My problem is this: I used to work in a restaurant with a lady we will call Dee. Dee and I became the best of friends, even after I quit we would talk 2 or 3 times a day on the phone. The problem was that Dee had parties all the time and I was never on the guest list. This went on for fifteen years. I had confronted her about it a couple of times and got very evasive answers, Like you don.t know my daughter (after she was having a 300 guest graduation party). She also had jewelery parties and I love jewelery more than anything. I also have to explain around Halloween she lied about passing out candy when i told her I was bringing the kids trick or treating by her neighborhood. (She didn,t want me there) I have to say as well that I don't have parties at my house. And one more thing Dee did invite me to a pyschic party she was having an hour before it started, just because she was short on the quota of 10 people and needed my 35.00. A really strange thing to is she used to always invite a friend of hers who she always complained about. Why I am writing is because I miss my friend, this was the only problem we had and its bazaar to me. We now haven;t spoken for six months, after she was telling me about another jewelery pary she was having. I don;t want to go back to this hurt, But if we are friends again I don;t know how to get thru it. Because if I get invited I donot want to go. please help I really feel used because maybe she just wasn't my friend
Before you decide if Dee is a true friend or not, I think you should try talking to her again. If she just ignores you or is rude to you, that's a sign that she's not a real friend. She might be showing off to you or something. Who knows, she may have talked to you just to 'pass the time' or she had nothing better to do or something. If that's the case, forget about. You don't need people in your life who cause you pain. Although the people who you love the most, may even cause you more pain than anyone else. Again, I think you should nicely and calmly confront her again. Why don't you call her about chat about how she's been or what she's been up to lately? I know how it feels to be excluded from something, so you're not alone. :) If you do end up moving on from the past, who knows, she might come 'running back to you'.... You never know what you have until you've truly lost it. Telling or showing her that you feel hurt, she might get some sort of sick and strange satisfaction from that. When she realizes you don't care anymore, she might come running back to you as I said before. Or maybe she's embarrassed to introduce you to all her other friends? Again, you'll never know the truth unless you talk about it.
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I have a profile on Facebook and under my friend suggestions is this guy that I went to school with since pre-k to 8th grade. Ever since I first saw him in pre-k I thought that he was really cute. We became not so much friends but in between acquaintances and friends. The entire time I went to school with him everyone thought that I had a huge crush on him, but I only thought that he was cute. I dont know if I should be friends with him or not. Im afraid to ask him to be my friend because Im afraid that he will say no. And if he says yes Im afraid that my schoolmates will make fun of me again for being in love with him. Im friends with all my schoolmates so its hard sometimes. I would ask my best friend but he's her ex,so I cant. Anyway and suggestions to what Im dealing with can help. Thanks and please help me.
I think you should definitely add him on Facebook! Maybe you could leave a note when you add him, like "hey! I didn't know you had a Facebook!" You shouldn't care what your ppl at your school will say. It's not like they personally know the relationship between you and him. You can try telling them that you don't like him, and if they don't believe you and still make fun of you, then so be it. At least you know the truth, don't let them get to you. You should also tell them how you feel about them teasing you. If they were your real friends, they would listen to you and understand. If he does add you on Facebook, I think you should try talking to him, start a conversation! Whether it be in a comment, or in a message. Don't just add him and not talk to him! Adding him in the first place would've been completely pointless then. If he decides not to add you, then that's ok, don't dwell too long over it. Just move on. :) Don't let social networking websites get you down. It's really easy for them too, like if someone doesn't add you, or your not in their 'top friends'....
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well, my bestfriend who is middle eastern hates where she is from 16yrs and says she dosent wanna date any guy from afgan, but she tells me (16 &asian) right now she only is attracted to asian guys maybe cause, r we hang w/h them too much.the problem is, she says no asians will ever fall for me! and im gonna b single 4 ever! i told her some asians are open to different race,and some asian guy will like her, what do u think?/ any asian guys out there willing to date out side their race? esp middle eastern?
Race shouldn't even matter. Your friend just hasn't found the right person yet. If she likes someone, she should get to know them better. I've seen asian guys being attracted to someone outside their race. Some people might not date outside their race cause they may be nervous, but still that's not always the case. The person you date really depends on the person. Maybe your friend should hang out with other guy friends? Then get to know them better. I'm sure someone will be interested in her, but you just have to find the right guy, even if in the future he might not be the one you spend your whole life with. People are different though. Like some asian guys are interested in any type of person, or maybe they're just interested in dating the same race. Again, race shouldn't even matter.
Hope this helps! :]
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me and my friends are going to the mall for my party and im making a scavenger hunt list. all my friends are in groups and we have cameras and whoever has the most pictures with/doing the things on the list wins . i have a lot on my list already so i need some really crative ideas. what can i put on my list of ideas?
ill give an example of one of mine:
take a picture with a naked mannequin
thanksss. be creative!
Hey that sounds really fun :] I hope my ideas are good xD
1. Take pics display beds
2. Someone could kiss a mannequin [sp]
3. If you have a kiddy rides in your mall, you can take pics on them. :P
4. Pose as The Grudge on any stairs (if you have them)
5. If you have a Victoria's Secret in your mall, you can take pics with like a bra or underwear on your head xD
6. Take pics in a men's fitting room, but make sure you can tell like if it says "Men's fitting room" include that title in your pic.
7. Take a pic in a stores' window.
8. Take a pic with a random person in or in front of a certain store.
9. Try on guy clothes and take a pic of it lol.
10. Find a random person with a certain characteristic(s) and take a pic with them. (You don't have to do up and ask them for a pic, they can just be in the background, but their characteristics have to be visible)
11. If you have plants in your mall, take a pic of you/people hugging the plant.
12. Take a pic in a rack of clothes.
13. If you have the store Von Maur, and there's a piano player, take a pic with him/her, but try not to distract them while they're playing. :P
Those are the ideas I could think of. xD I was thinking of my mall so your mall may be different. Keep in mind that my ideas could result in you and your friends getting in trouble so do be careful :] if you do some of those things, don't make a big scene and attract a lotta attention to you. Don't get caught either. xD Have funn!!
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i have a group of imature friends that i have alot of fun with. but there's a problem, their all total pot heads and trouble makers and then i have a group of friends who are still wierd but not like them and they are a better infuence on me. should i get rid of the pot heads even though some of them arent so bad...they're still my friends, is that all that matters?
Hehe I'm a very bad influence on my friends :] But you don't have to dump them, unless they're pressuring you to stuff that you don't wanna do, or might get you in trouble, or if they constantly get you in trouble. If you have a lot of fun with them, keep them around. You have to have fun every once and a while. They're still your friends, and that's what matters most. But if some of them ever get involved with gangs, drugs, crimes, or anything bad, you should stay away from them, because then they'll want you to join in in all the "fun". So keep a lookout :] You're probably a good influence on your immature friends, maybe they'll change a bit, try to encourage them to do better.
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she always complained about life but she never tried anything to change it. She hated everyone. I thought we were good friends but she just wanted to go out with my boyfriend. She kept trying to break us up. Grrr Idk
I don't think she's a good friend =| if she was she wouldn't do that! If she wanted to go out with your bf she should've talked about her feelings with you/about the situation she had instead. Friends shouldn't interfere with your relationship just because she would want to go out with your bf, but probably really believed that he was a jerk or something. Hope I helped and hope you get what I mean! ;] xDDD
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Does anyone know how to copy a comment and put it on your 'about me'
if you understand what i mean.
how do you do tht?
lauraxomichelle is right, but there's another way, if you can, (if it's a pic comment) you can always right-click on the pic, then click on properties, and copy the part where it says Addresss (URL): http:// fdhgdfgdfgdfdg.com/hfhf.gif or something like that! Copy the URL and place it in the code that lauraxomichelle provided.
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There is this gay little child i happen to know who is the biggest jerky fag EVER!!! He keeps saying that i'm a flirt which i am SO not!!!! The only people i flirt with are people i like and people i think are cute. So in my defense i am writing a letter to express how i feel about this.
Just ignore him! You know it's not true so just don't let it get to your head. Get over it and move on, tell him to STOP and if you do write a letter tell him how you really feel and how it's impolite, or if it hurts your feelings, or if it's just annoying!
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