was talking **** about her. And I never said ANYTHING about her! I asked her who said it, and she said she wouldn't tell. She said our friendship is over, and she won't even believe me, even after I swore on my cat that died! Now I'm in tears! (link)
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okay, well im pretty much going throught the same thing except my friend told me who told her and what i said.. but i still didnt say it about her. i told her that i wasnt lying adn i swore on everything i loved and she still didnt beleive me.. it sucks when you lose your best friends over stupid stuff.. beleive me.. just look to your other closer friends for help, get their opinions on what to do and try them out. and if you can just try to get her to talk to you so that you can try to sort out the problem so it can be over with,., well i hope i helped =/
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what do i do if my best friend is going out with my exboyfriend? (link)
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okay, well for one; your friend is not a backstabber, you and your ex borke up.. hence the EX part... but yea i can understand why that would bother you. But, if you think about it, if she is your best friend then you should be happy for her, that he and her are happy with each other. SO, pretty much the only reason that this would bother you enough to wanna do somethin about it.. that means you still have feelings for him, even if you don t wanna beleive it.
But, if you feel this strongly about them bein together then you should take your friend to the side one day and tell her how you feel and that you feel like shes backstabbing you by dating him.. she shouldnt take it as that bad of news.. but then again she might depending on how she feels about the situation.so be verrry subtle about the situation.. like no yelling or anything, she might get mad =[.
i hope that i helped in some way..
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before, i posted about my friend being over obsessed with her camp friends and making me and her other school friends being like backup. i think im going to talk to her about it, but i dont know how to say it casually without hurting anybodys feelings. what should i say!??! (link)
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hey, im in almost the exact same situation my BEST FRiEND (no names) goes to a campground every summer... almost ALL summer and i feel the same way, but if you think about it you shouldnt even say anything you should just let it go because it is probably better that she gets a break from her friends shes with all the time because then it will most likely help by you 2 not getting into fights or drama etc. because usually when people hang out with each other all the time they tend to get into more fights then when they dont.. so think of it as a positive thing..
on the other hand, if you feel this strongly about it, bring it up in a conversation ( say if she brings them up ) throw it in casually and just tell her how you feel, if shes truly your friend she wont get mad =]
i hope i helped =]
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My friend is not really bipolar, but she acts like it. One day she will be nice and funny to me and everything will be good then a few days later she acts totally different like doesnt talk to me as much and stuff this happens alot What should I do? (link)
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it could not be her fault, i mean it is obviously her reaction but maybe she could either be going through something or maybe somethings just wrong with her and she just cant change or do anything about it.. ask her if you want to but you might be better off not, depending on the situation... get into a conversation and if she seems to be in a good mood then ask her whats been going on with her or if she needs to talk about something with you and then tell her that youve noticed shes been angry lately and you just wanted to make sure she was okay, she will respond better to that than bi-polar
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