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hey im kelly im from MA my fav things to do r write, act, playu the drums, run xc and track, read, other stuff too. uhh i like to just hang aroiund with friends go places the usual, anyway send me anything if anyone needs ne help or advice. ill try the best i can to give you that.
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okay well i have a friend i never see only like once and my new best friend is in my class and all the time online my friend who i never see always says your ditching me. im like no im not! but she still says it. and its really annoying how do i get her to stop (link)
talk to her calmly and explain how u feel, why, and just tell her u feel like shes accusing u for something u didnt do and that she can trust u and stuff. also, this prob means she is feeling a little lonely so u might want to invite her n ur other friend or just her and all hang out, have some fun and just becuz u dont c her u could still giv her a call or something. good luck hope she understands


Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!

-Andrea (link)
don't do it...you will get in trouble


ok my best(guy) friend just told me he liked me. i was gonna tell him that i kinda liked someone else but then he sed that. ive always kinda liked him tho. and now he wants to not go out but he wants to just hong out and know that we both like eachother. thats fine with me but im not sure if i like him. tomorrow we are going to the library and he wants to know if i like him or not. i told him that i would think about it and tell him tomorrow. im not sure wut to do cuz yea i kinda like him but i kinda like someone else to. and that someone else is his bestfriend. i dont want to say that i like him cuz i dont think that would be fair. but i dont want to say that i dont like him cuz thats not the truth. please help

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i rate good!!! (link)
be honest. tell him exactly what u just told me, except who you liked. i am postitive he will understand, especially if he is ur friend. just tell him u like him, but u like someone else too and you hope he understands and doesnt get the wrong idea. good luck, and dont worry about it.


I have two best friends. Let's say their names are Jill and Kate. Whenever I am going to get together with Jill she is always forgetting about our plans and then gets together with Kate. The other day this happened. I called Jill all day and she wasn't answering. I called her cell phone and she was shopping with Kate. She told me that tomorrow we could get together. I called "Kate's" today and talked to "Jill" and she said that she was leaving Kate's in an hour and that we could get together at her house. She never called me. I called her house and her dad said she wasn't home and I know she is with Kate. I am so sick of this. I cried for 2 hours yesterday. I was so mad! I love my friends so much, but they are always hurting me. I tell them how I feel and they consider it and then do it again. I need your advice. Please help me! I am so sick of it!

Signed,
Tired of Crying (link)
ok ik how this is and i think u should find a good time when you are with both your friends and talk to them calmly about it. tell them exactly what u just told me and explain how you feel like a third wheel. i think they would understand if they r your 2 best friends. if they dont at first, remind them they are doing it again. this is a habit that will be difficult for them to break, so give them time but not too much. you should invite them both together places, instead of just one so you can all get used to doing things together. if none of this works, and they dont listen to you, they are not true friends.good luck


I want someone to talk to during the summer while im away from my friends. I have a pen pal but I would like another one. I am a 13 year old female. (link)
my sn is x6xkelx9x...IM me


Ok, so heres the deal. I've been bestfriends with this girl since I was 11 now Im 18. At the age of 15 we stopped talking for a year because we went to different highschools. Well now, I can't stand to be around her because she lies a lot. And it will be about stupid things or even serious things that you wouldnt lie to your bestfriend about. For instance being a virgin or not, how many people you have had sex with, how much you drank...etc. to the stupidest stuff like how much you spend on a car, how many hours you work, how much your getting paid, hitting an animal in the road n making a story up about it. I tried to confront her 3-4 times before but she gets mad and makes a big deal about it and claims she will never lie to me and stuff. Now that I've had a boyfriend for about 7 months shes thinking I dont hang out with her anymore because of him when its not that at all. Granted I do hang out with him everyday but we will go to parties, watch movies, stuff like that. With her we would sit around or go for a drive n she would usually end up dropping me off at 11 cuz she didnt feel good, was tired, and stupid things like that. My curfew is 1. Everythign she says now I doubt and I'm starting to believe shes a pathological liar. What should I do because everytime I try to talk to her she just turns it all around on me. And when I dont wanna do something like go away with her because Im not allowed or go to the club she tries to guilt trip me sayin that shes second best to my boyfriend and that I never wanna do anything. I've talked to my other friends and they all agree with em n say that they dont liek her but use her for a ride. My betsfriend doesnt know that. What should I dooooo? Hope thats not too complicated for you to follow i kinda rambled on. Thank youuu (link)
i have a friend like that. i would sit down with them and explain to them that u like them for who they are and it doesnt matter how much they lie and everything. tell them exactly how u feel calmly and nicely, and that she can trust you. hopefully she will understand. she might just like the fact or lying or she feels better about herself when she does. this might be a habit that she has so bear with her and hopefully she can break it. good luck with this hope i helped


okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!

-so confused- (link)
hello ther diana. lol ur a physco its ok i just talked to them they arent mad ne more


Anyone here from Minnesota??? Just wondering cuz i'm so bored and I have family over but i'm just kinda hidin out =/ (link)
whats ur name


This is the worst thing that has ever happened to me, my best friend that I've known since I was 2, died. She was in a car with her boyfriend and two other friends when a drunk driver crashed into them, killing everyone. I was supposed to go with Kelsie, my best friend, but I'm not allowed to go to parties that she was coming home from. I feel guilty and so depressed shes gone. What do I do to get over my best friends death?! Thank you (link)
im very sorry about your friend. if i were you i would try to remember how your freind would want you to be, happy right? if i were you i would see a counselor, they can be really nice and help you work things out like that. i wish you luck with everything.
*kelly




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