I'm so jealous of my friends. Whenever they talk about going to parties or their sexual experiences I just can't stand it. It makes me so angry. I've never done any of the things they've done (I realize some of those things are lies, but they all aren't. Especially if they can back up they're story.) Even things as simple as going on a date. I've never had a date or a kiss or anything. I've never been invited to a party. I've never done anything worthy enough to tell a story about. Unless you count "you had to be there" stories, which I don't. And it gets so bad that I get pissed off at them and I can't even be around them any more. So my question is: How do I get past my jealousy? How do I get rid of it?
i'm assuming your friends are guys...if they arent this isnt going to help. guys like that are really immature...they're so insecure that they need to brag about all the stuff that they've done to someone just to feel great about themselves. its stupid. feel proud of yourself for not ever having to be in a compromising situation like i bet some of your friends have. also, you could just try asking your friends to not talk about that sort of stuff around you. if that doesnt work, try to tactfully change the subject to something more comfortable.
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Okay there's this kid James who goes to my school. I see him as a friend but all my friends thinks he likes me. The thing is, he's not exactly what you would call friendly. Sometimes he's just really mean to me when I don't even do anything. Like this morning, my friend pushed me through a door after gym class, and now all he does is say "go run into the door" and at the end of the day I just said "Hi" and he's like "F**k you." Whenever he, or anyone, does this I get all upset sorta. I'll go "Jeez why are you so frickin mean to me?! I've never even done anything to you and you're still as mean as heck to me" When I do THIS he laughs like he was joking to begin with just to see me upset. But other times he's really nice to me. It's really confusing me.
Does he like me or not??
yeah ok...i know someone like this..we'll call them andy...he used to be really nice and then yell all types of insults ten seconds later...people like this arent really good friends, they're usually just insecure about themselves and by insulting you they feel better about themselves. by being nice they get the feeling that they're good reliable friends. its kinda hard to stay away from them but just remind yourself that he's using you to boost himself...i'm 14/f too
hope it helps
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