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Hey im a girl who expects everyone to give to me. i love giving advice..and also i like to recieve it in the right situations. i love to help the people who are in need. in fact wen i am older i plan on being a teenage pshycologist. i am also a very shy girl wen i dont know you, but when i get to know you, i open up and will speak greatly to you. i have gone through sum issues jus like ne body else. i have survived them issues and still standing strong and working hard to never have them again. I would except any subject or ne question, i love to help but hopin to actually help you. there may be times where i dont kno wat to say but later on i will. i will try to answer those questions to my fullest. if you would like any advice please dont hesitate to ask them.

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Judi my friend. is avoiding me. I don't know why. What do I do?

--Confused In Maryland

I would talk to her and ask her why she is avoiding you. thats the best way. i dont think its right that she is avoiding you and not telling you why. try to confront her about it and ask her why. hopefully she will tell you wats bothering her.

good luck.. :)

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I am so frusturated today. I'm usually giving advice, but right now I don't have any for myself. I have been best friends with this one girl for 2 years and I'm really close with both her and her daughter, but she is constantly using me and lying to me. Finally I got fed up of her and called her to tell her she only cares about her self and then hung up. Does this diserve an apolgie? I don't plan on giving one, but I wanted to know what everyone else thought.

umm..well its good you got it out but you could have been harsh alil bit. and if you think your totally right dont apologize cuz obviously its the truth. but if you want to continue being friends wit this her you apologize and say tht it just needed to come out and you are sry for it. but thts if you want to keep being firneds in my opinion. but make sure she dont get attitude wit you bbecause of all this with you maybe apologizing.

good luck hope i helped ..sounds kinda confusing sry

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ok, well..theres this boy that i like and i dont know if he likes me, we used to lived next to each other and we used to hang out EVERYDAY but, thne he move and now i only see him at school, but we talk on the computer and we call each other reguarly, and he acts normal around me and when someone else is there with us he acts different. He had a girlfriend, but my friend told him that I liked him and the next day he broke up with her, my friend says he likes me, but i dont know, cause it's been a week since he broke up with her and he hasn't asked or acted like he likes me, and the day he bokre up with her, he said "so your going out with 'blahh' and i said wat? and he said wrong person, sorry...does that mean anytything?! does he like me?

he may like you. the looks of it seems liek he does. and he is just droppin hints prob. wait a lil longer then u shuld ask him how he feels bout you or you tell him how you feel. he broke up wit his gurl possibly for you. so good luck with it and hope i helped.

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Ok so i have this friend...and I think he's bulimic. I saw him eating the other day and when he was done...he threw up and it looked like he made himself throw up.

What should I do? Should I confront him about it? Tell someone? Both? Please help, im really worried about him.

I would confront him before you tell sumone. cuz it may not be true. and if he tells you or you see it happen again, i would go to sumone and tell them. dont be worried jus be there for him every step.

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OK so I am 15/f and a tomboy, or at least every body says I am. When I was younger I really was a huge tomboy, but now I am more like a sorta tomeboy sort girlly girl. The problem is I have a couple crushes and even asked a gye out once, but everybody is like oh see isnt a real girl do not go out with her. I don't have any sisters just three brothers and I really want a BF. I want to make out with somebody I know that sounds slutty but please help

well i would start doing more girly things to show you are a "girl" even tho you are. And maybe change the way you look, like dressing more girly to. if you want a boyfirned you gota start doing tht stuff. make people change their minds bout you. People shouldnt judge anyways. but if you want to have a boyfrined.thats what you have to do.change their minds.

good luck..hope i helped

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I have this friend he's a guy hes one of my best friends and everyone time he goes out with another girl i sorta get jelous i dont know why though...i just cant really figure out if i like him more then a friend

well it seems to me..tht you really like this guy. or that you just can see him with another gurl becuz they might take him away from being your bestfriend..
if you do like him ..u should also tell him how you feel..

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ok.. so im 15/female.. and most of my friends are girls with a few guy friends. whenever im around guys.. its like i want to talk to them, but then again, im afraid of what there going to think of me. i want them to like me and decide to be friends and everything.. but i dont know how to act so that they would think that i want to be friends! ive tried just forgetting everything and to be myself.. but then theres that feeling that im afraid of what they think of me! what should i do to be myself without that feeling? how can i get more guy friends?

well like you said, just be yourself. If they dont like you for who you are. they are not worth being frineds. you dont want to change yourself for others even if its bout the opposite sex. Dont care what people think of you. That us just a waste of time because they will actually like you if you just be yoursellf and not sumthing you arent..
hope i helped/

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I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her?

I think you should stay best frineds with her. You can have more then one best frined. if you know she doesnt have alot of close friends and it would be the end of the world for her, why would u want to do tht to her. stay frined wit her..and still meet knew people she will understand

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