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Q: so my friend is like super hott and i am not a lezbo and she doesnt think so but she tries to kill herself and i have tried to like help her out but i am running out of ideas and i dont know what to do but telll her i am there for her and her friends are too but she wont belive me and i am kinda going through some of the same things like her away message is like i am going to draw a picture on my wrists i will do it with a razor and after all of my problems will go away i used to do the same thing after my dads accident but i dont any more nd i think she will do something she willl regret........................HELP
You need to tell someone.. yes, she may get mad at you but would you rather have her mad.. or her dead?? tell your parents or her parents or someone you trust! Get her some help before she harms herself!

Q: I dont want to be left out from my friends...how do i make it so im happy and im loud and boy crazy and just described as "awesome" please i really want to be outgoing and like this!
i'm always left out with my friends.. but i've learned that if you have to change yourself just so they will notice you more.. there not worth it.. if you really want to change yourself, then try being funnier..and just loud but not to point where they don't want to be near you!!

*jEn

Q: we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.
Honey..i've been wondering that for years!! I haven't hung out with my "friends" since school ended...my so called "best friend" moved to cali. and forgot to call me when she came to visit. i tried calling her and she never answered. i've learned to just go out on my own and figure out how to do that.. i play on a softball team and i've made "real" friends there...and we hang out all weekend. Try joining a team or get involved with activites that you can make "real" friends... if there is such a thing!!

Hope i've helped some!!

*jeN

Q: why is it so bad for a white person to say nigga ? is it ohk for a spanish person to say it ??? i mean black people do say it to each other ... and they're aloud to call white people wiggers and white people spicks ? ummm ....
well okay you see there was this thing back in the 50's called segragation. And at that time black and whites didn't get along. So most black people find it offenseive for whites to call them that!

*jEn

Q: I would greatly appreciate ideas for activities with friends. Please give me ideas that need to be planned (Ex. 6 Flags, baseball game, party, waterpark). Also please give ideas that are fairly spontaneous (Besides shopping, movies, pool, park, minigolf, bowling, going out to eat, and hanging out at someone's house). Thanks so much!
Waterparks are always fun! Espically with your friends. If you want to be spontaneous and just do anything throw a party, do a scavenger hunt around you neighborhood, do anything that will let you have fun! That's what the summer'z all about!

*jEn

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mmm.. well i'm 15 years old! i go to Alan B. Shepard. I am now a Sophmore!!! yay!! i Love softball, singing, dancing (when no 1 is watching), hanging wit friends!!! I am a Chad Michael Murray-acholic and i REFUSE to go to rehab!! I am also in love with the t.v. show ONE TREE HILL!!! if you wanna know anything else just ask!!

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