hey my name is Sam and im just ur typical teenage girl struggling with boys, friends, school, family, and the drama of high school. dont be shy to leave on in the inbox ill answer just about anything :)
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a girl in my grade named anne, whom i know (I am friendly with her, but not really friends) told a friend of mine (elle) about these pants, and then elle told me about them. i went to the store & i really like the pants. they are very distinct jeans with flowers all over them. i really want them, but anne has them already. would it be bad for me to get these jeans? anne isn't in any of my classes, and she's a nice girl, but i still don't know if it's okay (I AM NOT GOING TO ASK HER). i see her on occasion at the end of the day. these aren't just any pants, they are very cool with flowers down the leg & on the butt. do you think anne would get mad? do you think elle would be like "you bought those pants after i told you where they are from & anne already has them!" do you think anyone would be mad or do you think it's okay to buy the pants? THEY ARE SO COOL! (link)
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i honestly dont like buying clothes that i know people already have, but thats just me. however, if someone i know buys the same pants i have, i wouldnt care. the pants r cute and i think you should buy them if you really like them. dont be afraid of anne or anyone else getting mad because your entitled to do what you want.
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Please only answer this question if you're not mean or a smart aleck, and you're mature. Thanks!
Anyway, I have a friend that I've known for many years. Her parents are going through a divorce. I know she's hurt, and I want to be there for her, but here's the catch.
I've noticed that we're growing apart. She hasn't talked to me for a long time, except for the few times we've talked on AIM, and I started all of those conversations. She hasn't tried talking to me at all, and we haven't talked about the situation, even though she knows that I know about it (She wasn't the one who told me about it). It's been weeks since I've been aware of this.
At first I wanted to give her time, which I have, since I haven't said anything to her about the situation. Now, I'm fed up.
I'm sick of us not talking. She has made no attempt to talk to me, even casually. Like I said, all AIM conversations were started by me. I want to help her, but I can't if she won't say anything to me about it. I just wouldn't feel right starting up a conversation about it because I'm unsure if she is ready to talk about it.
What also irritates me is the fact that we've been friends for so long, and yet she (like I've said) hasn't tried asking for my advice or anything. I feel like I'm not a good friend; like she doesn't feel that she can open up to me because she's embarrassed (or for whatever reason), even though I don't know if that's the case. What I'm saying is that she should know that she can come to me, talk to me and ask for advice, and not be embarrassed.
It makes me sad that I can't be there for my friend, and that she's not talking to me. What should I do? Please help. Thanks so much! (link)
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its obvious that shes upset about the divorce, and i think thats just the cause of all of this. since she wont talk to you, you should surprise her with something. for example, go to her house early on a saturday or sunday morning while shes still sleeping and kidnapp her and take her out to breakfast. that would be a lot of fun to cheer her up and also at breakfast you can try talking to her about the divorce and also about how u feel about your friendship. hope this idea helps youu
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I need help. well actually my guy friend does. He likes this girls that lives in P.A. but she wont go out with him because of the distance. Hes been really sad lately(or at least i see sadness) and I never see him smile and he never hits me like he used to when we would play around. What can I do to make him happy again? I really miss him being happy. So if anyone can help me... please help. I miss him a lot... :-(
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you should try taking him out to do something that you know he always enjoys...something to really take his mind off of things. also let him know that your always there for him to talk about anything. this should make him feel better. good luck! =]
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hey guys well my Best friend moved away a little less than a year ago and we talked every day.. until a couple weeks ago we started drifting away and its sad its like she doesnt care any more. soo im looking for some quotes that are like about best friends who drift away and its sad and you miss them or something so if you have any thank you.. (link)
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try going to wittyprofiles.com under friendship, they have a good selection
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ok im in a lot of trouble...here it goes, me, one of my best friends staci and her cousin nick got drunk at a party at her house(were all 13 and this is our first time getting drunk)...her aunt let us drink...so me and nick had like 5,6 straight shots and staci only had like 2. so me and nick were smashed and staci was a lil drunk...we went on stacis trampoline and we finally fell and were just laying there...i dont know i was being weird and was saying shit like"i love you guys, your the best, im glad we did this together." and i looked over at nick and we started hooking up he had his hand on my ass and i didnt mind, i had my hands all over him(not on his dick or anything) and we were making out for a while, my other best friend jessica likes him alot. but i was so drunk to even remeber that. staci finally relized what was going on and pull us off of each other and we were like what are you doing stop..and then she started freaking out and was like i need to call jessica i need to call jessica..and nick was trying to talk to her and i was like nick i love you and he was like yea i love you to..and he looked over and gave me a lil kiss. well jessica came over to stacis house and put me to bed and i fell alseep
this is wat nick said to staci about wat happened
-he said i was ontop of him and he would of stopped but he couldnt(while we were hooking up he kept saying i love u to me and he could of said stop, so that was a lie)
-staic said someone was holding her hands down he said he wasnt(like i said my hands were all over him so his one hand that wasnt on my ass must of been holding her hands down)
so now staci and jessica hate me and they believe what nick says and he was lying and they wont believe me..i cant even look at them any more and i tried to tell them when you get drunk you dont really relize whats going on..and jessica said she asked her sister and her sister said that u do relize whats going on when your drunk im soo mad and upset at the same time..i dont know wat i can say to jessica and staci so they know im sorry and that i was drunk and it wasnt really my fault (link)
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i think that you should first talk to nick and ask him why he would lie about what happened, and to please tell your friends the truth. I know you were drunk when it happened, but that isnt always a good excuse. just talk to jessica and tell her that you never meant to do it and that you never meant to hurt her. just try tlking to her about it until she understands. hope this helps ♥
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